#20 Letting Go of “The Right Path” to Create Your True Happiness

02/03/25 • 13 min

In this episode, I reflect on the transformative power of choices and how they shape who we are—and who we’re becoming. Inspired by The Midnight Library by Matt Haig, I explore the beauty of embracing life as a creative, ever-evolving process rather than a rigid, predetermined path.
I share insights on the unpredictable nature of happiness, the freedom that comes from realizing no decision is final, and why there’s always more than two options at any turning point.
If you’re ready to let go of the pressure to “get it right” and start seeing life as a space to experiment, grow, and feel your way forward, this episode is for you.
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#19 How to Begin: Michael Bungay Stanier on Reinvention, Worthy Goals, and Unlocking Your Greatness

In this episode, I chat with Michael Bungay Stanier, bestselling author of The Coaching Habit and an expert in coaching and connection, about how to create a life that truly aligns with your potential. Michael shares powerful insights into setting “worthy goals”—those that are thrilling, important, and daunting—and how they can guide personal and professional reinvention.
We explore the difference between being good at something and feeling fulfilled by it, unpacking why self-awareness is key to setting meaningful goals. Michael also delves into the neuroscience behind connection, the courage it takes to embrace change, and how understanding identity plays a role in creating a life of purpose.
This conversation touches on navigating fear, reclaiming ambition as a tool for growth, and the transformative process of reinvention. Michael offers practical wisdom for letting go of old identities and embracing the discomfort of stepping into something new. Whether you're working toward a big goal, rethinking your ambitions, or longing for a fresh chapter, this episode will inspire you to trust the process and create a life that feels fully aligned with who you are becoming.
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https://www.MBS.works
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#21 Energizing Growth and Challenging Yourself with Mike Novosel

In this episode, I chat with Mike Novosel, who shares his deep-rooted drive for constant growth and self-challenge—traits that were shaped by the powerful examples set by his grandfather and mother. Mike talks about his fear of losing momentum and how pushing himself to grow keeps him energized and fulfilled.
We dive into his experience turning around a failing business line at Cardlytics, where curiosity, vulnerability, and building strong relationships were key. Mike’s excitement for growth is contagious, and he’s passionate about instilling this same drive in his team.
Mike also offers valuable insights for high performers on how to reflect on what truly energizes and excites you, beyond just professional achievements. He shares practical advice on balancing personal values with career goals, maintaining work-life balance, and prioritizing quality over quantity. Plus, he provides tips on regaining confidence after setbacks.
If you’re focused on growth and want to stay energized while navigating challenges in your career, you'll love this conversation.

Watch this and other episodes of the podcast on Nataly's YouTube Channel:
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www.natalykogan.com
Learn more about Mike Novosel:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikenovosel/