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Making Room by Gather

Making Room by Gather

Kayty Helgerson

Hospitality. What do you think of when you hear that word?
For some it's old school 'stuffy' entertaining for others it's something to do with the hotel industry. One thing is for sure, as a culture we're not talking about it much.
Food * Design * Relationships have seemed to have taken a back seat to what our culture focuses on and values yet...we find ourselves in the midst of a loneliness epidemic. Something has to change, it's time to get back to our tables, and we're making room for it!
Making Room by Gather invites you into a new conversation on everyday hospitality. One that rewrites the way we approach opening your doors and filling your tables. Shifting the narrative from 'how does this make me look' to 'how does this make you feel' these buildable conversations aspire to inspire connection through everyday gathering.
Kayty's chic and a little quirky interview style will make you feel like you're sitting with a friend talking about how to grow in confidence as an everyday host. You can expect conversations from navigating challenging relationship dynamics to foundational cooking techniques and everything in between.
Whether you are a seasoned host or looking to develop new friendships and grow in your skills for the first time, there is a seat at the table. Join us weekly for new conversations with expert guests and with Kayty in her beloved Date with Kayt episodes. Continue the conversation @gatheritentionalliving

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Hands up if you would call yourself a perfectionist! Sometime along the way, we were taught that hospitality needs to be perfect, have you heard this messaging? It's safe to say that across life we are taught that it's safer to hold on tightly and don't let go. Or on the flip side, if things aren't going quite the way you hoped and dreamed that we can control the outcome. One way or another, we all likely could say that we would wonder what it's like to get a taste of freedom from this. To be able to live life and host with surrender. Through my conversation with Podcaster and Author Tara Sun, we talk through some of the relatable and insightful themes in her newest book Surrender Your Story. You can expect to hear conversation topics like:
The Myth of control, Is control really safer?
What we learn when things come crashing down
What chronic illness taught Tara about control
How to build the muscle of surrender
How to break patterns of control for the perfectionists
& More!
Whether you would call yourself a full out perfectionist OR you feel like you have just a little to learn, you will love this conversation with our new ray-of-sunshine friend Tara Sun!
Buy Tara's Book here!
Visit Tara's website here
Follow her on Instagram @Misstarasun
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This episode was sponsored by:
Good Ranchers
Visit Goodranchers.com/Gather to get a year of bacon with your subscription and $20 off your first order with GATHER
Cotier Brand:
Get your own Convokins for 15% off at Cotierbrand.com using code Gather15

This Episode is Sponsored By:
Feast & Fettle get $25 off your first week of hand crafted, flavor packed meals delivered straight to your door so you can soak up the season with code GATHER25 at checkout
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Guess What? It's possible to have an honest conversation...and still keep a relationship. It's true! A few weeks back an industry friend reached out and said, " I know these two incredible people making a film and I think you'd love to talk to them!" Turns out, she was right! Our new friends Craig and Andrea were set out to create a film that talks about racial reconciliation in a new light. This has been something that we have become increasingly aware of as a culture but truthfully...the way these two have created space for this dialogue is new, and fresh. Through it they have modeled what it could look like for others conversations like it to happen as well. I left this interview inspired as a creative, hopeful for our tables and culture. I know you will too! You can expect to hear:

  • An important note to the closet creative and dreamer
  • Balancing authenticity and triggers in our current culture
  • How to have difficult conversation and maintain relationships
  • The important role music has in story telling
  • How to be aware of our own biases
  • How Mercy & Me was designed in a way that no one feels attacked but rather that everyone feels that they have the words they need to feel heard on all sides.

The three of us instantly connected and that lead to a really fun, really authentic conversation that you will NOT want to miss!
Be sure to get tickets to their movie and learn more here!
This episode was sponsored by:
Good Ranchers
Visit Goodranchers.com/Gather to get $30 off your first order of American meat Delivered straight to your door for Father's Day with code GATHER
Cotier Brand:
Get your own Convokins for 15% off at Cotierbrand.com using code Gather15

This Episode is Sponsored By:
Feast & Fettle get $25 off your first week of hand crafted, flavor packed meals delivered straight to your door so you can soak up the season with code GATHER25 at checkout
Watch our Youtube episodes here!

