How to Stop Being a People Pleaser (Without Feeling Guilty)

05/22/25 • 28 min

Are you constantly saying yes when you want to say no? Struggling to set boundaries without spiraling into guilt or anxiety? In this episode, we break down what people pleasing really looks like, where it comes from, and how to start unlearning it — without turning cold or disconnected.

If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained, chronically misunderstood, or like your needs always come last, this episode is your permission slip to start choosing yourself.

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If you're tired of feeling emotionally drained, chronically misunderstood, or like your needs always come last, this episode is your permission slip to start choosing yourself.

Dm me your thoughts 💗

Halfway To Dead, A Midlife Spiritual Journey
Midlife is freaking hard. Let's flip the script.

Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Support the show

FIND PARMIS:
Personal IG: @parmisnajmi
Podcast IG: @positiveproofpodcast
YouTube: @parmisnajmi
TikTok: @parmisnajmi
Pinterest: @parmisnajmi

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In this episode, Parmis shares the green flags of a truly healthy relationship — the ones that go deeper than aesthetics, money or surface-level romance. From emotional safety to healthy masculinity, this conversation will change the way you view love, standards, and what it really means to be cherished. She opens up about the things her boyfriend does that healed her, why emotional intelligence is underrated in men, and how choosing the right partner reflects your self-worth.

Whether you're single, dating, or rethinking your current relationship, this episode is a gentle but powerful reminder of what you deserve in love.

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Halfway To Dead, A Midlife Spiritual Journey
Midlife is freaking hard. Let's flip the script.

Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

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Chic Checklist: Are These Everyday Habits Sabotaging Your Feminine Aesthetic?

Are you pouring hours into your wardrobe yet something still feels off? In this episode, we uncover the small, sneaky behaviours that can mute an otherwise elegant, feminine look. From chewing gum on repeat to clutching your wineglass by the bowl, I break down nine common habits—cussing, vaping clouds, chunky slides, missing signature style, noisy straw slurps, oversized jewelry, and low-quality “dupe” fabrics—that quietly clash with a quiet-luxury, classy vibe.

Tune in if you’re ready to:

Spot the everyday mistakes that make polished outfits look less refined.
Swap restless, “try-hard” cues for calm, confident body language.
Build a timeless, feminine aesthetic without blowing your budget.

💬 Poll alert: Scroll down and vote—Chunky slides or minimal flip-flops: which is chicer in 2025?

If “elegant habits,” “quiet luxury style,” or “how to look effortlessly classy” hit your search bar, this episode is for you. Ready to refine your personal brand from the inside out? Press play, share with a friend, and leave a 5-star review to keep the feminine glow flowing.

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Halfway To Dead, A Midlife Spiritual Journey
Midlife is freaking hard. Let's flip the script.

Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Support the show

FIND PARMIS:
Personal IG: @parmisnajmi
Podcast IG: @positiveproofpodcast
YouTube: @parmisnajmi
TikTok: @parmisnajmi
Pinterest: @parmisnajmi