839 | Why Great Coaches Go Deeper

04/07/25 • 20 min

In today’s episode, I reflect on recent experiences with clients who have faced toxic coaching situations in the past, emphasizing that coaching should not simply provide answers or only focus on the client’s goals, instead can they help clients uncover the underlying barriers that prevent them from reaching their goals. I share my belief that strategy constitutes only 5% of the equation, while subconscious work—addressing limiting beliefs and emotional blocks—makes up the remaining 95%.

Throughout the episode, I stress the significance of getting to the root of why individuals feel stuck or engage in self-sabotage. So many clients are unaware of the deeper reasons behind their behaviors, which are often buried in their subconscious. By employing techniques such as FLIP The Script Techniques and asking subconscious questions, we can uncover these hidden beliefs and reframe them to create lasting change.

HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Coaching and Self-Leadership 00:01:00 - The Importance of Subconscious Work 00:02:30 - Understanding Goals vs. Blocks 00:04:00 - The Depth of Self-Sabotage 00:05:30 - Identifying Limiting Beliefs 00:07:00 - Fear of Success vs. Fear of Failure 00:08:30 - Transforming Identity Through Coaching 00:10:00 - The Power of Language and Self-Talk 00:11:30 - Emotional Patterns and Client Transformation 00:13:00 - The Role of Identity in Achieving Goals 00:14:30 - Creating Lasting Change Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

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838 | 55 Years of Growth, Healing & Expansion

In this special Friday episode of "Own Your Choices, Own Your Life," I take a moment to reflect on my recent milestone—turning 55 years old. As I celebrate this significant birthday, I want to share the lessons I've learned throughout my journey, particularly the transformative mindset shifts that have shaped my life and business.

As I just turned 55, I share how this age feels like a new beginning. I discuss the decades I spent learning to drop my emotional armor, integrate my masculine and feminine energies, and heal old subconscious stories that held me back. This journey has been deeply personal and powerful, leading to significant growth in both my life and business.

I emphasize the significance of identity shifts and the need to let go of old stories that no longer serve us. I share how my understanding of success has evolved, allowing me to build a business that honors my values of health and relationships. I also discuss the importance of integrating both masculine and feminine energies in my work, recognizing that true success comes from a balance of strategy and intuition

HIGHLIGHTS 00:02:00 - Celebrating a Milestone Birthday 00:03:30 - Personal Journey of Growth and Healing 00:05:30 - The Power of Vulnerability 00:07:00 - Shifting Subconscious Stories 00:08:30 - Integrating Masculine and Feminine Energy 00:10:30 - The Ongoing Journey of Growth 00:12:00 - Chasing a Bigger Vision 00:13:30 - Empowering Others Through Sharing 00:14:30 - Letting Go of Old Stories 00:15:30 - Invitation to Join the Journey Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

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840 | The Unsexy Side of Business & Spiritual Growth with Renee Walker

This episode of the podcast was recorded in front of a live studio audience. Marsha is joined by her friend, Renée Walker. Renee has been a past guest on the podcast, and we knew we wanted to share this live episode with you. Together, Renée and Marsha discuss how true transformation comes not from the highlights but from the uncomfortable, unseen work that nobody posts about online. Marsha shares her own journey of navigating challenges, reprogramming limiting beliefs, and the power of self-leadership. Plus, audience questions bring even more depth to this powerful conversation.

Previous episode with Renee: https://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/33590762 Connect with Renee: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reneewalkerwellness/ Website: www.reneewalkerwellness.com

Spiritually Wired Membership: https://reneewalkerwellness.com/membership/ Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

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