
GOOAAAL! Starting a Family as a Lesbian Couple with Fei Wu & Lee Lawlor
02/13/24 • 36 min
We talk to our dear friends Fei & Lee about their experience starting a family as an interracial, lesbian couple. It’s a long and winding road that takes them from spa-like fertility clinics to wheeling sperm through Target.
Listen to learn about:
- The challenges of starting a family as a LGBTQ+ couple
- How LGBTQ+ folks can feel less isolated in the process
- Why shorter men need not apply to be sperm donors
- The painful truth about fertility treatment costs
- Why the Dutch national soccer team is the perfect analogy for family
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We talk to our dear friends Fei & Lee about their experience starting a family as an interracial, lesbian couple. It’s a long and winding road that takes them from spa-like fertility clinics to wheeling sperm through Target.
Listen to learn about:
- The challenges of starting a family as a LGBTQ+ couple
- How LGBTQ+ folks can feel less isolated in the process
- Why shorter men need not apply to be sperm donors
- The painful truth about fertility treatment costs
- Why the Dutch national soccer team is the perfect analogy for family
For more surprising and authentic conversations about family-forming, subscribe to Our Families, Ourselves:
Apple Podcasts | Spotify Podcasts | Google Podcasts
Join the conversation and follow us on Instagram:
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