Embracing Team Conflict: A Catalyst for Growth and Innovation with Mark Wavle Episode 1

07/18/23 • 37 min

Ready for a deep dive into the intricate dynamics of team conflict? Let's dissect it together. I'm your host, Greg Miller, and joining me is Mark Wavle, the brains behind Unstuck Agile. We've put our heads together to bring you a fresh perspective on conflict in team settings. We're not shying away from the tension, we're embracing it, unpacking why it's absolutely crucial for creative and innovative projects.
Conflict isn't just a thorn in your side, it can be a catalyst for growth and learning. We'll walk you through just how avoiding conflict can stifle progress and breed mistrust. Learn from a company that welcomed open conflict, and the unexpected outcomes that ensued. Hear about Mark's personal experiences at Unstuck Agile, where he's taken on the intricate dance of initiating conflict with higher management. Understand the science behind our reactions to conflict and the tools you can harness to navigate through it. We challenge you to discard old notions of conflict and adopt a growth mindset, fostering a culture of learning in your teams.
BTW: This is Mark's second round on the show that's how awesome we think he is!
Contact Mark Wavle:
https://www.unstuckagile.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/wavle/
Don't miss Scrum Day, scheduled for Sep 14, 2023, in Madison, WI, at the Alliant Energy Center. Morning keynote using Liberating Structures by Keith McCandless followed by break-out rooms including speakers from Stanford University and the authors of "Fixing your Scrum". Afternoon keynote by Dave West, CEO of Scrum.org. Scrum is a team sport, so bring your team and get your tickets at www.ScrumDay.org. Hosted by Rebel Scrum. Find the training you've been looking for at www.RebelScrum.site.

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The Huddle: Episode 2 - The not so pretty side of labeling others!

In episode 2, we continue our deep dive into labels. This time we uncover the dangers of labeling others. Mark and Greg share stories of how they've labeled others in their own lives and consequences they've had to deal with as a result. We explore labeling others limits us to seeing just one aspect of the individual, and prevents us from seeing the entire person. We also discover how labels can change others perceptions of themselves with often disastrous consequences. Mark and Greg wrap up by providing some tips on how to avoid using negative labels on people. So, join us as we wrap up this series on labels, and reveal the negative side of labeling behavior.
Don't miss Scrum Day, scheduled for Sep 14, 2023, in Madison, WI, at the Alliant Energy Center. Morning keynote using Liberating Structures by Keith McCandless followed by break-out rooms including speakers from Stanford University and the authors of "Fixing your Scrum". Afternoon keynote by Dave West, CEO of Scrum.org. Scrum is a team sport, so bring your team and get your tickets at www.ScrumDay.org. Hosted by Rebel Scrum. Find the training you've been looking for at www.RebelScrum.site.

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Mark Wavle on Redirecting Arguments into Active Listening: Episode 2

Ever thought about how to turn a potentially disruptive disagreement into a constructive conversation? Well, we've got insights galore from Mark Wavle of Unstuck Agile who's graced us with his wisdom and experiences in the realm of conflict management. Get ready to soak up some real-life instances and practical solutions that you can apply to your day-to-day interactions.
We tackle topics ranging from the essence of effective communication to the potency of reflective listening. Mark shares the importance of suspending judgment and understanding the other person's perspective without starting a debate. We take this lesson further by emphasizing empathy as a tool to demonstrate understanding, and the use of 'I' statements to manage conflict. Taking a leaf from Chris Boss's book, Never Split the Difference, we underline the concept of tactical empathy, backing up the idea that understanding and being heard is what everyone seeks.
Towards the end, Mark brings his Agile leadership experience into play, providing rich insights relevant to all aspects of life. We delve into creating an environment that favors listening, the implications of using the word "you" in conversations, and the advantages of beginning with low-stakes dialogues. So, brace yourselves for this enlightening episode that transforms conflict into an opportunity for personal and professional growth.
Contact Mark Wavle:
https://www.unstuckagile.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/wavle/
Don't miss Scrum Day, scheduled for Sep 14, 2023, in Madison, WI, at the Alliant Energy Center. Morning keynote using Liberating Structures by Keith McCandless followed by break-out rooms including speakers from Stanford University and the authors of "Fixing your Scrum". Afternoon keynote by Dave West, CEO of Scrum.org. Scrum is a team sport, so bring your team and get your tickets at www.ScrumDay.org. Hosted by Rebel Scrum. Find the training you've been looking for at www.RebelScrum.site.

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