#038- Real Talk about Hospice & Palliative Care with Lauren Marcewicz, MD

12/16/20 • 57 min

Mental Health + Aging with Dr. Regina Koepp

Have you ever had the experience of meeting up with a dear friend for coffee or talking with your trusted therapist, and all of a sudden, you stumble into a conversation that's a little scary and emotional? Maybe you hesitate for a minute and ask yourself if you're gonna take the risk and really "go there".
I don't know about you, but when I find myself in these situations with a person I trust, and I make the choice to dive in, I end up learning a lot about myself and having an even closer relationship with the person I'm talking with.
I'm going to ask you to "go there" with me today as I interview Dr. Lauren Marcewicz, Palliative Care Physician. In this interview with Dr. Marcewicz, we have a real conversation about hospice, palliative care, family dynamics, and so much more.
Here's a peak inside my interview with Dr. Lauren Marcewicz:
[04:49] Dr. Marcewicz shares what drew her to end of life care.
[08:45] Learn one of Dr. Marcewicz most memorable end of life experiences.
[14:44] Discover the difference between Palliative Care and Hospice
[18:47] I share one of my most memorable experiences with a dying man
[22:44] How someone qualifies for hospice care explained here
[40:19] Active dying is a terms that many hospice and palliative care providers use. Learn what it means.
[45:59] Tips for families starting the end of life journey from a palliative care physician.
[50:21] Learn about the importance of anticipatory grief for the overall grieving process.
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With the Psychology of Aging podcast, my mission is to de-stigmatize mental health for older adults, to improve access to mental health care for older adults, and to create a space that is inclusive of all older adults.
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Previous Episode

#037- How to Talk About End of Life Wishes - with Patty Webster, The Conversation Project

Have you had an end of life conversation with a loved one? What feelings came up for when you read this? Fear? Sadness? Longing? Remorse?

Naturally, when we experience these feelings, we often want to run from them, rather than toward them.

But, did you know that when we actually pursue end of life conversations with our loved ones, it actually does more good than harm.

Research shows that end-of-life conversations lead to improved mental health and better-quality of life for both patients and caregivers. Here's how:

The person dying reports relief and less distress after talking with their loved ones about end of life wishes
When there is a meaningful conversation about end-of-life choices, survivors report feeling less guilt and less depression and having an easier process of grieving.

Now that you know end of life conversations can be helpful, in this podcast episode, I interview Patty Webster, lead of community engagement for The Conversation Project, a public engagement initiative to ensure everyone’s wishes for care through the end-of-life are both expressed and respected

Here's a peak inside my interview with Conversation Project's Patty Webster:

[06:55] Patty shares the touching story of how the Conversation Project got started.
[09:55] Discover the many benefits of having conversations about end of life wishes.
[20:56] The Conversation Project is helping healthcare institutions to be "conversation ready". Learn more here.
[23:51] The Conversation Project has created many free tools to help families start end of life conversations. See which tool is right for you.
[31:35] It's okay to change your end of life wishes. The Conversation Project shows us how.
[41:03] "A place of love" is a great place to start when embarking on end of life conversations. Learn more tips for starting this conversation.
[47:40] Are you a professional? You have an important role to play. Learn more here.

Click to the show notes page, here.

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Next Episode

#039- Dementia Communication Tips with Alzheimer's Poetry Project's Gary Glazner

Dementia is a devastating illness that often robs families of the opportunity to connect and experience joy. Because of this, it's essential that we find a way to share connecting moments, enjoy one another, and see a little piece of the person eclipsed by the shadow of this devastating illness.

And, I have just the person to help us with this!

In this week's episode, I interview Gary Glazner, the founder and Executive Director of the Alzheimer’s Poetry Project. In this interview, Gary generously shares with us strategies facilitating communication and connection with our loved ones with dementia and even shares about his own experience bringing poetry to his mom at the end of her life.
Here’s a sneak peek at what you’ll learn from my interview with Gary Glazner:

[04:06] Gary talks about using poetry with his mom in her final month of life. The good, the bad, and the hummingbird feeder.
[06:45] Relationships with our aging parents are not always easy. Gary opens up about his relationship with his mom.
[08:00] Gary shares the first of four techniques for using poetry, Call and Response
[10:41] There are many challenges that come with caregiving. Gary describes how the use of poetry help to foster joy and emotional connection.
[15:21] Researchers are looking at what happens to the brain and the physiological benefits when reciting poetry and using call and response.
[19:00] The second technique is to have discussions around the poem and the use of props as the third technique
[23:15] The fourth technique, to create a poem with your loved one, is shared.
[26:10] Using poetry helps caregivers to slow down (for even 5 minutes) to connect in a deep way with your loved one.

In this episode, Gary gives real life and tactical examples of how you can use these strategies in a group or one-on-one. If you're caring for an aging parent with dementia, or simply value human connection, this is a must listen!
Click here to visit the show notes
Interested in working with me? Learn more hereJoin the movement to de-stigmatize mental health for older adults:

With the Psychology of Aging podcast, my mission is to de-stigmatize mental health for older adults, to improve access to mental health care for older adults, and to create a space that is inclusive of all older adults.
You can help by sharing episodes, and subscribing to the podcast. Click here to subscribe in iTunes!
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Mental Health + Aging with Dr. Regina Koepp - #038- Real Talk about Hospice & Palliative Care with Lauren Marcewicz, MD

Transcript

Introduction

Dr. Lauren Marcewicz 00:00

I mean, I think the other problem is that sort of in our culture, we talk around death a lot. We don't, you know, we don't say the word we don't talk about, what are your dying plans? So we talk around it a lot. And I think that happens for families who are confronting it as well, there's a lot of talking around it. You know, like, like the whole question, what do you want to do? What do you mean, what do you