
Navigating Period Sex w/ special guest Lilly Sparks
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02/23/22 • 33 min
Corn (porn), periods, and pleasure.... on this episode of the Period Chats Podcast, we sat down with my good friend and xoafterglow.com founder, Lilly Sparks, to have an honest conversation about period sex. You know we love "taboo" topics on this podcast, so we decided to tackle 2 or 3 at one time.
Fun Period Sex Facts:
- Orgasms can relieve pain, including cramps and headaches.
Yup, you read that correctly - a study from the '80s found that women's pain tolerance thresholds increased significantly by nearly 75% during orgasm. So the big O could be the perfect way to ease your period pains.
- Extra Lube may make sexual activity more comfortable.
We have all been there. You want to get it on, but your body hasn't caught up to your brain; you are not alone. Vaginal dryness is another under-talked-about yet common experience (fun fact sesame seeds can help you with this) aspect of our vaginas. The good news is your period provides plenty of natural lubricant for any of your favorite activities.
- Sex can reduce stress and help us sleep better.
- That post-sex-happy feeling can happen on your periods, too, and can be helpful if you are prone to anxiety and insomnia on your periods. We found a 2017 study in Adelaide, Australia, found that more than 60% of adults studied reported having slept better after having sex that led to climax.
Alright, it's true period sex can be messy:
- Try shower activities.
- If you don't want to embrace the whole flow, try a menstrual cup/disc, these can control the flow while still getting your sexy time in.
- Put a towel down for easy cleanup!
Did this episode make you a little curious about afterglow? Learn more about afterglow here! Ready to give it a try? You can experience afterglow for yourself here!
Corn (porn), periods, and pleasure.... on this episode of the Period Chats Podcast, we sat down with my good friend and xoafterglow.com founder, Lilly Sparks, to have an honest conversation about period sex. You know we love "taboo" topics on this podcast, so we decided to tackle 2 or 3 at one time.
Fun Period Sex Facts:
- Orgasms can relieve pain, including cramps and headaches.
Yup, you read that correctly - a study from the '80s found that women's pain tolerance thresholds increased significantly by nearly 75% during orgasm. So the big O could be the perfect way to ease your period pains.
- Extra Lube may make sexual activity more comfortable.
We have all been there. You want to get it on, but your body hasn't caught up to your brain; you are not alone. Vaginal dryness is another under-talked-about yet common experience (fun fact sesame seeds can help you with this) aspect of our vaginas. The good news is your period provides plenty of natural lubricant for any of your favorite activities.
- Sex can reduce stress and help us sleep better.
- That post-sex-happy feeling can happen on your periods, too, and can be helpful if you are prone to anxiety and insomnia on your periods. We found a 2017 study in Adelaide, Australia, found that more than 60% of adults studied reported having slept better after having sex that led to climax.
Alright, it's true period sex can be messy:
- Try shower activities.
- If you don't want to embrace the whole flow, try a menstrual cup/disc, these can control the flow while still getting your sexy time in.
- Put a towel down for easy cleanup!
Did this episode make you a little curious about afterglow? Learn more about afterglow here! Ready to give it a try? You can experience afterglow for yourself here!
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Pregnancy, Birth and Postpartum w/ Pretty Naked Founder & Holistic Health Coach Amanda DiMarco
Do you have a lot of questions about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum? Or just need to relate for a minute? This episode with Amanda from The Pretty Naked will be PERFECT for you. As someone who has not gone through pregnancy, I learned so much and I know you will too!
Episode Overview:
Jumping in tell us about your pregnancy story with baby #1
What surprised you the most about pregnancy?
What surprised you about birth?
What surprised you about postpartum
Was there anything essential to your PP recovery that you want to share?
How has pregnancy # 2 been?! Anything different so far?
Thoughts on how pregnancy and birth and PP are portrayed in the world v reality?
Tell us about the Pretty Naked and how your journey has shaped that community?
About Amanda: Amanda is a mom of 1 (+ one on the way), a holistic health coach, & the founder of The Pretty Naked membership site — a community for women passionate about self-growth & wellness. Through virtual events, recipes, blog posts, monthly workouts, & connections, Amanda is aiming to make self-care social. Follow Amanda on IG @justmands & @theprettynaked to stay up to date on what’s happening on TPN & join the community!
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SIDE CHAT: Millennials & Gen Z learning about menopause
After going home for the holidays and spending time with our families we knew it was time to talk about menopause. In this episode we work through the questions we have about perimenopause, menopause, and what our moms wish they would have known.
- Menopause leave needs to be a thing.
- There is SO MUCH misinformation on the internet.
- We barely get period education and menopause is not at all talked about.
- Society hates aging women and has unrealistic expectations
- Perimenopause and menopause are diferent
- Perimenopause can last 10 years
- Estrogen changes impact your bone density and cardio tissue as well as lean muscle mass.
- There are SO many companies profiting from our insecurity and unrealistic beauty standards.
- We need to start learning about menopause along with periods.
- We love our moms and we are really proud of them for battling all of these things while still being great.
Want to learn more about perimenopause: Check out this episode →
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