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I am known for a few things, and one of them being my incredible love for all things chocolate. As I got older and dove into the worlds of coffee and wine, I realized that similarly chocolate has a culture and world of it's own. It didn't take long for me to realize that the mass produced chocolate that I would feast on as a kid no longer fit the way my foodie palate was expanding. This led me to learn more about what makes chocolate...good chocolate. While truthfully I am very much at the beginning of my learning Nicole Patel, Master Chocolatier, teaches me in this episode all about one of my true loves in a profound and decadent new way!
Through this conversation you will hear:
How a career in Engineering led Nicole to launch her chocolate company
Does your chocolate crack or bend? What are the main differences between what we see on store shelves like 'smores chocolate' and chocolate thats produced in small batches? How to tell the difference and why it matters
The proper way to store and serve your chocolate and how it enhances the taste
Delysia is known for their unique flavors and stunning presentation! Nicole will share how she crafts and creates all of it...without tasting a piece!
Chocolate lovers unite for a conversation that will get your excited to dig your teeth into some of the best chocolate you've ever had AND know how to serve it, gift it and more in the future!
Shop Delysia chocolate here!

This episode was sponsored by: Good Ranchers
Visit Goodranchers.com/Gather to get $30 off your first order of American meat Delivered straight to your door for Father's Day with code GATHER
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This Episode is Sponsored By:
Feast & Fettle get $25 off your first week of hand crafted, flavor packed meals delivered straight to your door so you can soak up the season with code GATHER25 at checkout
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Making Room by Gather - Date with Kayt: You Invited Them Over For Dinner...Now What?
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04/03/24 • 19 min

You invited new friends over for dinner...
...it went well
...and now you're thinking, NOW WHAT?
Don't wait another year to invite them over again. Instead listen to this!
So many of us are craving deeper connection through our hospitality. We are longing for friendships but honestly- culture doesn't tell how the two fit together.
In this episode, we will chat through three ways to intentionally deepen connections that start first at your table.
Have a thought about this episode? Head on over to our instagram and join the conversation on our feed @Gatherintentionalliving
This episode is sponsored by:
Magic Mind: Visit Magicmind.com/kayty for 56% off your first subscription or 20% off your single order

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Feast & Fettle get $25 off your first week of hand crafted, flavor packed meals delivered straight to your door so you can soak up the season with code GATHER25 at checkout
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Making Room by Gather - Why Do We Stay w/ Stephanie Quayle
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06/14/24 • 69 min

Why Do We Stay?
Like you when I first read those words, I paused, and started to think.
Stephanie Quayle, Country Music Artist, shares her gripping, powerful personal story with others in the launch of her new book, to help others find freedom navigating toxic relationships. Through the tragic loss of her boyfriend, and the eye opening journey to healing, she was invited into an entirely new understanding of relationships, friendship, and navigating her own journey with self-worth and faith.
Though this rich conversation we will define narcissism and toxic relationships. The truth of 'potentializing' people, and learning to trust yourself again. Touching on how to be a friend to those we see going through dysfunction, and the reality of gossip- there's not a second of this conversation that won't leave you inspired.
Join us, as Stephanie and I laugh, virtually hug, and talk our way to freedom in this unforgettable conversation.
Purchase Stephanie's book here
Follow Stephanie at @stephaniequayle
This episode is sponsored by:
Magic Mind: Visit Magicmind.com/kayty for 56% off your first subscription or 20% off your single order or use code Kayty20

This Episode is Sponsored By:
Feast & Fettle get $25 off your first week of hand crafted, flavor packed meals delivered straight to your door so you can soak up the season with code GATHER25 at checkout
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This season comes with its own form of cozy- its own sort of magic. As we enter into the heart of warm weather entertaining we are naturally spending more time outdoors...but...are our spaces ready? The goal of 'readiness' is never perfection, but instead confidence. Are you confident welcoming others into your space? This week we welcome on our friend, designer and CEO of designer doormat brand Porte + Hall, Stafford Meyer to talk all things Summer design. Her story is profound and the product she designed truly solves a problem so many of us have as we're creating our spaces. Through this conversion you will hear:

  • How Staffords career in Interior design helped her identify the pinpoints of the everyday host
  • How an unexpected stroke acted as a catalyst to launch a business that solves a problem the everyday designer faces
  • Preparing your space for summer gathering with just a few easy steps
  • & More!

