
Episode 59 - No Longer a Victim, Forever a Survivor
Explicit content warning
07/25/22 • 62 min
In this episode survivor Terra Newell details the attack that nearly killed her and how she fought off and took down Dirty John. Terra and I go on to discuss what healing has looked like, therapy types, bumps in the road and many things in between. Terra is an amazing human who speaks with such authenticity, it gives so many other survivors permission to speak on their own terms. Thank you Terra for coming on, absolute warrior woman. Make sure to reach out to Terra & check out her story in more detail on her TikTok!
Connect with Terra Newell
Time Out With Terra Podcast Instagram
Website - https://terranewellsurvival.com/
Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine Heather
For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:
Lifeline
For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline
Phone: 13 11 14
Website: www.lifeline.org.au/
1800 RESPECT
For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT
Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732
Website: www.1800respect.org.au
Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)
Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)
Connect with services in Canada
Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services
https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/
Connect with services in America
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.
Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/
RAINN
US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors
Website: https://www.rainn.org/
National Hotlines
Live chat option available on the website
National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.
Phone: - 855-484-2846 -
Connect with services in the UK
Rape crisis UK
Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode survivor Terra Newell details the attack that nearly killed her and how she fought off and took down Dirty John. Terra and I go on to discuss what healing has looked like, therapy types, bumps in the road and many things in between. Terra is an amazing human who speaks with such authenticity, it gives so many other survivors permission to speak on their own terms. Thank you Terra for coming on, absolute warrior woman. Make sure to reach out to Terra & check out her story in more detail on her TikTok!
Connect with Terra Newell
Time Out With Terra Podcast Instagram
Website - https://terranewellsurvival.com/
Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine Heather
For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:
Lifeline
For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline
Phone: 13 11 14
Website: www.lifeline.org.au/
1800 RESPECT
For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT
Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732
Website: www.1800respect.org.au
Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)
Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)
Connect with services in Canada
Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services
https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/
Connect with services in America
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
The National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) is the leading nonprofit in providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.
Website: https://www.nsvrc.org/
RAINN
US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors
Website: https://www.rainn.org/
National Hotlines
Live chat option available on the website
National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.
Phone: - 855-484-2846 -
Connect with services in the UK
Rape crisis UK
Website: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Previous Episode

Episode 58 - Part 2 - A Story of Survival
Survivor Caroline is back for part 2 of our chat. In this episode we get into courageous intentions, how Caroline started her book and where she is at now in her journey and life.
More Than One Thing Can Be True – a story of survival is Caroline’s memoir. It is her story. It’s her ode to healing despite the odds. It speaks to the reality of trauma, and also the power we have to transform and heal. It is a story of one courageous woman, who despite carrying decades of shame, chose to own her voice. In doing so, she is paving the way for survivors to own their voice, and live a life of courageous intention.
Thank you for coming on and sharing part 1 Caroline - you are an absolutely amazing human.
Connect with Caroline Brunne
Connect with Reclaim Me / Madeleine
For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:
1800 RESPECT
For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT
Phone: 1800 RESPECT - 1800 737 732
Website: www.1800respect.org.au
Centre Against Sexual Assault (CASA)
Phone: (Victoria) 1800 806 292 (Nationally use 1800 RESPECT)
Connect with services in Canada
Sexual Assault Centres, Crisis Lines, and Support Services
https://endingviolencecanada.org/sexual-assault-centres-crisis-lines-and-support-services/
Connect with services in America
RAINN
US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors
Website: https://www.rainn.org/
National Hotlines
Live chat option available on the website
National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources.
Phone: - 855-484-2846 -
Connect with services in the UK
The Glade
Website: https://www.theglade.org.uk/
Survivors UK
This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary
Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org/
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Next Episode

We're on Holidays! Recap - Edge of the Bed
Trigger Warning - CSA
In this episode, survivor Ryan details the ongoing child sexual abuse he endured at the hands of his step father.
We discuss at length the abuse he endured, the emotional and physical tolls this abuse had on him, and his perpetrators behaviours. This episode goes through the many controlling tactics used by perpetrators of child sexual abuse and the systems they face.
Thank you Ryan for coming on, shedding a light on what abuse can look like and really stepping into advocacy and trying to normalise talking about abuse. You are an absolute warrior in your own right, and i'm so thankful to have been able to chat with you.
To reach Ryan
Instagram @theedgeofthebed
To reach Madeleine & Reclaim Me
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/ReclaimMe
RESOURCES:
For advice and support in England / UK please reach out to:
Rape crisis UK
The Glade
SurvivorsUK - https://www.survivorsuk.org/
This a uk, London based men's/male survivors support group, which does include trans and non-binary
RAINN- https://www.rainn.org/
This a US based Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network for survivors
For advice and support in Australia please reach out to:
For crisis support please reach out to Lifeline 13 11 14
For sexual assault and domestic abuse support services please reach out to 1800 RESPECT
National Debt Helpline: 1800 007 007
WIRE: 1300 134 130
Women’s Legal Services Australia:
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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