
PsychologistSay...
Tami Jollie-Trottier, Ph.D.
Everyday life can be tricky - impossible even, and talking about it can be even more challenging. Trust me; I get it - being human has its challenges. Hello, I’m Dr. Tami, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. I create candid conversations about what Psychologists are Saying related to everyday situations. I combine Indigenous & Modern Day Psychology - helping us understand behaviors impacting ourselves and others. PS: We all have problems, so let's talk about them!
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best PsychologistSay... episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to PsychologistSay... for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite PsychologistSay... episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Embracing Indigenous Wisdom: Redefining Happiness and Life's Cycles
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10/21/24 • 34 min
Join us for an enriching conversation with Miss Debbie, an esteemed Anishinaabe elder, as she invites us to rethink our relationship with happiness and life's journey. Discover how seeing life as a gift, rather than a struggle, can transform daily challenges into celebrations. Through a captivating exchange, Miss Debbie and I contrast different perceptions of "work" and happiness, illustrating how language and perspective profoundly shape our experiences. With the metaphor of a baby's first cry as a joyful sign of life, she encourages us to greet each day with gratitude and celebration.
Our journey doesn't stop there, as we examine the cyclical nature of life that Miss Debbie shares, challenging the linear views prevalent in Western psychology. The wisdom of our ancestors and the teachings of interconnectedness offer a fresh lens on happiness—one rooted in understanding our emotions as integral parts of us. Through the symbolism of the seven rocks, representing virtues like love and honesty, we emphasize the importance of community and living in harmony with all of nature. This episode is a bridge between complex psychological insights and practical well-being, offering actionable steps for a fulfilling life while fostering balance and respect for all living beings.
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Unveiling the Trap of Experiential Avoidance: Confront Life with Courage and Insight
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02/05/24 • 21 min
Unlock the hidden patterns of your mind as we venture into the realm of experiential avoidance—a concept far more prevalent in our daily lives than we might realize. Have you ever noticed yourself shying away from uncomfortable tasks or conversations, only to face a mountain of stress later on? Our latest episode peels back the layers of this psychological behavior, revealing its deceptive allure and the subtle ways it can undermine our mental health. We dissect procrastination, a classic example of experiential avoidance, and discuss the irony of how seeking immediate relief can spiral into anxiety and chaos as deadlines loom. This enlightening journey into self-awareness promises to offer you a fresh perspective on the coping strategies you unwittingly employ and how they may be impacting your life.
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Gratitude Journaling to improve your mood
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12/05/23 • 7 min
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How to Hold Space for someone
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11/17/23 • 10 min
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05/16/25 • 39 min
What happens when we release the identities we've constructed for ourselves and embrace a deeper connection to ancestral wisdom? In this soul-stirring conversation, author, speaker, and linguist James Vuklich (Turtle Mountain Band of Chippewa) shares his transformative journey from teaching the Ojibwe language to truly living it.
Whether seeking to understand Indigenous wisdom or searching for your path toward authentic living, this episode offers profound insights on releasing constructed identities, embracing our connections to each other, and finding liberation in unexpected places.
What identity might you need to release to discover who you truly are?
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Walk away the blues!
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08/08/23 • 16 min
Dr. Tami discusses how walking can have a positive impact on mood and how you can incorporate this into your lifestyle.
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Accountability
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09/05/22 • 16 min
Accountability is an episode about being responsible for following through on your actions. Dr. Tami, joined by producer Rob Jollie - creates a conversation that reminds a person to be accountable for their actions and understand the repercussions that come with it.
Listening to this episode can help you understand what comes with accountability and where it can take you. We all have areas to improve, some more than others - however, we can all improve on being accountable.
This episode is brought to you by the North Dakota Department of Human Services Community Engagement Unit! Miigwech for your support!
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Stick to Plan A!
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03/29/23 • 32 min
Setting goals, whether small or large, can be daunting. It's not uncommon to have a Backup Plan in mind when you set a goal; however, research suggests this may demotivate you and interfere with achieving your ideal or primary goal. Let's talk about it!
The North Dakota Department of Human Services Community Engagement Unit brings this episode to you. Chii Miigwech for your support!
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Taking control over chaos- the CBT Triangle can help!
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03/21/23 • 23 min
Dr. Tami provides insight into a form of therapy called Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, developed by Aaron Beck, MD. She helps listeners understand the cognitive triangle and how to use it to empower them to control their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It’s one of many CBT tools to discuss for everyone!
Check out this great article to learn more: https://positivepsychology.com/cbt/
The ND Human Services Community Engagement Unit brings this episode to you. Miigwech (thank you)
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Rethinking Happiness: Embracing the Full Spectrum of Emotions
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06/24/24 • 39 min
Can happiness be our default state? Join Dr. Tami and Harold as they challenge this widespread belief and unpack the unrealistic expectations society places on us. Through candid discussions, they reveal how the pursuit of constant happiness can lead to stress and disappointment. Listen as Harold shares a touching moment of joy playing with his son, which highlights the sporadic nature of happiness and how it often appears when least expected. Dr. Tammy explains how true contentment stems from feeling calm and safe, rather than perpetually happy.
Discover the intricate dynamics between pride and happiness in our next segment. Dr. Tammy and Harold delve into how pride in our achievements can stand alone, separate from the fleeting sensation of happiness. They stress the importance of embracing a full spectrum of emotions instead of being fixated on happiness. This nuanced understanding is especially crucial in relationships, where expecting constant happiness can create undue pressure. By navigating various emotions together, couples can foster a healthier, more resilient connection.
In the final part of the episode, we dissect the difference between genuine happiness and temporary euphoria. Dr. Tammy and Harold caution against external means like drugs or alcohol for seeking joy, as these often lead to short-lived highs rather than true fulfillment. They also tackle the evolution of our eating habits, pointing out how modern consumption has shifted from survival to pleasure, which has contributed to addictive behaviors. This discussion sets the stage for future conversations about how these habits impact our overall well-being. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that aims to reshape your understanding of happiness and the effort required to attain it.
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FAQ
How many episodes does PsychologistSay... have?
PsychologistSay... currently has 47 episodes available.
What topics does PsychologistSay... cover?
The podcast is about Culture, Health & Fitness, Spirituality, Native American, Psychology, Mental Health, Wellness, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education, Indigenous and Health.
What is the most popular episode on PsychologistSay...?
The episode title 'Breaking Free from Comfort Eating's Embrace' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on PsychologistSay...?
The average episode length on PsychologistSay... is 30 minutes.
How often are episodes of PsychologistSay... released?
Episodes of PsychologistSay... are typically released every 7 days, 1 hour.
When was the first episode of PsychologistSay...?
The first episode of PsychologistSay... was released on Aug 22, 2022.
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