Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

More dominant, please - the thought going through many receivers minds.

The magic of Pegging, in my opinion, is that it is a customizable sexual activity. Pegging can look many different ways depending on the desires and leanings of the people involved. One couple might enjoy a sensual, love-making experience while another might prefer a full-on BDSM scene with restraints, impact play, and humiliation.

A desire I see expressed often by receivers in pegging groups on Reddit, and in emails sent to me is for the giver to be more dominant.

"How can I get my partner to be more dominant while fucking me?"

"Sometimes I really wish she would just grab me and fuck me and act a little more dominant."

"I've asked my partner to be more dominant, but she said she doesn't know how."

This is a common desire in the world of pegging. So how can couples best navigate this added aspect to their pegging play? I recorded my thoughts on this subject for you all. The answer is more involved than you would think. Good communication is essential. Knowing what you like and dislike is also important for both givers and receivers.

Remember, the willingness to explore is commendable and a true gift to your partner and your relationship! You don't know whether you will like it if you have never tried it, right?

Happy Pegging!

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Soft Cock Week is Coming!

Podcast #300 Part 2, where Michelle and I continue the conversation talking about responsive desire, celebrating people's no, and more. We explore touch, awakening the prostate, foreplay in solo anal exploration, and giving yourself permission. And don't forget, Soft Cock Week is coming again November 5 - 11, 2023! There are so many subjects around soft cocks that we discuss. Even how the word cock seems to be more favored by one racial demographic - with no studies to prove it!

Articles/Information

• Emily Nagoski - Come As You Are
• Cuddle Party
• Soft Cock Week November 5 - 11, 2023
• Soft Cocktail Mixer 2022
• Barry McCarthy - Coping With Premature Ejaculation
• Mark Greene - Remaking Manhood
• Betty Martin Wheel of Consent
• Woodhull Organization program archive
• The Case For Cock Owners Using Strap-Ons

Equipment

• B-Vibe Snug Plug
• Aneros Helix Syn
• Spare Parts Deuce

Michelle and I go down a bunch of rabbit holes (pun always intended) in part 2 of podcast #300. She explains about responsive desire, and how understanding what your accelerators and your brakes are can be so important for couples to explore with each other. Then we explore Soft Cock Week (Michelle's creation!) from a variety of different perspectives. Check out the website - there are a collection of writings there from the inaugural 2022 celebration.

Again, I want to thank you for downloading and listening, and for your support. I believe that because of my efforts, and by extension, your efforts, too, that we have significantly reduced the shame often felt by receivers of pegging. We have also corrected the misconceptions and myths attached to this delightful sexual activity. More people than ever are exploring pegging. The wave of interest has not slowed. If anything, it has increased. Those of you here learning, exploring, and discovering all of the pleasures pegging can offer, you are absolutely surfing that wave, and I congratulate you!

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Presenting Podcast #300

Presenting Podcast #300! I am joined by Michelle Rene, sexual surrogate, sex worker, intimacy guide, human connection coach and creator of Soft Cock Week. We talk about many. many things. You will surely find some nuggets in there for yourself. Thanks for listening!

Articles/Information

Pegging Gangbang Interview #146 Part One
Pegging Gangbang Interview #146 Part Two
Podcast #200 Part One
And Podcast #200 Part Two
Podcast #200 Part Three
Stan Tatkin - Wired For Love
Jessica Fern - Polysecure - Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-Monogamy
Dr. Joe Kort - Ask Yourself...
Terry Real - Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship
Attachment Style Quiz
AASECT
Tammy Kent - Wild Feminine

Equipment

EnticeMe - Code Ryder for free shipping!
SheVibe
Mr Hankeys

So many books to read and ideas to investigate with this episode. This is what it's like when Michelle and I get together, and we thought we'd give you a slice of Ruby/Michelle conversation to hopefully delight and inform. It's been a long road from my first poor audio quality podcast in 2012 to number 300 today. Thanks for downloading. Thanks especially for listening. On this occasion, if there's one thing that I would urge you all to remember, it would be to let go of shame.

In some areas of my life I feel like I've just gotten started, but there's no time like the present to explore, grow, and learn. Basically, it's never too late. Live your lives with love and embrace your desires, because we are only here for a short time. I say this emphatically, as a woman who just turned 66!...

Pegging Paradise Podcast #299

• She used to peg him but not anymore. Advice?
• He wonders if pushing the cock and balls back behind the legs has a point?
• He wants to find the right formula to increase her enthusiasm and pleasure
• Pegging Celebration Time!
• He has Equipment questions after their first 3 times
• He comments on my article and tells a story
• Seven words and a grammar lesson
• Shout out and a question
• Sub seeks prostate orgasm and wants more pleasure for his mistress
• He's post-op prostate cancer, seeking advice about a strap-on for him
• He's a virgin looking for a dominant partner, advice?
• She said no, he made a Funky Rocker!

Articles/Information

• Review of Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable
• Review of Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double
• Sign up for my webinars!
• Chairman Position
• Givers Discord Chat - email me: Ruby@ PeggingParadise.com
• Midori's DIY Scarf Harness
• When Dominant Women Suck Submissive Dick
• Cam Fraser Interview Mish Middelmann
• The Case For Cock Owners Using a Strap-On

Equipment

• Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Double
• Strap On Me Vibrating Double
• Spare Parts Sasha Harness
• Silicone Sheaths for Strap On Me Doubles
• O-Ring Sets
• Blush Silicone Dildos
• Spare Parts Deuce Harness
• Mr. S Leather Corey Jay Leather Harness
• Hismith Fucking Machines Coupon Code 5% off:%20WYWE97H3
• Plans for Funky Rocker and DP Upgrade!
• Velvet Teddy Thrusting Dildo - powerful and kinda loud!
• Naked Addiction Freak - thrusts, vibrates, rotates

Podcast #299 touches on a variety of different topics until finally revisiting that question of a fucking machine, but this time it is not a machine, it's a rocker. We've talked about these before and since that time there's a new upgrade to the plans, if you are a DIY kind of receiver. There are also a couple of new toys for those receivers who don't have a partner yet crave that sensation of being pegged.

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Podcast #298 features talk of the JimSupport Sex Sling

Pegging Paradise Podcast #298

• Consultations with Ruby are now easy to schedule!
• PCT! He tells his story, from anal play to pegging
• PCT! He shares his journey from diet to exploration to pegging!
• His reflections after one year of pegging
• He shares his experience with Snug Plugs 1-4 and bicycling!
• They are exploring more and more. He’s excited and terrified all at once!

Articles/Information

• Zoom Consultations with Ruby
• Review of JimSupport Sex Sling
• Breathtaking Butt Plug Article
• Pegging Positions for Beginners
• More Pegging Positions
• Article - Asking Her to Try It

Equipment

• Aneros Prostate Massager
• Sex Card Games
• Jim Support Sex Sling
• B-Vibe Snug Plugs
• B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plugs

Podcast #298 contains some great stories about this journey we call pegging, from beginning anal play to the real deal. I never tire of hearing how that story unfolds, the challenges and thrills along the way. The recurring theme so often seems to be the deep satisfaction of being accepted for exactly who you are, and the thrill of exploring new sexual territory. Slings, butt plugs, relationships, communications, taking risks, asking for what you want, and more makes up this episode. And we are almost at #300!

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