Turning the Spotlight on Podcast #301

08/18/23 • 57 min

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Pegging Paradise Podcast #301

Prince of Pegging
Dogs and Cars and Escapes
Email lists and marketing
Pretty Dildos!
Pegging Celebration Time!
He finally asks for it and gets it plus more!
Vagus Nerve considerations post heart attack
He discovers real femdom exists and I talk about consent
He is so giving to her that she revisits his love of anal play and he's hopeful
Podcast #112 is a lighthouse for him is so many wonderful ways
He seeks a solution to a complicated toy issue

Information/Articles

Equipment

Andrew Christian Jock Straps!
Unicorn Tongue Dildo 2.3" x 7.4"
Mr Hankey's Toys
- Beefcake Small 2.2" x 6.44"
- Alien Breeder Small 2.18" x 7.5"
- Kthulu Small 2.4" x 7.5"
Banana Pants dildo covers
- Bumpher - cover
- Shagger - cover
- b.Cush - pad
- Honeybunch - pad with vibe
- Lippi - pad with vibe
- Nu Sensuelle Point 20 - Best bullet vibe for pads

I hope you enjoy podcast #301! I included a link to an instagram video from Joe Kort that relates to my new article posted on 7/2, "Men Like to Feel Beautiful and Wanted, Too". There's a lot to this line of thinking. I think the reasons that women are not as good at expressing their desire for men are complicated, but that doesn't mean that the desire to receive compliments and feel wanted is not there. Please take some time and consider this.

BIG SALE: Mr Hankey's is having a sale! From now until August 31st, the code SUMMER20 will get you 20% off storewide! Shop.

Happy Pegging and No Shame!

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Pegging Paradise Podcast #301

Prince of Pegging
Dogs and Cars and Escapes
Email lists and marketing
Pretty Dildos!
Pegging Celebration Time!
He finally asks for it and gets it plus more!
Vagus Nerve considerations post heart attack
He discovers real femdom exists and I talk about consent
He is so giving to her that she revisits his love of anal play and he's hopeful
Podcast #112 is a lighthouse for him is so many wonderful ways
He seeks a solution to a complicated toy issue

Information/Articles

Equipment

Andrew Christian Jock Straps!
Unicorn Tongue Dildo 2.3" x 7.4"
Mr Hankey's Toys
- Beefcake Small 2.2" x 6.44"
- Alien Breeder Small 2.18" x 7.5"
- Kthulu Small 2.4" x 7.5"
Banana Pants dildo covers
- Bumpher - cover
- Shagger - cover
- b.Cush - pad
- Honeybunch - pad with vibe
- Lippi - pad with vibe
- Nu Sensuelle Point 20 - Best bullet vibe for pads

BIG SALE: Mr Hankey's is having a sale! From now until August 31st, the code SUMMER20 will get you 20% off storewide! Shop.

Happy Pegging and No Shame!

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Previous Episode

How to Be More Dominant While Pegging Your Partner

More dominant, please - the thought going through many receivers minds.

The magic of Pegging, in my opinion, is that it is a customizable sexual activity. Pegging can look many different ways depending on the desires and leanings of the people involved. One couple might enjoy a sensual, love-making experience while another might prefer a full-on BDSM scene with restraints, impact play, and humiliation.

A desire I see expressed often by receivers in pegging groups on Reddit, and in emails sent to me is for the giver to be more dominant.

"How can I get my partner to be more dominant while fucking me?"

"Sometimes I really wish she would just grab me and fuck me and act a little more dominant."

"I've asked my partner to be more dominant, but she said she doesn't know how."

This is a common desire in the world of pegging. So how can couples best navigate this added aspect to their pegging play? I recorded my thoughts on this subject for you all. The answer is more involved than you would think. Good communication is essential. Knowing what you like and dislike is also important for both givers and receivers.

Remember, the willingness to explore is commendable and a true gift to your partner and your relationship! You don't know whether you will like it if you have never tried it, right?

Happy Pegging!

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Next Episode

“I Love Seeing You Like This” – Podcast #302

"I love seeing you like this." My interviewee, Steve, has heard these words many times while receiving pegging from his partner. We hear Steve's story about how he began walking down the path of pegging and how his experience has evolved over the years. He speaks eloquently about what he loves about pegging, and his explorations into crossdressing and chastity. This podcast might be a reassurance to pegging givers who are concerned when their receivers express a desire to crossdress. Hearing personal stories can be heartening and enlightening. Enjoy!

Information/Articles

Toxic Toys - Article
Girls on Porn Podcast
Men Like to Feel Beautiful and Wanted,Too - Article
Chastity and Pegging - Article
Nicole Prause on Neurohackers Interview, Medium, Another Intervie w

Equipment

Movember officially begins in November. I will indeed be participating once again with the same goal of $1000. I'm starting early (October 15th) because my goal this year is not a specific workout goal. Instead, it's a weight loss goal! This is why I am starting early. I plan to lose 15 pounds by the end of November and reverse the effects of the pandemic on my fitness. I'm strong from all my workouts but would love to be able to fit back into some of my clothes and move through the world more easily. Extra weight impacts me more intensely as I get older! And I need to stay fit so I can keep enthusiastically having my way with my partners...!

Please donate to the Move mber fundraiser if you are able. They are doing such amazing work!

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