Sober Powered

Gill discusses cravings and how dopamine influences our level of self-control. Cravings to drink can show up when you least expect them and they can be really powerful. They don’t last forever, but if you’re trying to willpower your way through cravings all the time then you’re going to get exhausted. She explains an interesting study on levels of dopamine and how this influences our decision to go for instant gratification, and how the more willpower we try to throw at something, the worse our ability to exert self-control becomes.

What to listen to next:

E51: Why we crave alcohol and what to do about it

E67: How alcohol impacts cortisol and causes cravings

E62: Dopamine deep dive

E61: How alcohol memories are triggered in sobriety

E68: How heavy drinking changes the way we make decisions

E80: Benefits of a dry month

Resources I offer:

• Membership: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
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• Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free

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Gill discusses how helping others helps us. You’ll learn about some studies on helping others, what a helper’s high is, and what oxytocin is. She explains some studies that looked at people in recovery helping others and how that impacts their own sobriety, why we are drawn to personal stories of recovery, and give you some ideas on how you can start helping others if you don’t want to do it publicly. She also describes the difference between helping others purely because you feel the drive to, versus helping others with the intention of money, followers, or fame.

What to listen to next:

E79: Why We Romanticize Alcohol

E80: Benefits of a Dry Month

E62: Dopamine and Addiction

Meetings:

https://aa-intergroup.org/

https://www.smartrecovery.org/community/calendar.php

https://recoverydharma.org/meeting-list

https://www.soberpowered.com/membership

Find a Therapist in the US:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

Treatment:

https://www.banyantreatmentcenter.com/

https://sobernation.com/rehabs/

Resources I offer:

• Membership: Living a Sober Powered Life. https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
• Weekly emails on Thursdays where I explain the latest episode in more detail, share images to help you understand the concepts, share announcements, interviews, writing, discount codes and more. https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6107260617e156c4839768b5
• Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free

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Gill talks about the warning signs she ignored that clearly showed she shouldn’t be drinking. This episode was inspired by a very interesting conversation with her husband, which she will tell you about first. She describes what a successful night of moderation looked like, how she couldn’t keep extra alcohol around, how after a few years she was unable to take a day off drinking, and the irrational fears she carried around about dying in a freak, drunk accident.

Resources I offer:

• Membership: Living a Sober Powered Life where you gain access to weekly episodes about navigating life without alcohol, weekly meetings, and a private community to get support. Use the code PODCAST to get 20% off your first month. https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
• Weekly emails on Thursdays where I explain the latest episode in more detail, share images to help you understand the concepts, share announcements, interviews, writing, discount codes and more. https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6107260617e156c4839768b5
• A free 3 day quit drinking challenge https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62f2cb3de5ea6b3d8aea4ab2

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The back and forth cycle is frustrating and depressing and it can feel like you’re never going to figure it out. It also really hurts our self-esteem, which makes it even harder to not drink. This topic came up in one of my meetings this week and I want to share why it’s important to keep trying. In this episode, I am covering 3 things that may be keeping you stuck in the back and forth struggle and 3 reasons why you can’t give up.

What to listen to next:

E144: self-sabotage and perfectionism

E149: alcohol and the nervous system

E42: is relapse a part of recovery

E91: do you want to be sober or do you want to drink without the consequences?

E66: what increases our risk of relapse

E86: why helping others helps you stay sober

E110: 5 Reasons People Relapse and What to do About it

E99: Why We Can Never Drink Again (Neuroplasticity and Permanent Changes)

E97: why we keep believing it’ll be different this time

Resources I offer:

• Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
• The Sober Mindset Course https://www.soberpowered.com/the-sober-mindset-course
• (Free Private Podcast) 5 Blocks Holding You Back From Quitting Drinking
• https://www.soberpowered.com/5blocks
• Weekly emails on Thursdays where I explain the latest episode in more detail, share images to help you understand the concepts, share announcements, interviews, writing, discount codes and more. https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6107260617e156c4839768b5
• Ask a question, it could appear on the show! https://forms.gle/oKubeJKMZimkHvUJA

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It's episode 50 of the podcast! This is a special episode featuring some friends from the sober community to tell you about what has had the biggest impact on their recovery. I hope that you take away a few different tips and perspectives that you can apply to your own journey, plus that you discover new resources and people who inspire you.

In this episode,

Odette Cressler, host of Recovery Elevator

https://www.instagram.com/theharmonylane/

https://www.instagram.com/recoveryelevator/

Jeff Simone, PharmD, Sober Coach

https://www.instagram.com/reactionrecovery/

https://reactionrecovery.com/

Jen Hirst, Sober Coach

https://www.instagram.com/jenleehirst/

https://livingzeroproof.com/

Celeste Yvonne, Writer and Co-Founder of Sober Mom Squad

https://www.instagram.com/theultimatemomchallenge/

Katie McNicol, Sobriety Advocate and YouTuber

https://www.instagram.com/thissobergirl/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGhaxgecCl7a8-4QvvUoAgg

David Wilson (AKA Sober Dave), GAD Coach and Podcaster

https://www.instagram.com/soberdave/

https://davidwilsoncoaching.com/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/one-for-the-road/id1565341712

Jenna Dillulio, Sober Content Creator

https://www.jennadillulio.com/

https://www.instagram.com/jennadillulio/

Resources I offer:

• Membership: Living a Sober Powered Life where you gain access to weekly episodes about navigating life without alcohol, weekly meetings, and a private community to get support. Use the code PODCAST to get 20% off your first month. https://www.soberpowered.com/membership
• Weekly emails on Thursdays where I explain the latest episode in more detail, share images to help you understand the concepts, share announcements, interviews, writing, discount codes and more. https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6107260617e156c4839768b5
• A free 3 day quit drinking challenge https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62f2cb3de5ea6b3d8aea4ab2

Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors. Learn more:

https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsors

If you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support my work https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpowered

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Disclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice.

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