Soul Bruises
Christie Hodson
As a lifelong believer in Christ, I’ve grown weary of witnessing harm within spiritual settings. I’m tired of pretending it isn’t happening or convincing myself that spiritual abuse isn’t a serious issue—one that not only plagues the church but is also spreading beyond religious institutions.This is why the Soul Bruises podcast was created. It’s dedicated to exposing, educating, and ultimately working toward the eradication of spiritual abuse in all its forms. Whether you can relate to my experiences or bring your own perspective to the table, I hope Soul Bruises offers a balanced and thorough exploration of the issue.
Whether you’re a spiritual leader, a member of a church, or someone with no connection to God or religion, I challenge you to reconsider your assumptions about spiritual abuse. I encourage you to tune in.
With each episode, I hope you gain a clearer understanding of what spiritual abuse is, how it manifests in religious and non-religious settings, who it affects, and why it’s crucial to address it with honesty and purpose.
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06/01/25 • 38 min
Misplaced loyalty in religious settings occurs when commitment to institutions trumps truth, justice, and human dignity. This harmful dynamic enables spiritual abuse by silencing those who recognize problems, creating environments where manipulation and control thrive under the guise of faithfulness.
• Institutional cover-ups of abuse scandals (Catholic Church, Southern Baptist Convention) prioritize reputation over justice
• Theological isolation creates echo chambers where learning from other traditions is discouraged
• Gender-based restrictions in ministry show loyalty to tradition over recognizing spiritual gifts
• Discouraging questions treats curiosity as rebellion and suppresses critical thinking
• Refusing cross-denominational cooperation promotes division over unity in Christ's body
• Elevating denominational rules over loving people creates legalistic environments
• Silence about racism, sexism and abuse within churches to "keep the peace"
• Fear of leaving toxic religious environments due to identity entrapment and loss of community
Join me for the next episode where we'll explore distorted loyalty and how these two concepts work together to create spiritually harmful environments.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
Spiritual abuse can shatter faith and trust in devastating ways. Imagine an environment where authority becomes a tool for manipulation rather than guidance. In this episode of Soul Bruises, we tackle the harrowing reality of spiritual abuse within religious settings, dissecting how authority and distorted loyalty can morph into instruments of harm. Learn how to differentiate between genuine spiritual authority and the misuse of power that leads to exploitation and suffering, and understand why speaking up is crucial for mental and spiritual well-being.
Journey with us as we examine historical and modern figures like William Wilberforce, Pope Gregory the Great, Thomas Merton, Henry J. M. Nouwen & Jill & Jinger from the Duggar family, whose lives highlight the dual-edged nature of spiritual authority. By delving into their insights, we uncover the qualities of healthy leadership—humility, accountability, respect for autonomy, and community-building. Through personal stories and testimonies, we shed light on the dark corners of spiritual abuse, offering a pathway to reclaiming faith and trust.
In our critical analysis of Bill Gothard's controversial teachings and the dynamics within his organization, we expose the dangers of absolute obedience and hierarchical control. Hear firsthand accounts from individuals like Jill Duggar Dillard and Jinger Duggar Vuolo, who bravely share their experiences of entrapment and the struggle for autonomy. We close with a hopeful vision for church communities, advocating for empathy and compassion, and highlighting real-world examples of churches making a positive impact. Join us in this candid and necessary conversation to foster safer, more supportive spiritual environments.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
07/04/24 • 40 min
What if the pain you thought was just "church hurt" was actually something much more severe? Today on the Soul Bruises podcast, we return from our hiatus to confront the unsettling reality of spiritual abuse head-on. We explore why it's critical to listen to the voices of those who've endured this trauma, how the term "abuse" carries a weight that "church hurt" does not, and why skipping to the positives without addressing the harm is not an option. Victims deserve our attention, our belief, and our action. We delve into the importance of acknowledging these issues to mend broken institutions and facilitate collective healing.
In our discussion on healing, we emphasize the need for proper church governance and law enforcement's role when criminal activities are involved. We explore the development of safety policies and the crucial contributions of organizations like GRACE and Ministry Safe in providing resources and training. We stress the importance of validating victims' experiences, recognizing religious trauma, and ensuring thorough investigations. Tune in to find out how you can stay connected with us on Instagram, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube and be part of this essential conversation.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
Episode 1: Soul Bruises Trailer - From Silence to Sanctuary: A Journey through Spiritual Abuse
Soul Bruises
10/17/23 • 3 min
The "Soul Bruises" podcast, hosted by Christie Hodson, delves into the often ugly and concealed realities of spiritual abuse. It addresses the weariness and sadness that arise from hearing stories of abuse at the hands of spiritual leaders and the troubling absence of accountability for these abusers. The podcast seeks to shed light on the damage hidden behind the veils of religion, faith, and dogma.
