How To Admit You Want to Swing To Your Partner
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05/31/19 • 27 min
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In this podcast episode, we will be discussing the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We'll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion has a positive impact on your relationship. Ideally, a good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up are necessary. We'll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation such as using porn, hints, turn-ons/kinks, or even podcasts 😉.
We emphasize that this conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It's important to be empathetic, reassuring, and to listen to your partner's response, whether it's a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you're not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?
Show Notes
- How Do You Have That First Conversation?
- I'm Afraid To Say What I Am Thinking
- What's Your "In"?
- Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
- Listening Skills Are Critical
- Being Okay With "No"
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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com
In this podcast episode, we will be discussing the big shock that can come with having the first conversation about swinging with your partner. We'll dive into ways to bring up the topic and the importance of good communication to ensure that this discussion has a positive impact on your relationship. Ideally, a good foundation of communication, a healthy sex life, and a desire to spice things up are necessary. We'll also explore various ways to initiate the conversation such as using porn, hints, turn-ons/kinks, or even podcasts 😉.
We emphasize that this conversation will test the strength of your relationship, challenge personal fears and insecurities, and require mental and emotional fortitude. It's important to be empathetic, reassuring, and to listen to your partner's response, whether it's a yes or a no. Ultimately, this conversation will be the start of many conversations and hopefully lead to a deeper understanding between you and your partner. If you're not ready to start this conversation, how will you have harder conversations in the future?
Show Notes
- How Do You Have That First Conversation?
- I'm Afraid To Say What I Am Thinking
- What's Your "In"?
- Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
- Listening Skills Are Critical
- Being Okay With "No"
3 Ways to get your question on our show:
RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/
EMAIL a recorded voice note to: [email protected]
CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Our Links:
📺YouTube - Like to watch?
👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community
🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity
🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net
- SwingLinks.club - Our Links
- PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links
- EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links
- Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, sexy products, and FREE swinger dating site trials
* We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Previous Episode
Thinking about Swinging? Reasons To Swing
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If you’ve ever thought about swinging and nonmonogamy you’re not alone. In this episode we discuss some of the many reasons couples begin their journey into this alternative lifestyle or hobby. Whether you’re just starting to think about swinging, or have been in the lifestyle for a while we hope that everyone will learn something new.
SHOW NOTES
- How Do People Get Into the Lifestyle?
- 20+ year relationship v. new relationship
- Spicing it up – kids gone
- No other sexual partners – desire for more
- Being bi: women/men – filling in the gap
- Fix the marriage – not recommended
- Sexually adventurous people
- Non-Monogamy Feels Normal
- Pleasing Others is Thrilling
- Flirting
- Learning New Techniques
3 Ways to get your question on our show:
RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/
EMAIL a recorded voice note to: [email protected]
CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Our Links:
📺YouTube - Like to watch?
👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community
🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity
🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net
- SwingLinks.club - Our Links
- PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links
- EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links
- Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, sexy products, and FREE swinger dating site trials
* We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Next Episode
Swinging Defined - Lifestyle Terminology
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We take some time to break down some common swinger lingo and terminology to help you navigate this exciting world of swinging. Of course we throw in a few stories to help spice up this lesson.
While you could go searching across the internet for the definitions to these, we bring them to you in a nice delicious package.
Here are just a few of the terms we cover:
Vanilla Hunting
Unicorn
Cuckold
Cuckqueen
Bi-curious
Play
Soft Swap
Full Swap
DTF
Kissing Rule
Same Room
Hall Pass
Voyeurism
Barebacking
3 Ways to get your question on our show:
RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/
EMAIL a recorded voice note to: [email protected]
CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Our Links:
📺YouTube - Like to watch?
👉Join our vibrant community: https://swingeruniversity.com/community
🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity
🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net
- SwingLinks.club - Our Links
- PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links
- EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links
- Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, sexy products, and FREE swinger dating site trials
* We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
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