Mastering Communication: Knowing When to Listen or Withdraw
04/03/24 • 13 min
In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker delves into the delicate balance of communication within marriages, offering invaluable insights into when to engage and when to gracefully withdraw. Drawing from a live training session, Maurice emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in recognizing individual responses to conflict, whether it be fighting, fleeing, or freezing. Through candid anecdotes and practical advice, Maurice guides listeners through the process of setting boundaries and navigating conversations with courtesy and clarity. He sheds light on the misconception that listening endlessly is the key to healing, highlighting the need for couples to acknowledge their human limitations. With warmth and wisdom, Maurice empowers listeners to prioritize emotional well-being and cultivate healthy communication patterns, laying the foundation for relational growth and resilience.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker delves into the delicate balance of communication within marriages, offering invaluable insights into when to engage and when to gracefully withdraw. Drawing from a live training session, Maurice emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in recognizing individual responses to conflict, whether it be fighting, fleeing, or freezing. Through candid anecdotes and practical advice, Maurice guides listeners through the process of setting boundaries and navigating conversations with courtesy and clarity. He sheds light on the misconception that listening endlessly is the key to healing, highlighting the need for couples to acknowledge their human limitations. With warmth and wisdom, Maurice empowers listeners to prioritize emotional well-being and cultivate healthy communication patterns, laying the foundation for relational growth and resilience.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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Navigating Emotional Intimacy: Controlling the Pace of Conversations
Join Maurice Harker in this insightful episode extracted from a live training session focused on mastering emotional intimacy within marriages. Maurice introduces listeners to the importance of controlling the pace of conversations as a foundational element of fostering deeper connections. He distinguishes between listening for understanding versus listening to let someone talk, highlighting the significance of genuine engagement in communication. Through practical examples and tools like the DPAR method, Maurice empowers listeners to set boundaries and strategically navigate challenging conversations. Addressing common pitfalls and triggers, Maurice offers guidance on maintaining composure and preserving intimacy amidst emotional storms. With a blend of wisdom and compassion, Maurice encourages listeners to engage in intentional dialogue, laying the groundwork for relational growth and restoration. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn essential principles for fostering emotional connection and rebuilding marriages.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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Navigating Emotional Intimacy: Understanding Without Words
Join Maurice Harker in this illuminating episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," where he guides listeners through the intricacies of emotional intimacy within marriage. Drawing from a live training session, Maurice explores the profound importance of understanding without words, emphasizing the empathy required to bridge communication gaps. Through vivid analogies and practical examples, Maurice empowers listeners to exercise psychological empathy, validating their partners' feelings even when comprehension eludes them. With insights reminiscent of missionary language learning experiences, Maurice encourages couples to approach emotional intimacy with humility and persistence, embracing the journey of mutual understanding. From validating feelings to setting realistic expectations, Maurice equips listeners with the tools to cultivate genuine connection and trust in their relationships.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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