My Voice Story

08/01/24 • 41 min

Understanding the Psychology of the Voice: My Personal Journey and Insights

Episode Summary: In this episode, we dive deeper into the concept of the psychology of the voice, blending personal anecdotes with professional insights to illuminate how our voice is influenced by our life experiences. Whether you're new to this concept or a returning listener, today's discussion will offer valuable perspectives on how our past can shape our present vocal expression and communication.

Key Topics:

Introduction to the Psychology of the Voice:
- A brief recap of the psychology of the voice concept for newcomers and a refresher for existing listeners.
- The importance of understanding how personal experiences shape vocal expression.
Personal Journey and Early Challenges:
- The initial resistance to the field and dealing with impostor syndrome.
- Growing up in an environment of silence and the impact it had on the ability to express emotions and assert oneself.
Critical Influences and Early Realizations:
- Insights from the TED Talk on voice masks and how early life experiences of being silenced influenced the development of the psychology of the voice.
- The development of unique auditory skills and the struggle to navigate silence and assertiveness.
A Challenging Experience in College:
- A dramatic story from college involving physical and emotional challenges while performing in a lead role.
- The profound impact of being unable to say “no” and how it affected vocal expression and personal boundaries.
Breakthrough and Discovery:
- The pivotal moment of realizing the connection between past traumas and current vocal challenges.
- The development of the psychology of the voice methodology and how the author’s experiences led to new insights.
The Turning Point:
- Transitioning from traditional voice coaching to a deeper understanding of voice psychology.
- The struggle to reconcile traditional methods with the need to address underlying psychological issues.
Overcoming Doubts and Building Expertise:
- The journey from feeling like a fraud to establishing a successful voice coaching practice.
- Insights into the development of techniques to address subconscious influences and vocal sound.
The Role of Voice Masks:
- Introduction to voice masks and their significance in shaping how we communicate and are perceived.
- Real-life examples of how understanding voice masks can transform communication effectiveness.
Current Work and Future Directions:
- Ongoing commitment to understanding and applying the psychology of the voice.
- The impact of continued research and practice on refining the approach to voice coaching.

Listener Takeaways:

Recognize the impact of past experiences on current vocal expression and communication.
Understand the connection between psychological wounds and vocal habits.
Learn how to identify and address underlying issues that affect vocal authenticity and effectiveness.
Gain insights into the development of the psychology of the voice and how it can enhance personal and professi

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Understanding the Psychology of the Voice: My Personal Journey and Insights

Key Topics:

Introduction to the Psychology of the Voice:
- A brief recap of the psychology of the voice concept for newcomers and a refresher for existing listeners.
- The importance of understanding how personal experiences shape vocal expression.
Personal Journey and Early Challenges:
- The initial resistance to the field and dealing with impostor syndrome.
- Growing up in an environment of silence and the impact it had on the ability to express emotions and assert oneself.
Critical Influences and Early Realizations:
- Insights from the TED Talk on voice masks and how early life experiences of being silenced influenced the development of the psychology of the voice.
- The development of unique auditory skills and the struggle to navigate silence and assertiveness.
A Challenging Experience in College:
- A dramatic story from college involving physical and emotional challenges while performing in a lead role.
- The profound impact of being unable to say “no” and how it affected vocal expression and personal boundaries.
Breakthrough and Discovery:
- The pivotal moment of realizing the connection between past traumas and current vocal challenges.
- The development of the psychology of the voice methodology and how the author’s experiences led to new insights.
The Turning Point:
- Transitioning from traditional voice coaching to a deeper understanding of voice psychology.
- The struggle to reconcile traditional methods with the need to address underlying psychological issues.
Overcoming Doubts and Building Expertise:
- The journey from feeling like a fraud to establishing a successful voice coaching practice.
- Insights into the development of techniques to address subconscious influences and vocal sound.
The Role of Voice Masks:
- Introduction to voice masks and their significance in shaping how we communicate and are perceived.
- Real-life examples of how understanding voice masks can transform communication effectiveness.
Current Work and Future Directions:
- Ongoing commitment to understanding and applying the psychology of the voice.
- The impact of continued research and practice on refining the approach to voice coaching.

Listener Takeaways:

Recognize the impact of past experiences on current vocal expression and communication.
Understand the connection between psychological wounds and vocal habits.
Learn how to identify and address underlying issues that affect vocal authenticity and effectiveness.
Gain insights into the development of the psychology of the voice and how it can enhance personal and professi

Previous Episode

What is Psychology of the Voice®

Welcome to the show!
Understanding the Psychology of the Voice

Introduction

In this episode, we delve into the concept of the Psychology of the Voice, exploring its foundational principles and its profound impact on personal and professional communication.

