How to Become a Friend Billionaire with Nick Gray

08/09/24 • 87 min

Museum Hack Founder and Author of The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, Nick Gray joins the podcast for an exciting conversation on the power of hosting and the ways in which it changed his life. From giving a tour to the Saudi Arabian royal family to hanging out with a billionaire in Asia, he openly delves into all his fascinating adventures while sharing practical tips on hosting and making friends.

Join us as we explore

Nick’s journey from trying to start a software company in India, moving to NYC and building Museum Hack, to where he is now
The art of active hosting and how to use it to meet interesting, new people
Dealing with rejected invitations and importance of providing value to the people you meet
His passion for adventure, along with tips for aspiring travelers
The little things that Nick splurges on and uses everyday

If you’re someone who’s interested in learning about the best way to host a party or simply love a good adventure, Nick’s stories are sure to give you all the fun and insight you need!

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Chapters
00:00 - Preview
00:50 - Mateina Yerba Mate
2:56 - How Andrew First Met Nick
5:08 - Nick’s Newsletter
6:01 - Starting a Software Company in India to Living in NYC
9:30 - Museum Hack
11:33 - Benefits of Having A Newsletter
14:25 - The 2-Hour Cocktail Party & Active Hosting
19:25 - The N.I.C.K. Method
23:03 - Prioritizing Adventure Over Money
24:34 - Growing Social Circles Through Hosting
28:33 - Nick’s Friendship Funnel
37:55 - Tips for Hosting
41:00 - Rejection With Invites
43:23 - Nick’s Favorite Hosts
44:28 - Adding Value to People You Meet
54:34 - Balancing Adventure With Routine
59:11 - Finding Interesting Experiences
1:03:01 - Nick’s Views on Travel
1:05:22 - Nick’s Blind Date in Tokyo
1:09:10 - Nick’s Investments
1:11:02 - How Nick Enjoys His Money
1:18:15 - Nick’s Daily Routine
1:22:43 - Nick’s Productivity System

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🔗 Connect with Nick:
Twitter: @NickGrayNews
Instagram: @nickgraynews
LinkedIn: @nickgraynews
Youtube: @nickgray
Website: nickgray.net

Join us as we explore

Nick’s journey from trying to start a software company in India, moving to NYC and building Museum Hack, to where he is now
The art of active hosting and how to use it to meet interesting, new people
Dealing with rejected invitations and importance of providing value to the people you meet
His passion for adventure, along with tips for aspiring travelers
The little things that Nick splurges on and uses everyday

If you’re someone who’s interested in learning about the best way to host a party or simply love a good adventure, Nick’s stories are sure to give you all the fun and insight you need!

Resources Mentioned

Previous Episode

From Party Boy to Millionaire Bestselling Author: Mark Manson on the Business of Books

Most known for his book The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck, Mark Manson is a three-time #1 NY Times bestselling author and entrepreneur. In this episode, he tackles questions, less about his books, and more about the business of being a writer. Can authors really make a living? Is the pursuit of fame and fortune really as glamorous as it seems? Mark also reveals what it’s like working in Hollywood, explaining why he believes the creator economy offers a brighter future.
Join us as we explore Mark's story and learn about:

The business of the publishing industry
Literature’s place in current society
Hollywood’s inefficiency and the future of the creator economy
The impact that fame and wealth has on people and relationships
Mark’s current struggles as well as what he’s looking forward to in the future

Craving honesty over hype? Mark gives you the unvarnished truth. Don’t miss this candid discussion about his journey from broke blogger to bestselling author, the challenges of working with Hollywood, and the surprising lessons learned from achieving everything he ever wished for.
Resources Mentioned

The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck by Mark Manson
Old Man in The Sea by Ernest Hemingway
The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
Hemingway by Ken Burns & Lynn Novick
War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy
All The Light You Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
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Chapters

00:00 Intro
0:34 Can You Make Money As A Writer?
2:23 Should You Become An Author?
3:25 Is Mark More of An Author or an Entrepreneur?
4:40 Mark’s Journey to Wealth
7:04 Wealth’s Impact on Life and Relationships
12:10 Achieving Your Dreams Isn’t As Great As It Seems
15:17 Is Mark Done With Money?
16:42 Mark’s New Aspirations
18:31 Fame’s Impact on Mark’s Life
18:54 Mark’s Team
20:10 Mark on Managing His Team
21:23 Are Books Still Relevant Today?
23:12 Protecting Mental Health While Working in Social Media
24:16 The Advantages of Social Media
26:03 Mark’s Experience Making A Film
30:13 The Creator Economy is the Future
30:51 What Mark’s Does With His Money
31:46 Changing Social Circles & Finance Bros
36:55 Writers & Books Mark Loves
39:57 Mark’s Current Source of Stress
41:23 Mark’s Favorite Products
42:56 Mark’s Role Models
43:38 What Mark’s Excited About
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Twitter: @IAmMarkManson
Instagram: @markmanson
LinkedIn: @markmanson
Tiktok: @IAmMarkManson
Youtube: @IAmMarkManson
Website: https://markmanson.net
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Next Episode

Codie Sanchez on Buying Boring Businesses and The Secret to Wealth

About the Episode
Can the path to financial freedom be paved with boring businesses?
In this episode, Andrew sits down with Codie Sanchez, a founder, entrepreneur, and investor who's redefining success in the business world.

Codie is the founder and CEO of Contrarian Thinking, a digital education company with over 7 million followers, and Main Street Hold Co, a small business holding company. She's also the driving force behind Contrarian Thinking Capital, a firm investing in companies that support small business growth.

In this conversation, Codie shares her journey from working in private equity to becoming a champion for Main Street entrepreneurship. She discusses the power of "boring" businesses, the importance of deal clarity, and why she believes ownership is under attack in the U.S. Codie also offers insights from her upcoming book, "Main Street Millionaire," which promises to be an MBA-level guide to mergers and acquisitions for everyday entrepreneurs.

Join us as we explore

Codie’s journey from working in Vanguard to owning multiple businesses of her own
The appeal of boring businesses
Strategies to help you know whether the businesses you want to buy or start are actually any good
AI and technology’s impact on businesses and the job market
Codie’s perspective on fame, navigating challenges, and her aspirations
People and products that she’s been loving lately

Maybe you’re itching to start your own venture. Or perhaps you’re an investor looking to expand your portfolio. Codie’s insights will surely steer you towards success. Tune in for a powerful conversation that unpacks the secrets of what it takes to win in business.

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Chapters
00:00 - Intro
00:42 - Catching Up With Codie
5:01 - Codie’s Entrepreneurial Journey
8:51 - Why Boring Businesses Are Great
13:23 - What Businesses Do You Buy?
16:07 - How to Tell If Your Businesses Ideas Are Good
18:37 - Weird But Profitable Businesses
21:24 - Businesses AI Will Disrupt
23:33 - Integrating Tech In Businesses
25:15 - White Collar Workers Shifting to Blue Collar Jobs
30:57 - Fame’s Impact on Codie’s Life
36:00 - Codie’s Goals For the Future
37:51 - Dealing Tough Days
41:53 - Codie’s Book
43:48 - Codie’s Product Recommendations
47:38 - People Codie Finds Interesting
🔗 Find Codie on:

Twitter/X: @Codie_Sanchez
Instagram: @codiesanchez
Tiktok: @realcodiesanchez
Youtube: @CodieSanchezCT
Website: https://www.codiesanchez.com/
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