
Turning Obstacles into Opportunities: The Struggle Survival Guide
05/22/22 • 49 min
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For most people, this is one of the more challenging aspects of life. We set goals with enthusiasm, and energetically take action to achieve them. Everything looks great, for a while. Then it happens. The setback. We’ve been stalled out, and suddenly have no idea what to do next. Things come grinding to a halt, and the world feels like it’s coming to an end.
But to a particular personality type, this is the fun part. The obstacle becomes not so much a stopping point as a challenge, an opportunity to discover something new about yourself or about the world you live in. Obstacles are what create growth and make life more enjoyable. It’s a radical thought, isn’t it? In this book, you’re going to find a survival guide to get through those rough places. We’ll start with a look at life and the kinds of obstacles we all face. We’re also going to discover the sometimes-surprising benefits of obstacles. From there, you’ll find out how to take on the obstacles in your life and turn them into opportunities. Are you ready to look at life in a new way? If so, read on. You’re going to be amazed at just how exciting this whole process is!
The dictionary defines the word “obstacle” as “a thing that blocks one's way or prevents or hinders progress.” When you hear the word, you might imagine an obstacle course. As a child, you probably played on several such courses. You might have even created your own with branches and rocks, setting up various challenges in your backyard or on the playground. Your obstacle course might have involved a series of activities such as running, jumping, hopping, or crawling. If you were ever in the military, you’ve trained on the more grown-up versions of these courses, pushing your body to the absolute physical limits to get through to the other side. When a child is confronted with an obstacle course, they never pause to consider the possibility of stopping. They charge full speed ahead, and when they come to something blocking their progress to the finish line, they look at it as a challenge. The obstacle is a puzzle, something to get through, or up, or over until they are on the other side. What’s more, every obstacle becomes an opportunity to show off their physical prowess and thinking skills to their peers. It’s a way of saying, “Watch me do this!”
Wayne Weathersby
For most people, this is one of the more challenging aspects of life. We set goals with enthusiasm, and energetically take action to achieve them. Everything looks great, for a while. Then it happens. The setback. We’ve been stalled out, and suddenly have no idea what to do next. Things come grinding to a halt, and the world feels like it’s coming to an end.
But to a particular personality type, this is the fun part. The obstacle becomes not so much a stopping point as a challenge, an opportunity to discover something new about yourself or about the world you live in. Obstacles are what create growth and make life more enjoyable. It’s a radical thought, isn’t it? In this book, you’re going to find a survival guide to get through those rough places. We’ll start with a look at life and the kinds of obstacles we all face. We’re also going to discover the sometimes-surprising benefits of obstacles. From there, you’ll find out how to take on the obstacles in your life and turn them into opportunities. Are you ready to look at life in a new way? If so, read on. You’re going to be amazed at just how exciting this whole process is!
The dictionary defines the word “obstacle” as “a thing that blocks one's way or prevents or hinders progress.” When you hear the word, you might imagine an obstacle course. As a child, you probably played on several such courses. You might have even created your own with branches and rocks, setting up various challenges in your backyard or on the playground. Your obstacle course might have involved a series of activities such as running, jumping, hopping, or crawling. If you were ever in the military, you’ve trained on the more grown-up versions of these courses, pushing your body to the absolute physical limits to get through to the other side. When a child is confronted with an obstacle course, they never pause to consider the possibility of stopping. They charge full speed ahead, and when they come to something blocking their progress to the finish line, they look at it as a challenge. The obstacle is a puzzle, something to get through, or up, or over until they are on the other side. What’s more, every obstacle becomes an opportunity to show off their physical prowess and thinking skills to their peers. It’s a way of saying, “Watch me do this!”
Wayne Weathersby
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Rich or Poor: It's your Choice!
Have you ever wondered how a rich person was able to accumulate so much money? Perhaps you’ve taken notice of a poor person and found it perplexing, or even upsetting, that he just didn’t have any money no matter how hard he worked.
What determines who will be rich and who will be poor? The reality is that your money mindset helps you determine whether you’ll be rich or poor.
