Trust: How do we trust others to care for our kiddos? - With Tash Dillmon, Jody Warshawsky, Jean Mayer & Shannon Korza
11/29/21 • 46 min
Today we talked about trusting others to care for our autistic children. Whether family members, teachers or therapists. We talked about how we can gain that trust and also how to let go of our fears and find confidence in others.
We hope you'll gain better insight into why we are sometimes stuck in wanting to control situations involving our kids. We also want to shed light on how trusting others can alleviate some of the stress of needing to do everything for our kids.
*What is the deeper cause of distrust with family members/
*What can we do to help and gain more trust and better communication with those who care for our kids?
*What would be the benefit of letting go of control and trusting?
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Where to find Jody
Where to find Shannon
Where to find Jean
Where to find Tash
Where to find Brittney
Today we talked about trusting others to care for our autistic children. Whether family members, teachers or therapists. We talked about how we can gain that trust and also how to let go of our fears and find confidence in others.
We hope you'll gain better insight into why we are sometimes stuck in wanting to control situations involving our kids. We also want to shed light on how trusting others can alleviate some of the stress of needing to do everything for our kids.
*What is the deeper cause of distrust with family members/
*What can we do to help and gain more trust and better communication with those who care for our kids?
*What would be the benefit of letting go of control and trusting?
Check us out and say hello
Where to find Moms Talk Autism
Where to find Jody
Where to find Shannon
Where to find Jean
Where to find Tash
Where to find Brittney
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Megan Carranza from Adventures In Autism Podcast joins us in a conversation about the holidays. How they change after an autism diagnosis.
We talk about that one moment when we realized the holidays are now different. Just like our lives are.
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Normal Is A Lie! How Special Needs Families Do Life Differently
Normal is Lie: Doing Life Differently as a Special Needs Parent
We are taking you to “Church” this week!
In this episode, we draw the distinctions of The Family Systems Theory and how it is a harmful model in setting the pace or standard for family life. The prototype of the family when there is a child with a disability, it’s much different. That model also sees disability as negative. The problem with that is that pathology sets the tone for the points of view society has about disability. Yes, disability is real, but it doesn’t have to be bad. It can be really beautiful, not that I want to romanticize it, you just don’t want people to miss out on the good things or write off the value our children bring to the world.
Hardest part of all, we don’t have a point of reference for the framework(s) of families like ours.
With that comes the additional layers of shame, comparison, and feeling like a burden.
Perfectly functioning nuclear families aren’t the pinnacle of human society and what we don’t know is that this model has to be thrown out once we embrace or know our child has a diagnosis.
We are conditioned and groomed for a different kind of life, and it’s not the one we have been handed.
Again, it is important to recognize we don’t have a point of reference like the nuclear family with neurotypical or typically developing children.
Helpful tips:
- Lower your expectations
- Delegate the things you think are only “mom duties”
- Reframe the setbacks as opportunities to reflect
- You don’t have to do it all
- Prioritize what is most important
- Don’t subscribe to cliches
- Your biggest job is to become mentally strong
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Where to find Jody
Where to find Shannon
Where to find Jean
Where to find Tash
Where to find Brittney
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