4: What Makes Good Sex?
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02/21/25 • 25 min
Today, we’re getting into what makes good sex. Or, as I like to call it, ejaculate is the lube of life! (I wish I could, but I can’t take credit for that. I heard it somewhere.) We’ve really gotten to know each other, so it’s time to get into some real talk. Starting with the fact that everything you learned about sex from the movies is dead wrong.
After busting some utterly ridiculous sex myths, we’re diving straight into what good sex even is, the benefits of a vibrant sex life, what really turns men and women on, and the first step to take if you’re in a sexless marriage. There's a fine line between feeling the pressure and taking the pressure off. Between being stressed out by sex and... letting sex be a stress reliever. Alright, I won’t keep teasing you—let’s get into it!
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/what-makes-good-sex
Connect with Kaamna
Today, we’re getting into what makes good sex. Or, as I like to call it, ejaculate is the lube of life! (I wish I could, but I can’t take credit for that. I heard it somewhere.) We’ve really gotten to know each other, so it’s time to get into some real talk. Starting with the fact that everything you learned about sex from the movies is dead wrong.
After busting some utterly ridiculous sex myths, we’re diving straight into what good sex even is, the benefits of a vibrant sex life, what really turns men and women on, and the first step to take if you’re in a sexless marriage. There's a fine line between feeling the pressure and taking the pressure off. Between being stressed out by sex and... letting sex be a stress reliever. Alright, I won’t keep teasing you—let’s get into it!
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/what-makes-good-sex
Connect with Kaamna
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3: Understanding Male Sexuality w/ Dr. David Ley
As a society, we have a gross misunderstanding of male sexuality. We believe penises are pogo sticks, that men can get hard at any moment—and let’s not even touch men being drawn to the idea of cuckolding.
But where do these misunderstandings lead us? Directly to what we do not want—men misunderstanding women’s sexuality, aggressive sexual behavior, and an incredibly isolated group of humans suffering alone in silence.
Dr. David Ley—a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and author—joins me for a deep conversation about male sexuality. He shares the common strategy men use to manage their emotions which they’re then shamed for, the importance of acting on your sexual desires responsibly, how AI is impacting male sexuality, and what replaces the vacuum of sex education conversations for young men.
The biggest takeaway from this interview is that conversations must change. Let’s begin with this one...
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5: Better Porn, Better Sex? w/ Cindy Gallop
What if there was a platform that was the Google of sex education? A place you could go as a parent, a teen, or even an adult to get familiar with sex, understand the communication sex requires, and learn what people really expect with sex. Sounds pretty intriguing, right?
For those of you who don't know who Cindy Gallop is, she's very much the reason many of us do what we do because this intersection of sex and technology began with her and her TED talk. She’s the founder of Make Love Not Porn, a social sex tech platform designed to promote good sexual behavior and values. For the last sixteen years, Cindy has been a force of nature leading the charge of the social sexual revolution.
In today’s conversation, you’ll learn how poor sex education is on a global scale, the core question everyone has about sex, and how we can redirect teens toward more ethical porn sources. Buckle up for one heck of a wild ride!
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/better-porn-better-sex
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