Midlife Butterfly: Healing, Empowerment & Self-Discovery

Key Points:

• The Wake-Up Call: Reflecting on the profound impact of my father’s passing, which became the ultimate soul awakening in my journey.
• Lessons from Loss:
• Acceptance as a key to processing pain and avoiding unnecessary suffering.
• Embracing life fully and not taking it for granted.
• Learning to live with more joy, playfulness, and less seriousness.
• An Empire of Love: How my father’s life touched so many and left behind an overwhelming legacy of love and connection.
• Question Everything: The transformative power of questioning beliefs, relationships, and life patterns, leading to a shift out of the comfort zone.
• Transitions and Self-Grieving: Grieving is vital for navigating transitions—whether it’s loss, separation, or new beginnings—and essential for creating a vibrant next chapter.
• Create Your Reality: By living consciously, questioning autopilot patterns, and stepping out of comfort zones, we open the door to the magic of life.

Takeaway: You deserve to create the life you desire. Let’s embrace transitions, live boldly, and step into the magic of our existence.

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Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

Female friendship isn't just a luxury—it's essential for our growth, healing, and transformation at midlife. In this extraordinary gathering, Kena welcomes five remarkable women from her podcasting community for a powerful conversation about sisterhood and connection.
Through laughter, vulnerability, and profound insights, these women share their personal struggles with isolation, the competitive mindset many of us were conditioned to adopt, and the transformative power of finding your true tribe.
Key Points:

• Female friendships often become harder to maintain in midlife due to family responsibilities, work demands, and shifting priorities
• Many women experience a competitive mindset with other women that stems from patriarchal conditioning around scarcity
• Research shows children benefit tremendously when they observe their mothers maintaining strong female friendships
• Breaking the ice with potential new friends requires courage but can be as simple as offering a compliment or suggesting coffee
• Female friendship "breakups" can be as painful as romantic ones but often signal necessary growth and evolution
• The most powerful relationships come from showing up authentically rather than trying to be perfect
• Midlife brings clarity about which relationships deserve a "seat at your table" and the confidence to release those that don't align
• Younger generations of women model unapologetic self-celebration that many midlife women weren't encouraged to embrace

Reflection Questions:

• Who are the women in your life that truly see and celebrate you? How can you nurture those connections?
• What kind of sisterhood do you crave in this season of your life? What would it feel like to be fully supported?
• What’s one step you can take today to call in your soul-aligned tribe—whether it’s joining a new community, reaching out to someone, or showing up more authentically?

Reach out and make the first move! Also join the Midlife Butterfly Community in Facebook.

Where can you find our guests?

Casey Taton

• Instagram: @cataton
• Facebook: @casey.taton
• Podcast: Inner Spark

Dana Hunter Fradella

• Instagram: @girls.who.recover
• Podcast: Girls Who Recover

Jama Patel

• Website: www.jamapantel.com
• Instagram: @jamapan

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You can find all the podcast details right here: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/podcast

Download the Midlife Butterfly Guide with 5 Radical Practices to Heal, Take Your Power Back & Rise
Follow Kena on Instagram: @kenasiu

Join the Midlife Butterfly Community: http://www.facebook.com/groups/midlifebutterfly

For Coaching, Courses & More Visit Kena's Website: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/workwithme

Request a Free Empowered Call with Kena if you're interested in working with her: https://midlifebutterfly.ca/empoweredsession

Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

Life isn’t just about love and light—it’s also about contrast, uncertainty, and the unexpected twists that shake us to our core. In this episode, we explore how to shift our perspective on contrast and use it as a tool for growth and expansion. Because life will always have duality—joy and sorrow, expansion and contraction—but what if instead of resisting it, we learned to navigate it with grace?

Here’s what we dive into:

• Contrast as a Guide: How life’s ups and downs are not obstacles but invitations to return to your center.
• Fear vs. Love: Recognizing how fear creeps in (through external noise and our own mind) and reclaiming our power by shifting our response.
• A Personal Story of Loss & Synchronicity: How the unexpected passing of a dear friend reminded me of life’s impermanence and the signs that guide us back to love.
• Sacred Ceremonies & Connection: The beauty of community, ritual, and finding support even when you feel alone.
• Grounding Practices for Chaos: A simple breathwork technique to shift from contraction to expansion, from fear to presence.
• Welcoming the Fullness of Life: How expansion and contraction exist in everything—even in your own body—and why embracing both is the key to peace.

Your Reflection Questions:

1. When contrast shows up in your life, how do you respond?
2. What practices help you shift from fear to love?
3. Can you recognize a recent synchronicity that reminded you that you are always held?

