How to Avoid Falling in to Reactive Abuse Trap

12/19/23 • 28 min

Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships

Oh, how Hijackals love to poke, prod, and provoke you into losing it and reacting, right? And then they like to wind you up further so you'll yell, blame, complain, and meltdown. Crazy-making?

Yes, INTENTIONALLY CRAZY-MAKING!

Learn ways to not go there, to not react, to not behave like the Hijackal...or the way the Hijackal wants to manipulate you into behaving, How to choose control and calm instead. Yay!

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

Nasty, manipulate way to make you out to be the abuser - Don't let it happen.
Be careful: Hijackals and other narcissists attempt "reactive abuse" to keep you feeling wrong, thoughtless, confused, and small. DoNT't let them!
Hijackals like to push you to reactive abuse when you are out with other people. Some do it to make a reason to call the police and make a scene. Don't let them.

I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.

Rhoberta

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Oh, how Hijackals love to poke, prod, and provoke you into losing it and reacting, right? And then they like to wind you up further so you'll yell, blame, complain, and meltdown. Crazy-making?

Yes, INTENTIONALLY CRAZY-MAKING!

Learn ways to not go there, to not react, to not behave like the Hijackal...or the way the Hijackal wants to manipulate you into behaving, How to choose control and calm instead. Yay!

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

Nasty, manipulate way to make you out to be the abuser - Don't let it happen.
Be careful: Hijackals and other narcissists attempt "reactive abuse" to keep you feeling wrong, thoughtless, confused, and small. DoNT't let them!
Hijackals like to push you to reactive abuse when you are out with other people. Some do it to make a reason to call the police and make a scene. Don't let them.

I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.

Rhoberta

FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...

WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com

PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com

NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com

FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor

INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp

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I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!

If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,

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#reactiveabuse @coercivecontrol #avoidreactiveabuse #narciccistprojection

narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social

#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse

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5 Good Things Narcissists PROMISE...but NEVER DELIVER!!!

Narcissistic Hijackals know what you want. Yet, they withhold giving it to you. They know what you need. Yet, they refuse to fulfill it. They know how to make you happy, but prefer disappointing you.

Think deeply about these five "would be good" things narcissists promise but fail to deliver...and, they do it very deliberately. There are real deal-breakers...when you actually see them. Listen in. Don't be fooled by the promises!!!

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

5 good things that Hijackals promise you, that they won't deliver on
Why you need to be VERY clear that you are thinking you are being promised something that you will NEVER receive....except for a hot minute now and again!
Why mutuality is critical to a loving relationship
The most unlikely promises that won't be fulfilled....so sad.

I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.

Rhoberta

FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...

WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com

PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com

NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com

FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor

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If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,

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#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social

#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse

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5 Must-Do's to Save Your Sanity from a Narcissist

Steps to emotional freedom require knowing where the path starts. These five "must-do's" are fundamental to saving your sanity, self-esteem, and self-confidence. When you're in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic Hijackal, it's even MORE critlcal.

Know the importance of each of these and how to keep them top of mind. Develop enough strength to follow the "healthier human" path to avoid being sucked down the "Hijackal human" one. YOU CAN!!

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

How to not get sucked into Hijackal drama
Gaining perspective about how the narcissist's mind works
Creating emotional distance when the narcissist is accusing you
Dr. Shaler's most important mantra for saving your sanity

I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.

Rhoberta

FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...

WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com

PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com

NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com

FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor

INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp

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I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!

If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,

join my Emerging Empowered Community now.

Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + 3 group Ask Me Anything calls AND online Emerging Empowered Workbooks with prompts!

WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community

#narcississticprojection #observenarcissisticbehavior #emotionaldistance #safefromanarcissist

#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social

#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse

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