Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage

It’s a painful feeling if you believe your husband doesn’t love you anymore. Many marriages fall into a rut or a hole where intimacy gets lost, and it just doesn’t feel like your husband is paying attention or wants to be around you anymore.

They no longer seem present in your life, and you are simply cohabitating instead of building a lasting and meaningful relationship. If you feel this way in your marriage, stay calm and try not to jump to conclusions.

People change, and so do relationships so feeling this way is normal. Before you start panicking, look out for these signs in your relationship to determine the possibilities.

In this video, we cover:

-Signs your husband doesn’t love you

-Reasons for change in your relationship

-What your spouse is feeling

-What not to do to push them further away

-Free resources to start falling in love again

You’re here because your spouse and your marriage matter to you. We understand these feelings and have coached many women just like you on bettering their relationships. Remember not to blame yourself. Things happen, and people drift apart, but it’s not hopeless.

After working with countless marriages and coaching hundreds of women, we have seen marriages put back together after years of emotional distance or separation. We believe in reconciliation and finding hope for your future. We have coaches you can talk to or self-help articles for those who wish to learn at their own pace.

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If you are wondering how to get your husband to pay more attention to you, you'll want to listen to this episode to gain more information on ways to draw him closer and get him to start seeing you again. 

There is nothing more frustrating than feeling like you are fighting to get your husband’s attention. Sure, you hang out and spend time together but he isn’t really there 100% of the time or his mind seems to be wandering elsewhere. It feels different. You have tried different ways to reach out and get him to pay attention to you, but your efforts seem useless or it feels like you’re just annoying him. We understand the emotions of feeling unwanted or ignored but realize it may not be what you think before you jump to conclusions or start to feel suspicious. 

There are things we do in relationships that either push our spouse away from us or pull them toward us. Remember, life gets in the way sometimes, so your husband may lose sight of you for a variety of reasons beyond your control. The first thing to do is stay calm and try not to think the worst. The second thing is avoiding behaviors that push our spouse further from us in this oblivious state and you feel like they don’t care. 

In this quick episode we cover:

-Why your husband is not paying attention to you 

-How to bring your spouse closer instead of pushing them away 

-Things you can start doing immediately to get their attention back 

Marriage can be challenging, but there is always a way to mend your differences and bring the sparks back into your relationship.

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Does a relationship go back to normal after cheating? Is it possible to move past the hurt and deception and go on like it never happened? These are all tough questions, but we have the answers in this video.

Cheating is a significant moment in your life. Cheating changes everything you ever knew or felt about your spouse. How could they do this to me? I thought we were in love? Where did we go wrong? These questions and feelings circulate in your mind over and over with no end in sight. The worst thing is feeling this way, with no ability to understand your emotions or your spouse's.

Cheating is never okay, but it's essential to think about the why when it does happen. Frequently, infidelity is an indication of a long-standing problem. Months or even years of miscommunication, feel unloved, ignored, or complacent. Does it often help to think about why your spouse acted this way instead of questioning how they could do this? Even as victims, we all play a role in something. At Marriage Helper, we help guide you to these answers to learn more about yourself, your spouse and, in due time, save your marriage.

In this episode, we cover:

-Can a relationship go back to normal after cheating

-Questions you never thought of before when making a decision

-Becoming stronger after the cheating

-Methods and strategies to help forgive your spouse

-Free resources if you wish to save your marriage.

If you feel like you're in this alone. We got you. We have worked with thousands of couples just like you. Couples ready to divorce, ones that fell out of love, and even teams that left their spouses years ago. Hope is always there if you are prepared to accept it. We have the tools to help you succeed and find the happiness you deserve. From our coaches to how-to articles, workshops, and more, we believe if anything works, this will.
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How does your spouse feel after cheating on you? Is it guilt or remorse? Maybe they don't even care. Discovering your spouse has cheated is like being on an emotional roller coaster. You feel like you have no control and no way to understand what went wrong in your relationship altogether. There are many reasons for an affair, something feels off, falling out of love, the absence of affection, and more.

Regardless of the reason, your spouse's affair doesn't mean he's having the time of his life or looking to start a new life with someone else. Many times we ask ourselves How. "How could my spouse do this to me?" "How could they betray our relationship like this?" Instead of the how's, think about what.

What was it that compelled them to do this, and what was missing in your relationship? People make their own choices, so your spouse's affair is not your fault. There are stages of grief, guilt, and denial your spouse is going through, and cheating is the long-term issue of something lacking in your relationship. Even as victims, we all play a role in something. At Marriage Helper, we help guide you to these answers to learn more about yourself, your spouse and, in due time, save your marriage.

In this episode, we cover:

-How does a spouse feel after cheating on you

-Emotional reasons why people cheat

-Vulnerability leads to Possibility

-Limerence (the feeling of being in love) and guilt

-Ways to overcome your spouse's infidelity

-Free resources to help you save your marriage

Marriage isn't perfect, and the ideal relationship does not exist. There are many ups and downs when we merge our lives with another, but with the effort of both people, you can have an excellent and lasting relationship.

We have tools and free resources to help you save your marriage and find your way to falling in love again. Contact Marriage Helper to find out how we can help you. Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications to hear more helpful videos and unique stories of reconciliation from other people going through the same situations you're in right now.

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Let's look at the research that shows what the benefits are of marriage. Let's approach this from the data and research perspective. We know from research that married people are more likely to have better health physically and emotionally. They have more robust immune systems, better financial stability, and the earning power of a married couple is well above that of a single couple or couples that live together and aren't married. They also live longer as well as they have drastic decreases in rates of depression and mental illness.
Now, of course, many of these research stats that I have given you are for marriages that are doing well. And these symptoms can temporarily be exacerbated on the negative side if you are experiencing a marriage crisis. But is that a reason to divorce? So what I mean by that is you could be saying, well, I'm more depressed right now. I'm getting sick more. We're separated and living in separate houses, so even though we might be earning more, we're not financially in a better place than we were. And I understand that. But what I'm saying to you right now is when we look at a great marriage and what a great marriage can do for you and society, there are so many benefits to it. So from a research standpoint, marriage is worth it; the data supports it, the research supports it.
We want to give you access to this free mini-course so that you can learn how people fall in love, how you and your spouse fell in love, and how you can get you and your spouse to fall in love again. We're also going to share in there how you can begin working on becoming the best you can be; at Marriage Helper, we call it the PIES of attraction. And we're going to give you quick tips and tools that you can begin implementing today as soon as you watch these videos to start seeing the change in you, knowing that that is going to correlate to change in your marriage as well. So after watching this video, I would love to hear from you. Do you believe marriage is worth it? Let us know your thoughts, give us your feedback and opinion, and share this episode with someone you feel needs it.

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