How Can I Tell If I'm in Perimenopause? What Are the Symptoms of Menopause or Almost Menopause? What Surgeries Are Sometimes Unnecessary? What Alternatives Are There for Hysterectomy? And What If I'm Not Ready to Give Up Sex?

My Aloof Vagina, A Cheeky Guide to Perimenopause

03/30/23 • 29 min

Martha & Sally talk about the collection of changes that made Sally realize she was in perimenopause, even as her doctors continued to claim that her hormones “looked fine” and they didn’t “think” she was in it yet.

Is part of “the change” external and more connected to the messages we’re getting about being “too old” or “past our prime”? (Things that aren’t really reflected in those snapshots of a hormone blood serum draw.)
And how do some of those messages contribute to the increase in rather flippant recommendations to “just get a hysterectomy” in our 40s?
What IF you aren’t ready to give it up? Your career, sex, your uterus, your right to reinvent yourself?

We explore these questions and more and arrive at some answers in this episode.

We START this conversation talking about how we’re targeted — solutions-peddlers are leveraging our pain points to make the sale! And we're not loving that that makes the product sellers our main source of information.

We END this episode talking about how I HAPPILY spent hundreds of dollars on a vFit - a medical red-light therapy device for my vagina that two years later I still love! (You can save 10% with the link below.)
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MAV TIP: If any medical professional (or friend giving you "medical advice") suggests a surgery or procedure, do your homework. Research it a little! Just because someone else is happy they did something, even if their symptoms seem similar to yours, doesn't mean their solution is the most up-to-date one or even appropriate for your particular situation.

Take care of yourself. And take care of your vagina!

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03/30/23 • 29 min

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My Aloof Vagina, A Cheeky Guide to Perimenopause - How Can I Tell If I'm in Perimenopause? What Are the Symptoms of Menopause or Almost Menopause? What Surgeries Are Sometimes Unnecessary? What Alternatives Are There for Hysterectomy? And What If I'm Not Ready to Give Up Sex?

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Martha00:00:00.505

Hey there here's what's coming up in this episode. we joke about the clitoral atrophy and you need to use or lose it, but you also have to use it. You're using your Vagina with your husband all the time. I'm inferring that from what you said.

Martha00:00:13.298

Yeah, you're not someone who's like, I don't remember the last time I was penetrated. But there are a lot of us who that is the case, and if penetration's not

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