
4: What Makes Good Sex?
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02/21/25 • 25 min
Today, we’re getting into what makes good sex. Or, as I like to call it, ejaculate is the lube of life! (I wish I could, but I can’t take credit for that. I heard it somewhere.) We’ve really gotten to know each other, so it’s time to get into some real talk. Starting with the fact that everything you learned about sex from the movies is dead wrong.
After busting some utterly ridiculous sex myths, we’re diving straight into what good sex even is, the benefits of a vibrant sex life, what really turns men and women on, and the first step to take if you’re in a sexless marriage. There's a fine line between feeling the pressure and taking the pressure off. Between being stressed out by sex and... letting sex be a stress reliever. Alright, I won’t keep teasing you—let’s get into it!
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/what-makes-good-sex
Connect with Kaamna
Today, we’re getting into what makes good sex. Or, as I like to call it, ejaculate is the lube of life! (I wish I could, but I can’t take credit for that. I heard it somewhere.) We’ve really gotten to know each other, so it’s time to get into some real talk. Starting with the fact that everything you learned about sex from the movies is dead wrong.
After busting some utterly ridiculous sex myths, we’re diving straight into what good sex even is, the benefits of a vibrant sex life, what really turns men and women on, and the first step to take if you’re in a sexless marriage. There's a fine line between feeling the pressure and taking the pressure off. Between being stressed out by sex and... letting sex be a stress reliever. Alright, I won’t keep teasing you—let’s get into it!
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/what-makes-good-sex
Connect with Kaamna
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1: Welcome to a Different Podcast About Sexuality
Welcome to the very first episode of Sex, Tech, and Spirituality with Kaamna. This episode is all about setting the stage. (With a name like that, why would I not start by laying out the basics and... teasing what’s to come?)
You’ll hear how sex, tech, and spirituality come together and what that interplay looks like. You’ll understand what—in culture and society—have hurt sexuality the most. And you’ll learn a surefire way to relieve sexual shame.
Let me tell you up front—this podcast is not safe for work, for children, or for anyone whose feathers are easily ruffled. Here, we will be unfiltered and honest. We have to be!
We must be unfiltered because of the nature of the subject matter. There's just too much skirting around the issues and not enough factual, judgment-free information. And we must be honest because there are no easy answers.
Ready? Let’s do this!
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/podcast-about-sexuality
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5: Better Porn, Better Sex? w/ Cindy Gallop
What if there was a platform that was the Google of sex education? A place you could go as a parent, a teen, or even an adult to get familiar with sex, understand the communication sex requires, and learn what people really expect with sex. Sounds pretty intriguing, right?
For those of you who don't know who Cindy Gallop is, she's very much the reason many of us do what we do because this intersection of sex and technology began with her and her TED talk. She’s the founder of Make Love Not Porn, a social sex tech platform designed to promote good sexual behavior and values. For the last sixteen years, Cindy has been a force of nature leading the charge of the social sexual revolution.
In today’s conversation, you’ll learn how poor sex education is on a global scale, the core question everyone has about sex, and how we can redirect teens toward more ethical porn sources. Buckle up for one heck of a wild ride!
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/better-porn-better-sex
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