
Breaking the Patterns that Break You w/ Tori Hope Peterson
01/13/25 • 60 min
Tori Hope Petersen is the bestselling author of her memoir “Fostered,” and her new book, “Breaking the Patterns that Break You.”
She is a sought-out national speaker and Bible teacher, encouraging women, moms, and youth coming from hard places.
Tori is a leading advocate in foster care, who has advocated to congress, and helped countless organizations serving vulnerable people raise funds by telling her powerful story from stages.
At home, she is a mom and wife who enjoys cooking with her children. With a value for hospitality, the family makes extra food to be able to open their doors and feed whoever might stop by.
Through this conversation we will talk through:
- Tori's background in the foster care system and its impact on her life
- How to reframe the way we approach feeling left out of social settings and the concept of intentional solitude
- What it means to love like you've been hurt
- Tori's upcoming conference, Loved Already
- Celebrate the upcoming release of “Breaking the Patterns that Break You.”
This conversation will open your eyes, touch your heart, and move you towards change. You won't want to miss it!
Follow her on instagram
Buy her new book
Purchase the book she lists as her latest favorite thing!
Tori Hope Petersen is the bestselling author of her memoir “Fostered,” and her new book, “Breaking the Patterns that Break You.”
She is a sought-out national speaker and Bible teacher, encouraging women, moms, and youth coming from hard places.
Tori is a leading advocate in foster care, who has advocated to congress, and helped countless organizations serving vulnerable people raise funds by telling her powerful story from stages.
At home, she is a mom and wife who enjoys cooking with her children. With a value for hospitality, the family makes extra food to be able to open their doors and feed whoever might stop by.
Through this conversation we will talk through:
- Tori's background in the foster care system and its impact on her life
- How to reframe the way we approach feeling left out of social settings and the concept of intentional solitude
- What it means to love like you've been hurt
- Tori's upcoming conference, Loved Already
- Celebrate the upcoming release of “Breaking the Patterns that Break You.”
This conversation will open your eyes, touch your heart, and move you towards change. You won't want to miss it!
Follow her on instagram
Buy her new book
Purchase the book she lists as her latest favorite thing!
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Making Room by Gather - Breaking the Patterns that Break You w/ Tori Hope Peterson
Transcript
Hey , hey guys , welcome back and happy new year . How is it ? 2025 ? That number is huge , especially as someone that graduated high school in 2010, . Like , the years are flying and I don't know this season I was just talking to Tori about it it was an exhausting one , but our super sweet one for us , and I just have a lot of expectancy for 2025 . 2024 was just kind of a w
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