
#02: What if we were able to more deeply connect?
02/18/21 • 43 min
Ciela, Maxine, and Terri discuss the role connection plays in an organization. Together, they explore why connection is important but can also feel dangerous, differences between connection, collaboration, and trust, intentionally connecting with those who hold differing opinions, and more.
Topics Include:
- Trust within an organization
- What it means to feel "connected" in the workplace
- The shadow side of connection or trust
- The theory of Dunbar's Number
- The relationship between connection and competition
- Connecting with yourself to connect with others
- Fostering connections with people who think differently than us
- An "I see you, and I am here" attitude
- Seeing the person, not the role
- And other topics...
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Resources Mentioned:
How to Build Trust? Break it First. by Julia Diamond
Dunbar's Number - BBC
Want to connect? Reach out to us online!
https://www.questioningwork.c
Ciela, Maxine, and Terri discuss the role connection plays in an organization. Together, they explore why connection is important but can also feel dangerous, differences between connection, collaboration, and trust, intentionally connecting with those who hold differing opinions, and more.
Topics Include:
- Trust within an organization
- What it means to feel "connected" in the workplace
- The shadow side of connection or trust
- The theory of Dunbar's Number
- The relationship between connection and competition
- Connecting with yourself to connect with others
- Fostering connections with people who think differently than us
- An "I see you, and I am here" attitude
- Seeing the person, not the role
- And other topics...
...
Resources Mentioned:
How to Build Trust? Break it First. by Julia Diamond
Dunbar's Number - BBC
Want to connect? Reach out to us online!
https://www.questioningwork.c
Previous Episode

#01: Who am I at work and who decides?
Ciela, Maxine, and Terri meet to discuss identity in the workplace. In this conversation, they explore the difference between resilience and resourcefulness, 2020 as a mindset reset, investigating our scope of influence in the workplace, and more.
Topics Include:
- Adaptive resourcefulness
- Blurred lines between home and work during COVID
- Identity and work
- Resilience vs resourcefulness
- Adaptation–leaving behind that which no longer serves you
- Mindsets and how they can change
- Slowing down to co-create with others
- An individuals scope of influence in the workplace
- And other topics...
...
Resources Mentioned:
Ikigai by Chris Myers
Deliberate Practice by James Clear
Want to connect? Reach out to us online!
https://www.questioningwork.com/
Next Episode

#03: Why does the organization sometimes feel dangerous?
Ciela, Maxine, and Terri discuss why being a part of an organization often feels dangerous and the feelings of fear and anxiety that can result. They explore the changing expectations of leaders and organizations in a post-COVID world, why kindness is key at the individual and collective level, the problem with blurry lines between professional and personal relationships, and more.
Topics Include:
- Vulnerability in the workplace
- Changing expectations for leaders and organizations
- Objective truths vs subjective human experiences
- Diversity and inclusion
- Personal growth as an organizational goal
- Belonging–knowing that you are cared for and a part of
- Balancing safety and risk
- Appropriate levels of connection and intimacy with your team and advisors
- The problem with "family" as a core value in the workplace
- Kindness as a balm for fear and anxiety
- Being nice vs being kind
- The need to ask better questions
- And other topics...
...
Resources Mentioned:
Immunity to Change by Robert Kegan
Better Listening by Jack Zenger and Joseph Folkman
Want to connect? Reach out to us online!
https://www.questioningwork.com/
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