Relationships: How Men Can Lead So That a Woman Wants to Follow with Coach Raph

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04/26/24 • 45 min

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Coach Raph helps men lead a life in a way that a woman naturally wants to follow. He provides a safe place for men.In today’s episode, Coach Raph and Hector discuss the pressures of male stoicism and the liberation found in vulnerability. This powerful conversation not only questions the pillars of traditional manhood but also offers you a new vision for a more emotionally connected and authentic male identity. Tune in to explore how breaking free from age-old stereotypes can lead to a profound transformation in personal and societal levels!

Chapters:

00:00:00 - Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Growth with Coach Raph
00:03:15 - Beyond Stereotypes: Tackling Divorce and Toxic Masculinity
00:06:14 - Exploring Self-Discovery and Leadership in Personal Relationships
00:08:45 - Bridging Gaps: Healing and Growing After Relationship Breakdowns
00:11:02 - Crucial Conversations: The Role of Conflict and Communication
00:13:12 - Challenging Norms: Modern Relationships and Shifting Gender Roles
00:16:58 - Reshaping Relationships: Equality and Partnership in Modern Times
00:19:37 - Balancing Acts: Understanding and Navigating Modern Gender Expectations
00:22:04 - A New Vision of Manhood: Focusing on Internal Victories
00:25:32 - The Quest for Personal Evolution and Its Impact on Attractiveness
00:28:09 - Decoding Desires: Understanding What Women Really Want
00:30:49 - Mastering Emotional Intelligence and Respect in Relationships
00:33:36 - The Critical Role of Acknowledgement in Partnerships
00:36:25 - Seeking Harmony: Why Complementarity Beats Competition
00:39:03 - Integrating Traditional Values with Modern Perspectives on Masculinity
00:41:31 - Final Reflections: Lessons on Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics

Links And Resources:

Coach Raph on Instagram
Coach Raph on TikTok
Coach Raph on YouTube
How To Confidently Lead a Virtuous Relationship [Free Guide]
Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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Chapters:

00:00:00 - Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Growth with Coach Raph
00:03:15 - Beyond Stereotypes: Tackling Divorce and Toxic Masculinity
00:06:14 - Exploring Self-Discovery and Leadership in Personal Relationships
00:08:45 - Bridging Gaps: Healing and Growing After Relationship Breakdowns
00:11:02 - Crucial Conversations: The Role of Conflict and Communication
00:13:12 - Challenging Norms: Modern Relationships and Shifting Gender Roles
00:16:58 - Reshaping Relationships: Equality and Partnership in Modern Times
00:19:37 - Balancing Acts: Understanding and Navigating Modern Gender Expectations
00:22:04 - A New Vision of Manhood: Focusing on Internal Victories
00:25:32 - The Quest for Personal Evolution and Its Impact on Attractiveness
00:28:09 - Decoding Desires: Understanding What Women Really Want
00:30:49 - Mastering Emotional Intelligence and Respect in Relationships
00:33:36 - The Critical Role of Acknowledgement in Partnerships
00:36:25 - Seeking Harmony: Why Complementarity Beats Competition
00:39:03 - Integrating Traditional Values with Modern Perspectives on Masculinity
00:41:31 - Final Reflections: Lessons on Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics

Links And Resources:

Coach Raph on Instagram
Coach Raph on TikTok
Coach Raph on YouTube
How To Confidently Lead a Virtuous Relationship [Free Guide]
Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

Thanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

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Emotional Intelligence: Evolving Identities and Honesty with Reggie Marra

This episode features Reggie Marra. He is an educator, coach, workshop facilitator, poet and author. Reggie discusses the unspoken rules and myths that have traditionally defined manhood and the personal and societal challenges that men face today. He shares insights from his latest book, offering perspectives on how men can redefine their identities in a way that embraces authenticity and emotional honesty. Through their conversation, they address the need for a new blueprint for masculinity—one that includes vulnerability and introspection as strengths, not weaknesses. This episode is a must-listen if you’re interested in understanding the complex framework of modern manhood and how we can move towards a more inclusive and genuine expression of self in today's world.

Chapters:

00:00:00 - Kickoff: Welcome to the Modern Masculinity Podcast
00:01:25 - Meet Reggie Marra: Life Challenges and a Quest for a Voice
00:03:07 - Legacy Burdens: Carrying Generational Narratives
00:04:38 - Debunking Myths: A New Look at Masculinity
00:06:17 - Evolving Roles: The Shift in Masculine Scripts
00:08:27 - Questioning Norms: The Need to Challenge Cultural Givens
00:09:39 - Tracing Trauma: The Influence of Generational Narratives
00:12:39 - Toxic Traits: Discussing the Unhealthy Masculine
00:15:27 - Exploring the Roots of Unhealthy Masculinity
00:18:15 - Identity Swings: The Pendulum of Masculine Roles
00:23:42 - Harmonizing Energies: Balancing Masculine and Feminine Forces
00:27:08 - Integrating New Perspectives on Masculinity and Femininity
00:30:46 - Revelations: Reggie's Surprising Research Findings
00:36:34 - Wrap-Up: Final Thoughts & Discovering More About Reggie's Work

Links And Resources:

Reggie on LinkedIn
Reggie Marra
Fully Human
Healing America’s Narratives by Reggie Marra
Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

Book Recommendation:

The Coddling of the American Mind by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt

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Business: Constructing a Balanced Life with Chaz Wolfe

This episode is an exploration of the multifaceted challenges men face in striving for the ‘exceptional life.’ Joined by serial entrepreneur, leader, facilitator and speaker Chaz Wolfe, they explore the delicate balance between professional ambition and personal fulfillment. From the trenches of fatherhood to the pursuit of business excellence, they discuss the evolution of manhood and the search for identity beyond traditional roles. As they have conversations around being a provider, partner, and parent, you’re invited to reflect on your own journeys towards holistic success and the art of thriving in all life’s arenas!

Chapters:

00:00:00 - Opening Thoughts: The Many Fronts of Manhood
00:01:55 - Hector’s Parenting Predicament: A Sidewalk Crisis
00:03:03 - Chaz’s Vision: Crafting an Exceptional Life
00:06:00 - The Balancing Act: Business, Family, and Self-Enlightenment
00:09:37 - Embracing Fatherhood: The Shift from Self to Selflessness
00:15:53 - The Provider’s Dilemma: Business Success vs. Family Presence
00:19:31 - Gender Roles Revisited: Navigating Modern Family Dynamics
00:22:28 - Lessons from Leaders: The Core of Success Across 450 Episodes
00:25:17 - Communication Breakdown: Finding Clarity in the Chaos
00:26:16 - Evolving Dialogues: The Continuous Journey of Understanding
00:27:52 - Conflict and Connection: The Art of Communicative Balance
00:29:50 - Beyond Avoidance: Embracing Conflict for a Harmonious Home
00:31:31 - Purposeful Planning: Structuring Life for Presence and Impact
00:33:56 - Intentional Living: The Power of a Planned Schedule
00:36:43 - Self-Improvement and Community: Building a Legacy of Kings
00:39:27 - The Importance of Purpose and Community in Personal Growth
00:43:40 - Defining the Modern Man: Leadership, Responsibility, and Growth

Links And Resources:

Chaz Wolfe
Gathering the Kings
Chaz on LinkedIn
Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

Thanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!