
You Can't "Fix" ADHD
02/16/21 • 27 min
ADHD is part of us. You’ll hear a lot of people talking about how they can help you “fix” your ADHD but they always seem to forget that first part. We’ve learned over the last few weeks about the nature of acceptance, of embracing the parts of us that are hard and approaching them with curiosity and courage. What happens when you fully integrate all of ADHD — challenges and blessings — into your identity? What can you learn about yourself and the way you face the challenges ahead?
This week on the show, a meditation on fault, blame, and what it really means to fix ADHD.

ADHD is part of us. You’ll hear a lot of people talking about how they can help you “fix” your ADHD but they always seem to forget that first part. We’ve learned over the last few weeks about the nature of acceptance, of embracing the parts of us that are hard and approaching them with curiosity and courage. What happens when you fully integrate all of ADHD — challenges and blessings — into your identity? What can you learn about yourself and the way you face the challenges ahead?
This week on the show, a meditation on fault, blame, and what it really means to fix ADHD.

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You Can't "Fix" ADHD
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ADHD is part of us. You’ll hear a lot of people talking about how they can help you “fix” your ADHD but they always seem to forget that first part. We’ve learned over the last few weeks about the nature of acceptance, of embracing the parts of us that are hard and approaching them with curiosity and courage. What happens when you fully integrate all of ADHD — challenges and blessings — into your identity? What can you learn about yourself and the way you face the challenges ahead?
This week on the show, a meditation on fault, blame, and what it really means to fix ADHD.
- (00:00) - Welcome to The ADHD Podcast
- (02:22) - Support the Show • Become a Patron!
- (06:34) - You do not need to be fixed.
- (09:59) - The ADHD House of Cards
- (15:08) - The Experts on Acceptance
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You can have struggles and still have success with Dr. Kalaki Clarke
GPS is Now Open! Visit https://takecontroladhd.com/gps to learn more and take control of your planning today!
We’re kicking off a series on the show we’re calling “Living with ADHD,” a set of episodes in which we talk to people about their journey ー careers, challenges, surprises, and terrific a-ha moments — and try to learn a bit about our own experiences as we look to the experiences of others. Today on the show, a valued community member shares her own story, waking up to ADHD and becoming an advocate from her position in her medical clinic.
Dr. Kalaki Clarke joins us to talk about her journey with ADHD to becoming a physician, her work as an advocate for ADHDers everywher, and her side gig as an award-winning in-car singer!
Links & Notes
- Watch “Here to Say” — 2018 winner of the ADHD Viewers Choice Award promoting ADHD Awareness
- Life After Plans
- Follow @this_md_kalaki on Instagram
- (00:00) - Welcome to The ADHD Podcast
- (02:47) - Support the show • Become a Patron!
- (05:52) - Introducing Dr. Kalaki Clarke
- (06:53) - 2018 ADHD Viewer's Choice Award
- (18:01) - Changing Post-Diagnosis in the Hospital
- (25:09) - Skipping Judgment
- (28:17) - ADHD Advocacy
- (32:29) - The ADHD/Athsma Parallel
- (41:57) - Physicians with ADHD
- (46:53) - Wrapping up
🎯 Ready to turn your planning chaos into clarity? Take a look at Guided Planning Sessions (GPS)—from getting started to mastering your weekly routines. Whether you’re just picking your tools or refining a system that finally sticks, GPS gives you the structure, support, and community you need to make it happen. Explore more and join today at TakeControlADHD.com/services/GPS.
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