Background and Methodology

Tracy introduces the concept of Psychology of the Voice, a methodology she developed to uncover how people's voices affect their interactions and relationships.
The methodology focuses on how subconscious processes influence listeners' perceptions based solely on the sound of one's voice.

Challenges Addressed

Tracy discusses the common issues faced by individuals due to misrepresentative or protective sounds in their voice.
She emphasizes how these sounds can hinder connection, authenticity, and influence potential clients and listeners.

The Seven Layers of Sound

Tracy outlines the seven layers of sound that make up her methodology, each layer representing different aspects of vocal expression and subconscious influence.

Impact and Results

Through her work, Tracy has been able to identify specific vocal patterns that indicate traits such as people-pleasing or perfectionism in individuals.
She shares anecdotes of how addressing these vocal patterns has significantly improved clients' outcomes in various aspects of their lives, from business success to personal relationships.

Evolution of the Methodology

Tracy reflects on the evolution of her methodology over three decades, from her beginnings as a dialect coach to developing the comprehensive framework of Psychology of the Voice.

Three Pillars of Psychology of the Voice

Unearth: Addressing internal narratives and voice stories that influence vocal habits.
Unmask: Identifying and removing "voice masks," which are protective layers of sound that inhibit authenticity and connection.
Unleash: Allowing individuals to express their true voice authentically and confidently.

Transformational Outcomes

Tracy shares success stories where clients achieved significant improvements in their professional and personal lives by embracing their authentic voice.
She emphasizes that the methodology isn't just about superficial changes but about achieving internal freedom and confidence.

Conclusion

Tracy invites listeners to explore more about Psychology of the Voice and join her in uncovering the nuances of authentic communication.
She previews upcoming episodes where she will delve deeper into specific aspects of the methodology and share more transformative insights.

Closing Remarks

Tracy reaffirms her commitment to helping individuals reclaim their authentic voice and invites listeners to engage with her ongoing research and teachings.

These show notes capture the essence of Tracy's discussion on the Psychology of the Voice, highlighting its transformative potential in personal and professional communication.
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Next Episode

Getting the Words Right

Welcome to this episode of the Psychology of the Voice ® podcast. Today, we're diving into a topic that’s crucial for anyone looking to enhance their communication skills: getting the words right. As we wrap up the Olympics season, we'll use a unique example from this year's games to illustrate our point.

Episode Highlights

1. Introduction to Today’s Topic

We’ll discuss the importance of getting your words right and how it ties into your overall communication strategy.
Explore the concept of perfectionism in communication and how it can affect your delivery and confidence.

2. Monthly Free Training & Resources

I offer free training every month to help you speak more confidently, connect authentically, and convert consistently. Join us at captivatetheroom.com/unleashfree.
Don’t miss out on my audio resource, “Use Your Voice to Command Any Space,” available at captivatetheroom.com/command.

3. The Pressure to Get the Words Right

Delve into why people often feel they must get every word perfect.
Discuss how striving for perfection can undermine your natural communication style and authenticity.

4. The Snoop Dogg Example

A light-hearted look at Snoop Dogg’s Olympic commentary. His unfiltered, authentic style has captivated millions, demonstrating that connection and personality often outweigh technical perfection.
Example: Snoop Dogg’s badminton commentary – playful, engaging, and far from traditional.

5. The Real Issue: Connection and Authenticity

Can a commentator, or anyone speaking publicly, balance the need to get the words right with staying true to their authentic self?
Why it's crucial to focus on how you deliver your message rather than obsessing over getting every word perfect.

6. Practical Advice for Speakers

Trust yourself and your knowledge. Understand that perfectionism can hinder rather than help your communication.
The importance of being genuine and engaging in your delivery. People are drawn to authentic voices, not just correct words.

7. Overcoming Insecurities

Strategies to overcome the fear of not getting the words right.
Real-life example of a client’s experience with resistance and perfectionism.

8. Final Thoughts

Embrace your unique voice and style. Let go of the need for perfection and focus on connecting with your audience.
Remember: Authenticity and confidence are key to captivating any audience.

Thank you for tuning in! If you enjoyed this episode, please rate, review, and share it with others who might benefit from a boost in their communication skills. Stay tuned for more insights and tips on mastering the art of effective communication.
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