Circular Conversation. Crazy-Making
08/30/22 • 30 min
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So many parallels to being in a blender!. Those conversations that go round and round and get you right back to focusing on the Hijackal. Crazy-Making indeed. Let's recognize those circular, get-us-nowhere-good interactions and know how to exit them somewhat safely.
Involved in repeated arguments that never resolve anything? Feel like you're talking to the wall? Is it always your fault? See the patterns in your relationship after listening to this episode, and begin to remove yourself from circular conversation.
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- Why you want to avoid the spin cycle
- How Hijackals want to entrap you in circular conversations
- 9 things that WILL happen in a #circularconversation
- Why they are crazy-making
I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
Rhoberta
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#circularconversations #crazymaking #wordsalad #notlistening #powerover #Gremlins1984
#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders
#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuse
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So many parallels to being in a blender!. Those conversations that go round and round and get you right back to focusing on the Hijackal. Crazy-Making indeed. Let's recognize those circular, get-us-nowhere-good interactions and know how to exit them somewhat safely.
Involved in repeated arguments that never resolve anything? Feel like you're talking to the wall? Is it always your fault? See the patterns in your relationship after listening to this episode, and begin to remove yourself from circular conversation.
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- Why you want to avoid the spin cycle
- How Hijackals want to entrap you in circular conversations
- 9 things that WILL happen in a #circularconversation
- Why they are crazy-making
I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
Rhoberta
Introductory session for new clients,only $97
FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...
WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com
PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor
TWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
LINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler
INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
PINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Emerging Empowered Community now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + 2 group Ask Me Anything calls + a monthly Sunday Seminar, AND online Emerging Empowered Journals with prompts each month!
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community
#circularconversations #crazymaking #wordsalad #notlistening #powerover #Gremlins1984
#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders
#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuse
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Narcissistic, passive-aggressive parents are self-absorbed. Even if they have something to give you, they will withhold it, or take it for themselves.
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
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I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
Rhoberta
Introductory session for new clients,only $97
FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...
WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com
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NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
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If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
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#parentcantlove #parentdoesntlove #nolovetogive #narcissisticparent #susanforward
#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders
#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuse
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Going NO CONTACT!
Use my "Get to NO Guilt" Strategies in this episode. You often don't get much support for going no contact with the relentlessly difficult people in your world. Folks project their sense of guilt on you. Don't let that sabotage what's best for your well-being! In this episode, It's time to do it!
You matter! You need to take good care of yourself, and a Hijackal will never help you do that. That's why sometimes the only thing to do is to stop all contact and communication. It's not easy, but it's imperative.
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- Why people try to talk you out of going No Contact
- The 10 NO's of NO Contact
- Why it is difficult go decide to go NO Contact
- What to do if you're tempted to break NO Contact
- 10 Ways to Get To NO Guilt about NO Contact
I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
Rhoberta
Introductory session for new clients,only $97
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WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com
PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor
TWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler
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I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!
If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,
join my Emerging Empowered Community now.
Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + 2 group Ask Me Anything calls + a monthly Sunday Seminar, AND online Emerging Empowered Journals with prompts each month!
WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community
#goingnocontact #cuttingofftoxicpeople #howtogonocontact #stayingnocontact
#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders
#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuse
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