
48. Matriarchy in Action & Ancestor Assisted Birth - Emilee Saldaya
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05/29/19 • 100 min
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Birth has been systemically taken from us by the powers that be, but each birthing body holds deep knowledge of how to bring forth life. This conversation is part of a much larger cultural remembering of what our ancestors instinctively knew about giving birth and nurturing our babies.
IN THE INTRO:
- If we're not changing our minds, we're not growing
- Mammalian birth [mama & mammal & mammary are etymologically related, and there's a reason for that]
- How the Taoist medicine perspective of how energy moves through the female body explains why everyone wants to be around women
IN THE INTERVIEW:
- How Emilee’s radical teenage years led to her work now.
- Supporting mother’s instincts so that the mother-baby conversation can happen.
- Birth story: Dolphins(!), their potent medicine, and telepathic connection to birth (I cry).
- The spectrum of birth experience from beautiful and respectful, to dark and scary.
- How Emilee’s first hospital birth helped align her with her dharma.
- Our special likeness to all mammals through hormonal sequencing and our need to birth in a safe, familiar space (the choice of birth location changes the hormones flowing through the body during birth).
- Ultrasound technology safety and what affects our choices to use it.
- We are culturally trained to fear birth, and be terrified of death.
- How Patriarchy & Christianity disempowered birthing women.
- Fear- allying ourselves with it, rather than struggling to “overcome” it.
- Holding space for all individual birth experiences while still rejecting The System.
- Surrogacy, the primal wound, the commodification of bodies, and our bodily sovereignty as women.
- Staying open and nuanced in complex conversations.
- Meeting your divinity through birth, and the sacred spirituality of pregnancy.
- We birth the way we live.
- We are all descendants of women who birthed at home (like 99.999999999% of our female ancestors). Birth is in our bones.
- Creating a matriarchal household/family.
- A freebirth is a birth unhindered, undisturbed, in the support of loved ones, and outside the system that oppresses women and especially women of color.
- When we align with truth, in our power, we are unshakable.
LINKS:
- Emilee’s websites: Free Birth Society, Free Birth Podcast, my interview Matrilineal Love
- Medicine Stories Patreon (podcast bonuses!)
- Episode 30, The Innate Intelligence of the Immune System with Cilla Whatcott
- My website MythicMedicine.love
- Take my fun Which Healing Herb is Your Spirit Medicine? quiz
- Medicine Stories Facebook group
- Mythic Medicine on Instagram
- Music by Mariee Sioux (from her beautiful song Wild Eyes)
Birth has been systemically taken from us by the powers that be, but each birthing body holds deep knowledge of how to bring forth life. This conversation is part of a much larger cultural remembering of what our ancestors instinctively knew about giving birth and nurturing our babies.
IN THE INTRO:
- If we're not changing our minds, we're not growing
- Mammalian birth [mama & mammal & mammary are etymologically related, and there's a reason for that]
- How the Taoist medicine perspective of how energy moves through the female body explains why everyone wants to be around women
IN THE INTERVIEW:
- How Emilee’s radical teenage years led to her work now.
- Supporting mother’s instincts so that the mother-baby conversation can happen.
- Birth story: Dolphins(!), their potent medicine, and telepathic connection to birth (I cry).
- The spectrum of birth experience from beautiful and respectful, to dark and scary.
- How Emilee’s first hospital birth helped align her with her dharma.
- Our special likeness to all mammals through hormonal sequencing and our need to birth in a safe, familiar space (the choice of birth location changes the hormones flowing through the body during birth).
- Ultrasound technology safety and what affects our choices to use it.
- We are culturally trained to fear birth, and be terrified of death.
- How Patriarchy & Christianity disempowered birthing women.
- Fear- allying ourselves with it, rather than struggling to “overcome” it.
- Holding space for all individual birth experiences while still rejecting The System.
- Surrogacy, the primal wound, the commodification of bodies, and our bodily sovereignty as women.
- Staying open and nuanced in complex conversations.
- Meeting your divinity through birth, and the sacred spirituality of pregnancy.
- We birth the way we live.
- We are all descendants of women who birthed at home (like 99.999999999% of our female ancestors). Birth is in our bones.
- Creating a matriarchal household/family.
- A freebirth is a birth unhindered, undisturbed, in the support of loved ones, and outside the system that oppresses women and especially women of color.
- When we align with truth, in our power, we are unshakable.
LINKS:
- Emilee’s websites: Free Birth Society, Free Birth Podcast, my interview Matrilineal Love
- Medicine Stories Patreon (podcast bonuses!)
