3: Understanding Male Sexuality w/ Dr. David Ley
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02/07/25 • 36 min
As a society, we have a gross misunderstanding of male sexuality. We believe penises are pogo sticks, that men can get hard at any moment—and let’s not even touch men being drawn to the idea of cuckolding.
But where do these misunderstandings lead us? Directly to what we do not want—men misunderstanding women’s sexuality, aggressive sexual behavior, and an incredibly isolated group of humans suffering alone in silence.
Dr. David Ley—a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and author—joins me for a deep conversation about male sexuality. He shares the common strategy men use to manage their emotions which they’re then shamed for, the importance of acting on your sexual desires responsibly, how AI is impacting male sexuality, and what replaces the vacuum of sex education conversations for young men.
The biggest takeaway from this interview is that conversations must change. Let’s begin with this one...
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/understanding-male-sexuality
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As a society, we have a gross misunderstanding of male sexuality. We believe penises are pogo sticks, that men can get hard at any moment—and let’s not even touch men being drawn to the idea of cuckolding.
But where do these misunderstandings lead us? Directly to what we do not want—men misunderstanding women’s sexuality, aggressive sexual behavior, and an incredibly isolated group of humans suffering alone in silence.
Dr. David Ley—a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and author—joins me for a deep conversation about male sexuality. He shares the common strategy men use to manage their emotions which they’re then shamed for, the importance of acting on your sexual desires responsibly, how AI is impacting male sexuality, and what replaces the vacuum of sex education conversations for young men.
The biggest takeaway from this interview is that conversations must change. Let’s begin with this one...
Grab all the links and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/understanding-male-sexuality
Connect with Dr. David:
Connect with Kaamna
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