Through candid conversations, powerful stories, and the wisdom of those who have experienced spiritual abuse, "Soul Bruises" aims to educate its listeners about what spiritual abuse looks like and how it manifests in various aspects of our lives. It's a sanctuary of trust, a place of learning, and a platform for elevating the voices of survivors who have been silenced for too long.
The podcast is dedicated to building safe havens within religious spaces, homes, communities, and personal lives. It is committed to reclaiming the peace and solace that spirituality can provide and promoting decency and kindness toward fellow humans.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
03/21/25 • 72 min
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
Show Note Links:
Allender Center: https://theallendercenter.org/
Allender Center Podcast: https://theallendercenter.org/category/podcast/
Restore Conference: https://julieroys.com/restore/
"The Roys Report" Podcast: https://julieroys.com/podcast/
Steven Hassan's Influence Continuum: https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/influence-continuum/
Steven Hassans BITE Model of Authoritarian Control: https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model-pdf-download/Dr. Janja Lalich website & resources: https://www.lalichcenter.org/
Description of the Episode:
Mind control represents the most dangerous form of psychological manipulation in religious settings, designed to influence and dominate a person's thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors without their awareness.
• Differences between Mind Control, Brainwashing, Thought Reform, and Bounded Choice
• Steven Hassan's BITE model (Behavior, Information, Thought, Emotional control) explaining psychological control techniques
• Historical examples of mind control including the Nazi regime, Scientology, and the Stanford Prison Experiment
• How high-control groups exploit normal human desires for belonging and connection
• Dr. Janja Lalich's Bounded Choice Theory explaining why people remain in controlling groups
• Warning signs that a religious organization may be using mind control tactics
• The importance of maintaining autonomy and critical thinking in spiritual contexts
• Robert J. Lifton's eight criteria for thought reform environments
• Resources for those affected by spiritual abuse including the Allender Center & The Restore Conference
Faith should not be about living in fear or control. Christ offers freedom, not bondage. Your spiritual journey belongs to you and you have the right to seek truth for yourself.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
03/22/24 • 50 min
Have you ever considered the profound impact of power within your spiritual community? This episode pulls back the curtain on the often-invisible abuse of power, where control and authority can distort faith's nurturing environment. With the wisdom of Diane Langberg guiding us, we dissect the spiritual abuse triad – power, control, and authority – and investigate how these forces can either build or destroy. We draw parallels with historical figures like Lincoln, Pittacus and Fred Rogers, exploring the measure of character necessary to handle power justly and the crucial responsibility that comes with wielding it.
The allure of charismatic leadership is a double-edged sword, one that can both inspire and devastate. We scrutinize the delicate balance of power in religious settings, particularly within patriarchal structures and traditional barriers against female ordination. The examination goes deeper as we uncover the intricate dance between vulnerability and power and the implications of this dynamic on the character of spiritual leaders. Through the tragic cautionary tale of Jim Jones, we illustrate our collective susceptibility to charming authority and underscore the necessity of discernment in spiritual guidance.
As we wrap up this introspective journey, we turn the mirror on ourselves, asking how we individually engage with the power we possess. We reflect on the behaviors and tactics that emerge from wielding influence, stressing the importance of coupling power with compassion and humanity. This episode is not just a listening experience; it's an invitation to engage with us, to share your thoughts and continue the conversation. Together, let's navigate the delicate balance of power in our lives with intentionality and care, ensuring it becomes a force for good in our hands.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
Step behind the curtain of spiritual trust with me as we unearth the dark intricacies of deception that plague the paths of the faithful. This Soul Bruises episode peels back the layers of deceit woven into the fabric of spiritual communities, using the enigmatic life of John Harvey Kellogg as a case study. As you listen, discover the subtle yet devastating ways that seemingly trustworthy figures mask their true intentions, and how these tactics shape the perilous dynamics of spiritual abuse.
This episode brings attention to how crucial it is to differentiate between the outward appearances and the hidden truths, empowering you to stand against manipulation and preserve the sanctity of your spiritual haven.