- Episode 30, The Innate Intelligence of the Immune System with Cilla Whatcott
- My website MythicMedicine.love
- Take my fun Which Healing Herb is Your Spirit Medicine? quiz
- Medicine Stories Facebook group
- Mythic Medicine on Instagram
- Music by Mariee Sioux (from her beautiful song Wild Eyes)
Previous Episode

47. Rose Medicine: Softness & Strength From the Queen of the Flowers
Humans have been joyfully engaging with rose medicine throughout the ages. This luxurious herb works on so many different parts of the body and spirit because of its many healing properties. Let's talk about them.
Click here to get the beautiful PDF Bringing Rose Medicine Home, featuring 6 rose recipes from 5 herbalists, plus my 3 favorite rose products.
- An overview of rose's abundantly generous physical & energetic medicine
- Wild v cultivated roses
- Which roses are best to use, and which to always avoid
- A healing message from rose that came to me recently, and the synchronicities that followed
- "Rose unwinds the stuckness that is often rooted in old grief, old trauma"
- Rose Delight Honey recipe from Kami McBride
- Rosebud Tea recipe from Rosalee de la Foret
- Rose is medicine for the whole heart
- Rainbow Heart Beams Elixir Giveaway!
- Discount on the Wild Rose Surprise Box from Rebecca Altman
- The Big (podcast related) Realization that came as a result of rose showing up in my life
- Upcoming guests & subjects
LINKS:
- Medicine Stories Patreon (the Bringing Rose Medicine Home PDF, the giveaway, and the coupon code for the Wild Rose Surprise Box!)
- Take the Which Healing Herb is Your Spirit Medicine? quiz
- Sophia Rose on Episode 3: Being the Medicine and Seeing the Wide Arc of Time
- Kami McBride on Episode 20: Herbalism, Menstruation, & Innate Knowing and Episode 39: Kitchen Herbalism: The Body Remembers
- Lola Venado on Episode 21: The Medicine We Carry
- Rebecca Altman on Episode 36: Magic Makes Us Human & Plants Keep Us Rooted
- Kami McBride's book The Herbal Kitchen
- Rosalee de la Foret's book Alchemy of Herbs
- Lola Venado's podcast Branch + Bone Medicine Show
- My website MythicMedicine.love
- Medicine Stories Facebook group
- Music by Mariee Sioux (from her beautiful song Wild Eyes)
Next Episode

49. Grieving the Spirits of the Land & Bringing Healing to the Ancestors - Mariee Sioux
Mariee Sioux’s music is medicine for the living and medicine for the dead, a direct portal both to and from the ancestors and the land spirits. In this interview she shares profound stories of hurt, healing, and visions gifted from the otherworld.
IN THE INTRO:
- Making grief more beautiful and more bearable
- How to enter the Giveaway of the Grief in Exile album
Songs played during this episode are-
- Wild Eyes
- Black Snakes
- Grief in Exile
- Two Tongues
IN THE INTERVIEW:
- Mariee never dreamed she’d be a musician & how that ended up happening
- Mariee’s connection with her indigenous Mexican and American maternal ancestors and her Hungarian and Polish paternal ancestors
- Songs pouring through you and the magical process of bringing something into being
- When the ancestors choose one person in their lineage to drop their stories into
- Ethnic stereotypes and what people will say to your face
- Mariee’s work with the Nisenan, the native people of the lands she and I live on, and how growing up here she literally never knew there were remaining tribal members here
- “I experienced so many spirits on the land that hadn’t been grieved”
- Some deep medicine stories- how this podcast has changed Mariee’s life (so much interweaving serendipity, since her music opens and closes every episode)
- How datura embedded into Mariee’s consciousness and how that plant relationship touched her life, even before she’d ever worked with the plant physically
- The amazing ancestral vision Mariee was gifted that supports the music and voice medicine she carries in this lifetime
- The different ways that people who come from lineages with unmetabolized grief and trauma [all of us] carry that ancestral inheritance
- How magic and the synchronicities start showing up once we commit to following our soul calling
- A digression on the Aquarian archetype
LINKS
- Hear Mariee’s music and order Grief in Exile: www.marieesioux.bandcamp.com
- Nisenan Tribe: 1) www.nisenan.org, 2) Ancestral Homeland Reciprocity Program, 3) California Heritage: Indigenous Research Project (CHIRP), 4) Tribal Chairman Richard B. Johnson’s book History Of Us: Nisenan Tribe of the Nevada City Rancheria
- Sophia Rose’s interview with Mariee at Garden Party
- Past episodes mentioned- 19. Reclaiming Kitchen Wisdom & Ancestral Healing w/ Darla Antoine and 3. Becoming the Medicine & Seeing the Wide Arc of Time w/ Sophia Rose
- Medicine Stories Patreon (enter the giveaway!)
- My website MythicMedicine.love
- Take my fun Which Healing Herb is Your Spirit Medicine? quiz
- Medicine Stories Facebook group
- Mythic Medicine on Instagram
- Music by Mariee Sioux (from her beautiful song Wild Eyes)
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