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Wade Mullen's RESTORE 2022 conference talk that mentions DARVO
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-I-w6rPMy5M&t=1933sRachel Denhollander's trial transcript & verbal testimonyTranscript: https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/24/us/rachael-denhollander-full-statement/index.htmlTestimony: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7CjVOLToRJk
Spiritual abuse is an insidious force that can silence even the most courageous voices. Explore this hidden realm with me, Christie Hodson, as we uncover the manipulation tactic known as DARVO—Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. Originally identified by psychologist Jennifer Freyd, DARVO is a cunning strategy often used by abusers to twist the truth and avoid accountability. We’ll dissect how spiritual leaders and institutions wield this tactic to paint themselves as victims, thereby complicating the journey to justice for the true sufferers.

Understanding the role of bystanders in abuse scenarios is crucial. Often bound by betrayal blindness, they may inadvertently support abusers through inaction. Through infamous cases like Larry Nassar and Bill Hybels, we'll reveal how abusers manipulate perceptions and how bystanders can break free from these psychological barriers. I challenge every listener to confront their biases and recognize the moral weight of standing up for those who are most vulnerable.

Our journey doesn't stop with identifying the problem; it seeks to transform our spiritual spaces into sanctuaries of support and honesty. We’ll examine the allegations against Bill Hybels and the misuse of DARVO that followed, illustrating the necessity for transparency and accountability. By comparing these situations to how Grace Community Church handled similar accusations, we find a roadmap for creating healthier spiritual environments. Join me on Soul Bruises as we push for a future where awareness, kindness, and humanity reshape our communities.

"Be Human, Be Kind, Be Both."