
Crystals & Jameson Part 1 Feat Blue Telusma
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11/08/22 • 117 min
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Streaming Is King Feat. Nina Parker
This week Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by Emmy nominated television host and fashion designer Nina Parker for some grown (20:20 ), honest (47:00) , and slightly toxic conversations (1:07:00 ). INTRO:
- All money isn't good money, so how do you maintain your integrity while also securing the bag $$ (10:00)
- A bad temper is like being an alcoholic, you have to work at it everyday to remain “calm” or “sober”
- Nina shares what it was like to host Love & Hip Hop Reunions, maintaining composure, navigating “passionate” aka rude live audience members, and the social media backlash post interview (17:00)
- Nina shifting from broadcast/ tv networks to hosting a 6 episode series with streaming company Netflix for the show Buy My House (22:20)
- How to be okay with turning down opportunities and how Nina learned how to trust her instincts (25:00)
- Hosting can be a gig to gig industry, what does a mogul era look like for hosts? (28:00)
- Nina shares the tumultuous beginning of her career: Moving back in with her parents, working at a call center, feeling drained every (30:00)
- Nina shares what it was like to work at TMZ and the steps she took to propel her career (38:00)
- Journalistic responsibility to vet the validity of stories (40:00)
- Instagram is working on a feature that will let people choose a background song while scrolling on the feed (47:00)
- The ladies share songs that were on their myspace pages
- Nina talks about being the first Black Designer with a Plus-Size collection in Macy’s Nina Parker Debuts Plus-Size Collection With Macy's (54:00)
- Finding the correct size doesn't make someone a stylist (59:00)
- How to communicate needs despite being typecasted as “the angry black women” (1:00:00)
- How to identify “I’m giving someone grace” vs. “this relationship is actually toxic”
- Shadow work: Working with your unconscious mind to uncover the parts of yourself that you repress and hide from yourself. (1:09:00)
- How do you deal with being the friend that is “never approached” (1:15:00)
- Why we shouldn't have friends we can’t be vulnerable with (1:20:00)
- You can’t be everyone’s “type”, and that is OKAY!
- Being plus sized is sometimes a super power (1:24:00)
- Signs that a man is insecure: Possessiveness, ostentatiousness, (1:26:00)
- K. Michelle - Love 'Em All (Official Music Video)
- Trina - Da Baddest Bitch (Official Video)
- Swear To Gawd- Brooke Valentine Feat. Bridget Kelly
- Cardi B - Bodak Yellow
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Crystals & Jameson Part 2 Feat. Blue Telusma
Happy Friday See The Thing Is family!
Last week's episode was too good, we couldn't dive into our freshly squeezed segment. So, this week, your hosts Bridget Kelly and Mandii B give you the second part of our 2-part interview with writer, on-air personality, and friends with benefits Blue Telusma.The ladies break down the new 21 Savage and Drake collaboration album "Her loss" and conclude... rappers are the new mean girls (11:00). Did our favorite toxic king Drake take his disses a little too far on this album or do rappers simply need a hug (36:00)?Later the three discuss adult friendships (57:00) and the importance of understanding friends for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. How do you show up for the "struggle friend"? Why do we confuse having a courageous conversation with a friend, drama? Let's just face it...some friendships just don't age well and it's okay to let them go.Speaking of, this week's Freshly squeezed is dedicated to songs that did not age well (1:14:00). Enjoy and DM us to share some of the songs you think didn't age too well.1:11:00- Bug-A-Boo- Destiny's Child1:12:00- Who Let The Dogs Out- Baha Men 1:14:00- Thong Song - Sisqo 1:16:00- Boom Bye Bye- Buju Banton 1:20:00- Addictive - Truth Hurts Ft. Rakim1:21:00- Scrubs- TLC 1:26:00- Thrift Shop- Macklemore & Ryan Lewis
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