
Reinventing My 50s: Good Girl Gone - How I Ditched Perfectionism and People Pleasing to Find My Authentic Self with Wendy Hutchinson
11/17/22 • 49 min
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What's possible when we find the courage to reinvent and be our authentic selves?
When we shed who people think we should be and step into who we truly want and are meant to be?
The truth is, anything is possible when we learn to stand up for ourselves.
We can use self-empowerment to propel us forward as we reinvent ourselves. There are limitless opportunities to show up and shine, comfortable in our skin.
That's exactly what happened to my extraordinary guest, Wendy Hutchinson.
A lifelong people pleaser and self-proclaimed good girl, Wendy grew tired of putting everyone else before herself.
Instead of complaining, she did something about it.
She reinvented herself in bold ways and learned a lot about herself along the way. She shared so many powerful insights in our conversation:
✅ How learning how to love herself helped her see new possibilities
✅ Why perfectionism is a dream killer
✅ How she shed old aspects for herself to embrace who she really is - her authentic self
✅ Why reinvention is an inside job and not about acquiring "more stuff"
✅ How we can build our stress tolerance and learn to set boundaries during our reinvention journey (because some people will be resistant to the new, empowered you)
✅ Why we have to look at the stories we've been telling ourselves and determine if they're true
I love Wendy's reinvention story. I love the wisdom she shares. I love how she ditched people pleasing to emerge as a passionate, happy and fierce version of herself.
She reminds us that we can all find our Reinvention Rebel groove too. Each of us in our own unique way.
I can't wait for you to listen to her empowering story!
Mentioned in this episode
- Reinvention Inspiration: Revisit Past Experiences to Find Fresh Reinvention Ideas!
- Wendy Battles a guest on Wendy Hutchinson's podcast, The Path of Me
Connect with Wendy:
Website: Alinea Life Coaching
Podcast: The Path of Me Podcast
Book:
Loving the show? Text us and let us know! 😊
Kick your midlife fears and uncertainty to the curb and start your Reinvention Rebels journey today. Learn about my audio program, Midlife Reinvention From The Inside Out: 8 Essentials to Greenlight Your Life.
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Thanks for joining me, let's reinvent and get inspired together!
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What's possible when we find the courage to reinvent and be our authentic selves?
When we shed who people think we should be and step into who we truly want and are meant to be?
The truth is, anything is possible when we learn to stand up for ourselves.
We can use self-empowerment to propel us forward as we reinvent ourselves. There are limitless opportunities to show up and shine, comfortable in our skin.
That's exactly what happened to my extraordinary guest, Wendy Hutchinson.
A lifelong people pleaser and self-proclaimed good girl, Wendy grew tired of putting everyone else before herself.
Instead of complaining, she did something about it.
She reinvented herself in bold ways and learned a lot about herself along the way. She shared so many powerful insights in our conversation:
✅ How learning how to love herself helped her see new possibilities
✅ Why perfectionism is a dream killer
✅ How she shed old aspects for herself to embrace who she really is - her authentic self
✅ Why reinvention is an inside job and not about acquiring "more stuff"
✅ How we can build our stress tolerance and learn to set boundaries during our reinvention journey (because some people will be resistant to the new, empowered you)
✅ Why we have to look at the stories we've been telling ourselves and determine if they're true
I love Wendy's reinvention story. I love the wisdom she shares. I love how she ditched people pleasing to emerge as a passionate, happy and fierce version of herself.
She reminds us that we can all find our Reinvention Rebel groove too. Each of us in our own unique way.
I can't wait for you to listen to her empowering story!
Mentioned in this episode
- Reinvention Inspiration: Revisit Past Experiences to Find Fresh Reinvention Ideas!
- Wendy Battles a guest on Wendy Hutchinson's podcast, The Path of Me
Connect with Wendy:
Website: Alinea Life Coaching
Podcast: The Path of Me Podcast
Book:
Loving the show? Text us and let us know! 😊
Kick your midlife fears and uncertainty to the curb and start your Reinvention Rebels journey today. Learn about my audio program, Midlife Reinvention From The Inside Out: 8 Essentials to Greenlight Your Life.
*********
Thanks for joining me, let's reinvent and get inspired together!
Please Share What You Loved
Your feedback means everything to me! If you enjoyed this episode please rate and review on Apple Podcasts, Podchaser, Castbox or leave a comment at reinventionrebels.com.
