More Pain To Cure Pain

12/21/20 • 30 min

Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better

If you have listened to this podcast, or if we’ve worked together to heal your heart and call in Mr. or Ms. Right, then you know I am a proponent of cutting off all contact with your ex. I recently heard from someone on Instagram, follow me at @clairetheheartbreakcoach, who said that the thought of cutting off all contact was going to be more painful than the pain she was already in. In this episode, I share with you why you should lean into the pain, instead of avoiding it or trying to cover it, and the results that await you on the other side. What are you waiting for?

If you want to dive deeper and invest in healing your heart, I teach all of this in my course, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. This course has over 60 videos and in it, we get into the thought work, how to stop wanting him back, falling the fuck in love with you, and yes, finding someone better.

Topics in this episode

The common denominator of your pain
“I’ve had so much trauma in my dating life”
Deciding not to make your victim story part of your love story
Making the decision to be over your ex
Pain is part of the process
Reaching our goals requires discomfort

Resources

Work With Claire
https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/work-with-me

Editing and show notes by Roth Media

Topics in this episode

The common denominator of your pain
“I’ve had so much trauma in my dating life”
Deciding not to make your victim story part of your love story
Making the decision to be over your ex
Pain is part of the process
Reaching our goals requires discomfort

Resources

Work With Claire
https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/work-with-me

Editing and show notes by Roth Media

Previous Episode

My Lack Of Self-Love Revealed Again

This is an emotional episode for me. I think it’s important for me to share with you, by leading by example, that the work is never done. I’m in the most amazing relationship with the love of my life, and I just released an amazing course, helping women fall in love with themselves and call in Mr. Right. But somewhere along the way, as I worked morning, noon, and night, seven days a week, for the lats four months, I abandoned myself, my self-coaching, and my self-love. In this episode, I share with you how I got here, how this relates to finding Mr. or Ms. Right, and how I’m going to prioritize loving myself again.

This is what I teach you to do in my one-on-one coaching. I have spots available for February, so if you’re interested, you can go to my website. I also teach all of this in my course, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. In the course, I share the four modules:

what you need to succeed, stop wanting him back, fall in love with you, and find someone better. To learn more about this course, and finding someone better, go to: https://course.clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/

Topics in this episode

The beliefs I had about myself
What I was doing in my love life that kept attracting Mr. Unavailable
Are we ever fully-healed from trauma?
The belief that I didn’t have time to slow down
You get to create money for whatever you want. You get to create time for whatever you want. You get to create the results that you want.
Why we get stuck in our habits
The importance of daily self-coaching
Where might you not be loving yourself?

Resources

Episode, My Heartbreak Story
Episode, Claire Brings On The Love Of Her Life
Episode, Let’s Talk About Sex With Danielle Savory
Danielle’s podcast, It’s My Pleasure
Stacey Boehman’s 2K Mastermind

Work With Claire
https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/work-with-me

Editing and show notes by Roth Media

Next Episode

How To Let Go

Let’s talk about letting go, which is one of the most crucial steps in how to stop wanting Mr. or Ms. Wrong back, and to find someone better, and is an excellent topic to cover and wrap up an insane year. Even if I have discussed this topic before, what I’m going to share today is going to be up-leveled, because I have up-leveled, personally and as a coach through self-coaching and working with my coaches. I know it’s not easy, my loves, to move through the pain, and I also know that the only way through it is to lean in.

You’re not alone. And not only that, but you also have tools that you can do something about the heartbreak and letting them go. I cover this in my course, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. In this course, which has over 60 videos, I teach you what you need to succeed, how to stop wanting him back, fall in love with you, and find someone better. To learn more, click here.