How To Get Your Husband's Attention

11/19/21 • 10 min

Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage

If you are wondering how to get your husband to pay more attention to you, you'll want to listen to this episode to gain more information on ways to draw him closer and get him to start seeing you again.

There is nothing more frustrating than feeling like you are fighting to get your husband’s attention. Sure, you hang out and spend time together but he isn’t really there 100% of the time or his mind seems to be wandering elsewhere. It feels different. You have tried different ways to reach out and get him to pay attention to you, but your efforts seem useless or it feels like you’re just annoying him. We understand the emotions of feeling unwanted or ignored but realize it may not be what you think before you jump to conclusions or start to feel suspicious.

There are things we do in relationships that either push our spouse away from us or pull them toward us. Remember, life gets in the way sometimes, so your husband may lose sight of you for a variety of reasons beyond your control. The first thing to do is stay calm and try not to think the worst. The second thing is avoiding behaviors that push our spouse further from us in this oblivious state and you feel like they don’t care.

In this quick episode we cover:

-Why your husband is not paying attention to you

-How to bring your spouse closer instead of pushing them away

-Things you can start doing immediately to get their attention back

Marriage can be challenging, but there is always a way to mend your differences and bring the sparks back into your relationship.
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In this quick episode we cover:

-Why your husband is not paying attention to you

-How to bring your spouse closer instead of pushing them away

-Things you can start doing immediately to get their attention back

Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Previous Episode

Difference Between Lust and Love

Lust—that's a powerful word. Sometimes people confuse love and lust, and they ask, "Am I in lust or am I in love?" Lust is a desire to mate with an appropriate partner because we are hard-wired to procreate, part of our brains are always looking to make a baby. So the lust part of us is thinking about pleasure, not relationships.
Let's look at love. Dr. Sternberg says love has three basic components, intimacy, passion, and commitment. He says lust in the relationship called love is not just for that one-time satisfaction; it's a craving to be one in terms of the other person's life. That person to be the one in your life, which then requires intimacy, transparency, vulnerability, and openness. That's what develops trust; you let me see who you are, what you think, what you feel. You let me know who you are. And, I let you see who I am. And we begin to mesh our lives together, I won't find you perfect, and you won't find me perfect.
Listen to the full episode to learn more about the difference between lust and love with Dr. Joe Beam.
Book: Art of Falling in Love
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Next Episode

Micro-Cheating: What It Is & Why You Should BEWARE

What is micro-cheating?
Micro-cheating is doing something that may open the door to another relationship besides the one you're in, right now. In other words, an activity that we would call inappropriate. You might be saying, well, what do you mean, if I'm being funny with somebody, is that micro-cheating? It may; then again, it may not. Flirting, if you're in a relationship very easily can open a door to another relationship, whether you intend for that to happen or not.
In this episode, you are going to learn from Dr. Beam what micro-cheating is and what it may look like to cross boundaries with someone that is not your spouse.
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