Let's connect:
Instagram: @reinventionrebels
Facebook: @ReinventionRebels
Previous Episode

Reinvention Inspiration: Revisit Past Experiences to Find Fresh Reinvention Ideas!
What happens when we revisit our past experiences as fodder for our current growth and expansion?
Have you ever noticed that a fresh perspective can transform an old idea into something new?
And those new ideas can help us navigate the reinvention process in interesting, and sometimes unexpected, ways.
While we may look to the past and be reminded of things that we didn't like or didn't go well, the opposite can be true too.
The past is a remarkable place to help us move forward. Instead of thinking of it with fear or dread, we can approach it with possibility.
Sometimes we had a good idea but the timing wasn't right. Being patient and believing in the power of manifestation can propel our reinvention journey forward in the most joyful ways.
In this solo episode I share:
✳️ What happened when I revisited my dislike for bananas years later
✳️ Why we should stay open to new ideas even if we're resistant
✳️ How revisiting voice acting 20 years later sparked my career as a podcast host
✳️ Why being open to change is so important in reinventing ourselves
✳️ 3 questions to ask yourself that can help spark to new ideas
I've got ideas for you to help you keep moving forward as you reinvent yourself. Take a listen and try them on for size.
Mentioned in this episode:
- Reinventing My 80s: Taking Center Stage - How I Launched a Full-Time Acting Career with Stephanie Schwartz
- Reinventing My 80s: How I Thrive at 89 - Curiosity, Community & Connection with Elaine Battles
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Your feedback means everything to me! If you enjoyed this episode please rate and review on Apple Podcasts, Podchaser, Castbox or leave a comment at reinventionrebels.comPlease spread the word! Let's encourage more women to unapologetically embrace their Inner Reinvention Rebel and boldly pursue their wildest dreams.
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Let's Stay in Touch!
Visit me at reinventionrebels.comCheck out other things I'm up to here: http://linktr.ee/reinventionrebels
Loving the show? Text us and let us know! 😊
*********
Thanks for joining me, let's reinvent and get inspired together!
Please Share What You Loved
Your feedback means everything to me! If you enjoyed this episode please rate and review on Apple Podcasts, Podchaser, Castbox or leave a comment at reinventionrebels.com.
Let's connect:
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Facebook: @ReinventionRebels
Next Episode

Midlife Reinvention: Offer Yourself Gratitude and Grace as You Navigate Your Reinvention Journey
What happens when you lean into more gratitude in your life?
I believe it's a powerful tool that can propel our lives forward in new ways in our reinvention journey.
For one, it builds our appreciation for the little things and helps up find joy (even in challenging situations).
I like to practice gratitude all year long. But it's hard not to focus on it as we near the end of year.
Thanksgiving is all about being thankful, having gratitude and appreciating what we have in our lives.
I'm leaning in hard this year, thankful for so many things in my life. You too?
I can't wait for you to listen to this solo episode where I share:
✳️ Why gratitude is so important
✳️ What I'm most grateful for this season
✳️ Why having gratitude for our challenges is empowering
✳️ How we can offer ourselves gratitude and grace on our reinvention journey
✳️ 3 questions to help you tap into more gratitude in your life
If you're celebrating Thanksgiving, here's to a joyful weekend with time spent with those you love.
And here's to endless joy for all of us as we welcome in the holiday season.
Enjoy this episode and let's all celebrate our gratitude!
P.S. Did you check out last week's episode with the amazing Wendy Hutchinson? I love how she stopped people pleasing and kicked her perfectionist tendencies to the curb to find her authentic self. If you're a midlife woman trying to figure it out and find more joy, this is a must-listen episode!
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Please Share What You Loved
Your feedback means everything to me! If you enjoyed this episode please rate and review on Apple Podcasts, Podchaser, Castbox or leave a comment at reinventionrebels.comPlease spread the word! Let's encourage more women to unapologetically embrace their Inner Reinvention Rebel and boldly pursue their wildest dreams.
******
Let's Stay in Touch!
Visit me at reinventionrebels.comCheck out other things I'm up to here: http://linktr.ee/reinventionrebels
Loving the show? Text us and let us know! 😊
*********
Thanks for joining me, let's reinvent and get inspired together!
Please Share What You Loved
Your feedback means everything to me! If you enjoyed this episode please rate and review on Apple Podcasts, Podchaser, Castbox or leave a comment at reinventionrebels.com.
Let's connect:
Instagram: @reinventionrebels
Facebook: @ReinventionRebels
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