We must be ever vigilant against the "wolves in sheep's clothing" that seek to lead us astray. This conversation is a rallying cry to uphold the integrity of our faith communities, drawing wisdom from scripture and historical insight. By educating ourselves we can start to identify the signs of deception and lies in the context of spiritual abuse, the significance of self-awareness, and the strategies for fortifying our defenses against false prophets.
This podcast episode will share insights that will embolden you to protect your spiritual flock and emphasize the imperative need to confront those who wear the cloak of religious authority to deceive others.
Concluding this episode journey into deception and lies, Soul Bruises shines a light on the essential quest for truth, examining how education, personal boundaries, and community support can safeguard against the shadows that seek to disorient our beliefs. The tale of lawyer F.E. Smith is recounted, whose cunningness in court, exemplifies the triumph of truth over falsehood.
This episode is not just an exposé; it's a call to arms to join forces in the collective pursuit of enlightenment and integrity.
Tune in and arm yourself with the knowledge to discern and dismantle the deceptive tactics that may lurk within your spiritual circles.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
Episode 5: An Oxymoron Defined
Soul Bruises
01/06/24 • 53 min
Have you ever felt the heavy burden of spiritual abuse within a faith community? Our journey into the shadows of spiritual manipulation begins here, where I hope to guide you through the often-misunderstood realm of spiritual abuse.
We're not just scratching the surface; we're exposing the deep-rooted patterns of control that have caused generational hurt across all faith traditions. With the expertise of thought leaders like Jeff VanVonderen and James Rochford, we dissect the misuse of religious authority and differentiate between the healable missteps and the intentional harm that demands strong preventive action.
Peering into the aftermath of spiritual abuse, we navigate the psychological maze with guidance from experts like Ron Enroth, Dr. Lisa Oakley, Justin Humphreys, and many more as we come to understand the profound impact of abuse on the soul. This episode isn't meant to merely inform; it's a call to arms for those within the Christian community and beyond to create a culture of prevention and healing. Soul Bruises confronts the controversies head-on, debating the adequacy of the term 'spiritual abuse' and the necessity of using precise language to give appropriate weight to these agonizing experiences.
Our resolve is to empower and equip our listeners with the knowledge needed to shield our communities from spiritual predators. Organizations like GRACE are at the forefront, and Soul Bruises shares their mission to initiate a vital cultural shift within the church. Under the leadership of Pete Singer, GRACE's dedication to protecting the vulnerable highlights that change isn't just possible; it's imperative.
By tuning in, you're taking the first step toward standing with the wounded and becoming an advocate for change.
"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."
03/04/24 • 17 min
Have you ever navigated a staircase, wary of that one perilous step you know to skip? That's the essence of the 'missing stair', an analogy we explore in a special bonus episode of Soul Bruises, which casts light on the often unseen perils within our spiritual communities. We delve into the metaphor's origin and its startling relevance to spiritual abuse, illuminating the dangers of ignoring harmful behaviors that, like a literal missing stair, threaten our collective wellbeing. And for those who have encountered such unsettling realities, know that this discussion is a sanctuary where understanding and healing are at the forefront.
Joining the conversation are the Silo Sisters, Phoebe Hunt, Bonnie Sims, and Melody Walker, whose moving lyrics in "The Missing Stair" echo the whispers and warnings of communities that, instead of repairing what's broken, teach newcomers to simply tread carefully. As we unpack the song and its haunting depiction of overlooked hazards, we issue a resounding call to action. It's time to fix these stairs—to confront and correct the predators in disguise. This episode is more than a conversation; it's an invitation to become an active participant in the transformation of our spiritual spaces.
YouTube link for the song "The Missing Stair" by the Silo Sisters
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPNh-ZIdaYk
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FAQ
How many episodes does Soul Bruises have?
Soul Bruises currently has 16 episodes available.
What topics does Soul Bruises cover?
The podcast is about Control, Christianity, Power, Religion & Spirituality, Podcasts, Religion and Scripture.
What is the most popular episode on Soul Bruises?
The episode title 'Episode 13 - Breaking the Chains of Indoctrination & Thought Suppression - Spiritual Abuse Tactic & Behavior 5 of 12 (Part 1) - Indoctrination & Thought Suppression' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Soul Bruises?
The average episode length on Soul Bruises is 42 minutes.
How often are episodes of Soul Bruises released?
Episodes of Soul Bruises are typically released every 34 days, 21 hours.
When was the first episode of Soul Bruises?
The first episode of Soul Bruises was released on Oct 17, 2023.
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