Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

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04/04/23 • 24 min

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In the final episode of “She Wants More” we look at the darker side of an affair. While many of the women we talked with found empowerment and fulfillment through infidelity, today’s guest, “Sarah” has a different kind of story. "Sarah" fell in love with her kid's pediatrician when she was married to another man. She had an affair, left her husband and got married. But then, her story took an unexpected twist, leaving her devastated and vindictive. Her story serves as a reminder of the real stakes of choosing infidelity and the lies we often tell ourselves in the moment in order to justify our actions. Susan Shapiro Barash shares her final thoughts.

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She Wants More - Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

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Speaker 100:00:03.080

So I met him at his office one evening. The sex was great, and then it just was a whirlwind. It was a crazy whirlwind, like maybe a few weeks into it or a month into it, I said, hey, we've got to stop this. You've got a family. I've got a family. And so he went home that night without telling me and told his wife. It was so scary because it blew up all over this small town.

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That's Sarah. She w