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Are you a busy parent trying to navigate the balance between intimacy, connection, and daily stress? Welcome to another episode of "In Bed with Lisa," the safe space that addresses the real issues and concerns many couples face on their journey to deeper intimacy and understanding.

In this episode, I sit down with Silva Neves, a renowned psychosexual & relationship psychotherapist, who dives into the topic of compulsive sexual behaviours, shedding light on a subject often veiled in controversy and misconception - pornography.

While the challenges of time, energy, and fear of rejection are realities many couples grapple with, Silva brings to the forefront the idea that pornography doesn't always have to be demonised. Instead, it can serve as a legitimate tool for destress and release for some. However, like any tool, it's all about how it's used.

Key Discussion Points:

The difference between occasional porn use and compulsive sexual behaviour.

Redefining porn in modern relationships: When is it a problem?

Overcoming the stigma: How to communicate with your partner about pornography.

Rebuilding trust after the discovery of excessive or secretive porn use.

The importance of education, understanding, and a non-judgmental approach in addressing compulsive sexual behaviours.

Whether you're looking to spice things up, understand your partner's perspective, or get a more rounded view on porn's place in relationships, this episode offers a fresh, unbiased, and informed take on a topic often discussed in hushed tones.

Join us as we explore the complexities of intimacy in today's world, offering insights, advice, and tools to help every couple find their path to a fulfilling sex life and an enhanced overall relationship.

https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/

https://sexpositivityuk.com/

Compulsive Sexual Behaviours : https://www.amazon.com/Compulsive-Sexual-Behaviours-Silva-Neves/dp/0367465485

Sexology (The Basics): https://www.amazon.com/Sexology-Basics-Silva-Neves/dp/1032233621

Try Silva's incredible Beducated Course on Fantasy Exploration for free: https://beducated.com/courses/fantasy-exploration/?ref=lisa&utm_source=tapfiliate&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=affiliate&utm_content=lisa

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