This episode is a reminder that even in the middle of chaos, you have the power to return home to yourself. 💛

✨ Let’s connect! I’d love to hear how you navigate contrast. DM me on Instagram or share your thoughts in the Midlife Butterfly community: http://www.facebook.com/groups/midlifebutterfly/

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You can find all the podcast details right here: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/podcast

Download the Midlife Butterfly Guide with 5 Radical Practices to Heal, Take Your Power Back & Rise
Follow Kena on Instagram: @kenasiu

Join the Midlife Butterfly Community: http://www.facebook.com/groups/midlifebutterfly

For Coaching, Courses & More Visit Kena's Website: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/workwithme

Request a Free Empowered Call with Kena if you're interested in working with her: https://midlifebutterfly.ca/empoweredsession

Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

In this episode, Kena sit down with the incredible Tina Jett, a transformational life coach, clarity catalyst trainer, and Reiki master, to dive deep into boundaries that empower you.

We explore why midlife women struggle with setting boundaries, how people-pleasing is actually a form of self-betrayal, and why prioritizing yourself is the ultimate act of self-love. If you’ve ever felt guilty for saying no or feared disappointing others, this episode is for you!

Key Points:

• Why boundaries are essential for self-worth, joy, and inner peace
• The deep-rooted fears behind boundary-setting: fear of rejection, guilt, and losing relationships
• How people-pleasing is actually manipulation—and how to break free from it
• The connection between boundaries and inner child wounds (abandonment, safety, and validation)
• Practical ways to start setting boundaries today—including the simple "yes or no" method
• The power of self-boundaries—because honoring your own needs is just as important as setting limits with others
• How setting boundaries shifts your relationships—some people may leave, and that’s okay!
• Why choosing yourself is NOT selfish, it’s self-honouring

Reflection Questions for You:

• Where in your life are you saying "yes" to others but "no" to yourself?
• What’s one small boundary you can set today to protect your energy and joy?
• How would your life change if you fully trusted that saying "no" is an act of self-love?

It’s time to stand in your truth, reclaim your joy, and set boundaries that empower you! 🎙️✨

Visit Tina's website: www.life-wire.net

Loved this episode? Share it with a friend who needs to hear this! And don’t forget to tag me on Instagram @kenasiu.

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You can find all the podcast details right here: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/podcast

Download the Midlife Butterfly Guide with 5 Radical Practices to Heal, Take Your Power Back & Rise
Follow Kena on Instagram: @kenasiu

Join the Midlife Butterfly Community: http://www.facebook.com/groups/midlifebutterfly

For Coaching, Courses & More Visit Kena's Website: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/workwithme

Request a Free Empowered Call with Kena if you're interested in working with her: https://midlifebutterfly.ca/empoweredsession

Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada

In this solo episode, I’m sharing raw, real, and radiant reflections from the heart of a woman who’s living and breathing the sacred transitions of midlife. From my return to Montreal to the full rebranding of my blissness from The Wellbeing Project to Midlife Butterfly, this episode is a juicy blend of storytelling, lessons, and soulful reminders that you are not alone in your unraveling or your rising.

Whether you're in a cocooning season, dissolving an old identity, or just starting to spread your wings again — this one's for you, beautiful.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• Why I rebranded my entire blissness (biz) to Midlife Butterfly (and the divine click that led to it).
• The lesson I learned the hard way from ignoring my intuition at 3 a.m.
• How technical breakdowns turned into divine reconnections (yes, guac and wine included!).
• Why transitions feel extra wild during midlife — and how to ride the rollercoaster with grace.
• What it means to be in the cocooning, dissolving, emerging, or flying phase of your own life.
• A powerful reminder: emotions are neutral, and they're here to guide you.
• My client’s incredible transformation after six months of deep soul work.
• How to stop resisting what’s falling away and start trusting what’s being born.
• The deeper meaning of midlife as a series of sacred deaths and rebirths.
• How to build the strength to spread your wings — again and again.

This episode is a love note for the woman who’s navigating loss, change, and growth all at once — and knows deep down, she’s meant to rise from it all. You are the butterfly, my love.

Reflection Questions for You:

1. Which butterfly phase are you currently in — cocooning, dissolving, emerging, or flying?
2. Where in your life are you being called to listen to your inner voice more deeply?
3. What would it look like to trust your emotions as sacred messengers rather than problems to fix?

Check out the free Midlife Butterfly Guide [http://midlifebutterfly.ca/theguide] with five key practices that have helped me navigate major life transitions with more ease and alignment. Visit midlifebutterfly.ca or follow me on Instagram @KenaSiu.

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You can find all the podcast details right here: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/podcast

Download the Midlife Butterfly Guide with 5 Radical Practices to Heal, Take Your Power Back & Rise
Follow Kena on Instagram: @kenasiu

Join the Midlife Butterfly Community: http://www.facebook.com/groups/midlifebutterfly

For Coaching, Courses & More Visit Kena's Website: http://midlifebutterfly.ca/workwithme

Request a Free Empowered Call with Kena if you're interested in working with her: https://midlifebutterfly.ca/empoweredsession

Song: Reborn by Alexander Nakarada