How to Spend Your Money and Time Dating Better

02/09/23 • 40 min

As a Capricorn, I have an innate love for personal finance. I can nerd out and consume things like investing, budgeting, saving, paying off debt, and more for days. But I also believe that we relate to money the same way we relate to the people we date. In fact, we tie our worthiness to these things, especially women.

So how are they similar, and how do you decouple your self-worth from your finances and your love life? In this episode, I talk about the connection between where you spend money and who you date.

9:30 - The investment I used to make while dating and the policy that changed everything

13:50 - A common pattern I’ve noticed in some clients who use the same policy

16:21 - The parallels between your romantic relationships and your relationship with money

20:03 - What happens when you let money control you instead of you controlling it

25:26 - How to get control of your money so that it doesn’t control you

30:39 - A really shitty way to live that some personal finance gurus, nevertheless, recommend

36:30 - A little juicy preview of an upcoming episode

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to How to Spend Your Money and Time Dating Better, here are your next steps:

Sign-up for the Love Incubator.
Listen to episode 298: “My Four-Part Framework to Clear Your Money Blocks.”
With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1-on-1 and schedule your Introductory Session here.
Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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So how are they similar, and how do you decouple your self-worth from your finances and your love life? In this episode, I talk about the connection between where you spend money and who you date.

9:30 - The investment I used to make while dating and the policy that changed everything

13:50 - A common pattern I’ve noticed in some clients who use the same policy

16:21 - The parallels between your romantic relationships and your relationship with money

20:03 - What happens when you let money control you instead of you controlling it

25:26 - How to get control of your money so that it doesn’t control you

30:39 - A really shitty way to live that some personal finance gurus, nevertheless, recommend

36:30 - A little juicy preview of an upcoming episode

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to How to Spend Your Money and Time Dating Better, here are your next steps:

Sign-up for the Love Incubator.
Listen to episode 298: “My Four-Part Framework to Clear Your Money Blocks.”
With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1-on-1 and schedule your Introductory Session here.
Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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How to Know If Someone Who Looks Good on Paper is Right for YOU

There are a lot of great people out there for you to date. And any one of them can mark off all the checkboxes you have in your head or on paper for what makes the perfect match for you.

But how do you really know they’re the right person for you? This might be an especially pertinent question you ask yourself if you’ve dated more than your fair share of studs who turned out to be duds.

That’s the dilemma that today’s caller, Lisa, faces. She’s actually a former client of mine and in this episode, she talks about what it was like for her before and after coaching and what she’s been able to accomplish through our work together.

9:32 - Why Lisa initially reached out to me

11:21 - The best thing Lisa got out of her therapy and why she still needed coaching help

16:34 - Where Lisa’s at right now and a recent relationship experience that set off alarm bells in her head

21:59 - How Lisa wants to approach her next relationship (and why it might not be what she’s actually looking for)

27:54 - An exercise that can help activate the intuition and a subconscious habit you can easily fall into

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to How to Know If Someone Who Looks Good on Paper is Right for YOU, here are your next steps:

Sign up for the Date Yourself Challenge and schedule your Exploratory Call for the Love Incubator program.
If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here.
Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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Next Episode

How to Integrate the Inner Work So Things Change in Your Love Life with Paige

Paige is no stranger to doing the inner work. She’s done A LOT of it! When she and I started working together, she’d been in therapy for a while, but her love life wasn’t changing the way she wanted it to. She needed something extra, and she found it through Love Incubator.

Now, Paige is here to talk about the work she did through the program. In this episode, she reveals how the work I taught her through it helped her finally release past hurt, confidently get back online, and deal with fear and rejection differently.

8:41 - Where Paige was stuck when she decided to join Love Incubator and how she healed herself

15:31 - Other things that have shifted for Paige (and how the lockdown helped her)

21:35 - What you can do vs what you can’t, even in the midst of a pandemic

23:40 - What being a part of the Love Incubator group was like for Paige

28:42 - The one hesitation Paige had before joining and what she’s grateful for about the experience

31:46 - What the Love Incubator program is all about and how to join

I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!

After you listen to How to Integrate the Inner Work So Things Change in Your Love Life with Paige, here are your next steps:

Book your Love Incubator Exploratory Call or read more about the program here.
If you are interested in being coached on the Love
Live Connection, sign up for my wait list here.
With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1-on-1 and schedule your Introductory Session here.
Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.