This episode addresses the differences between the mindsets of rich and poor people when it comes to money. Each section explores a specific way of thinking about money and the widely contrasting views taken by the rich and poor. You’ll be enlightened about how you can alter what you think, feel and believe about money in order to “think rich.”
Rich and Poor People Think Differently About Money
Consider the following stories detailing the lives of a person who thinks poor and another who thinks rich:
Paul appears to struggle financially although he’s a hard worker. He speaks often of not having enough money to pay his bills. Paul sees himself as a poor victim of how life goes. When you talk to Paul, he wonders aloud why he “can’t ever get anywhere” financially.
James is a busy guy. People who know him say he’s very focused on his goals and dreams. If someone wants him to do a job, he figures out a way to do it. James researches possible new investments—he knows you have to invest money to make money. James thinks about and plans for his financial future. He recognizes he’s in control of his current and future finances.
Paul and James have very different mindsets:
Paul thinks like a poor person. He openly focuses on negatives in his life, especially when it comes to money. His entire persona revolves around the positions of having no money or capacity to get ahead financially. Paul feels powerless to change his life and blames external circumstances for his financial situation.
On the other hand, James spends the bulk of his thoughts, time and efforts ensuring his future financial success. He’s flexible about the work he accepts and believes it’s worth it to invest his dollars to produce more money. James believes only he has the power and the responsibility for his financial life and he’s determined to make the most of it.
Do you believe that anyone can become wealthy, if he has the proper mindset? By the same token, can you see how your mindset largely determines whether you’re on your way to building affluence or creating sabotage in your own financial life? Read on to learn more about the differences in the rich and poor mindsets.
"I don't think of myself as a poor deprived ghetto girl who made good.
I think of myself as somebody who from an early age knew
I was responsible for myself, and I had to make good."
–Oprah Winfrey
An important contrast in how poor and rich people think is the “there’s not enough” mindset versus “look at all the ways to increase cash flow” way of thinking. You might say that the poor view money with a “lack” mindset —there’s not enough money, there’s nothing to do to make money and this is “all I can expect from life because I’m poor.”
The rich, on the other hand, recognize there’s abundance everywhere. Wealthy people notice that abundance, seek to attract it, and take advantage of events and situations around them. They see low-hanging fruit right in front of them and know that all they have to do is pluck it from the tree to produce wealth. The rich think about cash flowing in and how to make it happen.
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Welcome to the DIScomfort Zone: A 6 part system to help you find success outside your Comfort Zone
We gravitate naturally towards being comfortable. If you’re offered a chair in a room with multiple open places to sit, you’re probably going to seek out the seat which looks like it will fit your body best, providing not just support but the perfect angle of the back and the right cushioning or support for the spine. You'll even want the chair in a position where the lighting is good, and you have a clear view.
Comfort.
We like cushions and soft fabrics to the point where an entire billion-dollar industry is based on bed pillows. We want shoes that cushion our feet, food served at the perfect temperature with the coffee neither too hot nor too cold. Even dream jobs are best if they aren't too demanding but offer just enough intellectual stimulation. You feel adequately challenged and well-satisfied at the end of each day.
We like things to stay the same, so we gravitate toward routines. Days without surprises are easily managed. We even talk about being 'comfortable' to say one is financially secure. Comfort is considered the ultimate goal of a life well spent.
It’s also the greatest prison cell you’ll ever devise for yourself.
Comfort is all about staying safe. It is all about things being predictable and life without demands. Comfort can be a very good thing – unless you want to grow and succeed in life. Comfort keeps us where we are, giving us no reason to challenge ourselves, learn new things, or discover what we're capable of doing.
In this book, we will take you into the world of possibility. You'll find out about comfort zones, why everyone loves them and how they hold you back. We'll talk about discomfort and the science behind making yourself uncomfortable, and how discomfort can be used to propel yourself toward your goals.
Finally, you're going to learn a six-step system for making yourself comfortable with discomfort and even using it to springboard yourself into the life you’ve always dreamed of having.
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