How To Speak Assertively Without Being Confrontational
04/22/24 • 13 min
How do you speak assertively with someone without causing conflict? In this episode, you’ll find out an easy strategy to confidently express what is in your mind and make a request in a way that invites collaboration. Tune in to this episode and discover:
✔️A 4-part script to express what you want without being confrontational.
✔️How to encourage others to have empathy for you.
✔️How to be empathetic with others when you’re upset at them
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How do you speak assertively with someone without causing conflict? In this episode, you’ll find out an easy strategy to confidently express what is in your mind and make a request in a way that invites collaboration. Tune in to this episode and discover:
✔️A 4-part script to express what you want without being confrontational.
✔️How to encourage others to have empathy for you.
✔️How to be empathetic with others when you’re upset at them
✅ Order our book, ‘Unapologetic Voice: 101 Real-World Strategies for Brave Self Advocacy & Bold Leadership’ where each strategy is also a real story:
https://www.amazon.com/Unapologetic-Voice-Real-World-Strategies-Leadership-ebook/dp/B0CW2X4WWL/
✅ Request A Customized Workshop For Your Team And Company: http://assertiveway.com/workshops
✅ Other Episodes You’ll Like
Speak Your Truth: 10 Tips to Becoming a Confident, Assertive Communicator
What Is Your Most Used Communication Style At Work?
The 4 Communication Styles Explained
Exuding Confidence: The Secret Language of Nonverbal Communication
Training How To Be More Assertive (for more confidence and productivity)
Conquer the 9 Most Common Hang-ups About Assertiveness
Training How To Be Assertive Without Being Rude, Aggressive, Or A Jerk
How To Not Come Across As Aggressive When You're Outspoken
The Assertive Script That Will Forever Change Your Hard Conversations
4 Triggers To Known When To Speak Up And Be Assertive
✅ Free Resources
FREE Training & presentation on How To Be Assertive Without Being Rude, Aggressive, or Offensive: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/assertivenotrude
Sign Up for Our Email Newsletter: https://assertiveway.com/newsletter/
Ivna’s Unapologetic Voice Stories: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/ivnastories
From Rambling To Articulate PDF Guide: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/articulate
Podcast episode lists by theme: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/speakyourmindunapologeticallytopics
Women in Tech Leaders Podcast Interviews: https://assertiveway.com/womenintechpodcastguests/
Podcast Summaries & More Email Newsletter: https://assertiveway.com/newsletter
Our Linkedin Blog Articles: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/6863880009879306240/
TEDx Talk How To Speak Up Safely When It’s Psychologically Unsafe: https://assertiveway.aweb.page/safespeak
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✅ Order our book, ‘Unapologetic Voice: 101 Real-World Strategies for Brave Self Advocacy & Bold Leadership’ where each strategy is also a real story:
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