
Sex Q&A: How Do I Dirty Talk? Does Size Matter? Best Toys For Orgasm? | No Dumb Questions
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02/05/25 • 31 min
We’re bringing you more than just the tip this week, so I highly recommend watching today’s episode on Spotify or YouTube to experience the visuals and product recommendations — if you’re not subscribed on Spotify and YouTube, go there now!
Happy hump day friends, and welcome back to another episode of “No Dumb Questions,” where I answer allll your burning Qs... because there are no dumb questions when it comes to adulting.
To kick off love month and Valentine’s Day, we’re doing a spicy Q&A on all things sex. Because whether you’re in a relationship, dating around, or single AF, we all deserve pleasure.
You all voted YES on Instagram, so I delivered... I’m showing you the best props and toys on the market, and how to use them to spice up your sex life. Trust me, it’s a vibe(rator).
In this episode, I answer all your juicy questions, including:
- Tips for hot dirty talk (without it feeling awkward or forced)
- How to tell if your partner is faking an orgasm
- How to have honest, trusting communication about your desires
- My top sex toys recos (from glass to silicone to metal of all shapes and sizes)
- What to do if the guy you’re into is... hella small
- Foreplay hacks that will level up your pleasure
- Advice for if your man has performance anxiety
- Positions for best stimulation and how to orgasm on top
- Tips to incorporate sex swings
- The key to having a healthy sex life without dating apps
- My (toxic) case for recycling lovers
Go forth and get some! Love you.
Listen to more helpful sex episodes:
- Episode 52: How To Spice Up Your Sex Life
- Episode 64: How To Own My Orgasms and Pleasure, with Sex Coach Portia Brown
- Episode 198: Should I use toys in the bedroom? Why is my partner never in the mood? Tips for threesomes?
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We’re bringing you more than just the tip this week, so I highly recommend watching today’s episode on Spotify or YouTube to experience the visuals and product recommendations — if you’re not subscribed on Spotify and YouTube, go there now!
Happy hump day friends, and welcome back to another episode of “No Dumb Questions,” where I answer allll your burning Qs... because there are no dumb questions when it comes to adulting.
To kick off love month and Valentine’s Day, we’re doing a spicy Q&A on all things sex. Because whether you’re in a relationship, dating around, or single AF, we all deserve pleasure.
You all voted YES on Instagram, so I delivered... I’m showing you the best props and toys on the market, and how to use them to spice up your sex life. Trust me, it’s a vibe(rator).
In this episode, I answer all your juicy questions, including:
- Tips for hot dirty talk (without it feeling awkward or forced)
- How to tell if your partner is faking an orgasm
- How to have honest, trusting communication about your desires
- My top sex toys recos (from glass to silicone to metal of all shapes and sizes)
- What to do if the guy you’re into is... hella small
- Foreplay hacks that will level up your pleasure
- Advice for if your man has performance anxiety
- Positions for best stimulation and how to orgasm on top
- Tips to incorporate sex swings
- The key to having a healthy sex life without dating apps
- My (toxic) case for recycling lovers
Go forth and get some! Love you.
Listen to more helpful sex episodes:
- Episode 52: How To Spice Up Your Sex Life
- Episode 64: How To Own My Orgasms and Pleasure, with Sex Coach Portia Brown
- Episode 198: Should I use toys in the bedroom? Why is my partner never in the mood? Tips for threesomes?
For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network.
Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:
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