Whether you are a want-to-be designer looking to get a few more skills or a seasoned expert, this conversation with Stafford is a sweet one to celebrate and prepare you for the season!
Visit their website and purchase your own mat HERE! Use code GATHER20 for 20% off!

This episode was sponsored by:
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Visit Goodranchers.com/Gather to get $30 off your first order of American meat Delivered straight to your door for July 4th with code GATHER

This Episode is Sponsored By:
Feast & Fettle get $25 off your first week of hand crafted, flavor packed meals delivered straight to your door so you can soak up the season with code GATHER25 at checkout
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Have you ever found yourself in an ‘in-between’ season? A season of waiting, of wondering, of pain, or uncertainty? There is no question that this journey of moving back to America AND navigating starting a business has sparked ALL those and more for us. A few weeks ago, a new book flooded my instagram feed. It felt like everyone was posting about the launch of “What If It’s Wonderful?” by Nicole Zasowski. When asked, she graciously accepted our offer to come on the show. It wasn’t until I started to dive into this powerful, truth-filled book, that I realized how deeply personal this concept is for me. With that, I know it will be for you too as Nicole shows us:

  • Practical ways to find the courage to celebrate when we find ourselves in the ‘in-between.’
  • What it looks like to release fear, and how we can apply it to our own lives.
  • Ways to tackle self-criticism and savor moments worth remembering.
  • How to celebrate with others when we are not in seasons of celebration.
  • The truth about not receiving compliments.

As her subtitle so eloquently puts it, we know that this conversation will lead you to ‘release your fears, choose joy, and find the courage to celebrate’...with compassion, empathy, and actionable steps. You are not alone; the courage to celebrate starts here...together.

Be sure to pick up your own copy of 'What If It's Wonderful' here.

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This week, we have the unique opportunity of giving you access to an audio clip from Shauna Neiquests newest release, 'I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet.' Shauna has quickly become one of my favorite authors, after reading her book Present over Perfect. Her relatable storytelling invites you the beauty and vulnerability of all she shares, and in turn makes you feel known. With that, I am overjoyed to cheer her on in this new launch!
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Three years ago Shauna Niequist, her husband and two sons, all
lifelong Midwesterners, moved from the Chicago suburbs to an 825-square foot apartment in Manhattan.What started as a family mantra, “I guess I haven’t learned that yet,” whenever city life surprised them, the phrase gave Shauna room to exhale and the freedom to relearn how life could be. In her new book, Niequist scoops up readers and gently tells them the same things she told her sons, “oh darlings, you’re not dumb – you’re new. We’re all new. And we’re all not failing.”
In I GUESS I HAVEN’T LEARNED THAT YET: Discovering New Ways of
Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
, Niequist reflects on creating a quieter,
deeper life, her evolving faith, gathering people around the table and the magic of
saying “I don’t know.” She beautifully shares with readers how she learned to
keep going, living lightly and find healing in the face of major life transitions,
chronic health issues and a global pandemic.
“This is not a to-do list,” writes Niequist. “This is not a prescription for success or
a road map to spiritual perfection. This is a love letter, a handful of treasures, a
lifeline, a hand reaching out in the darkness and offering hope and respite...This
is the book I wish someone had written for me when I was in a season of near-
constant untethering and unbelonging, wandering and fumbling, and ultimately
discovering a million beautiful surprises after a couple very dark years. This is
everything I know– wild and messy, accompaniments for the hardest stretches of
the journey.”
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Be sure to pick up your own copy of 'I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet', here!
Taken from I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet by Shauna Niequist. Copyright © 2022 by Shauna Niequist. Used by permission of Zondervan. www.zondervan.com

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I very quickly find myself fully invested in reality tv shows; anyone else? I had heard about the new show, Claim to Fame, and as soon as I started watching, I knew it wasn’t going to be any different. In fact, as I was watching, I saw one of the girls on the show and thought, “I could be friends with her!” So I sent her a message, invited her onto the podcast and what came next surprised me most! She is on her own journey to building confidence in hospitality. (Also, we definitely became instant friends!) I have been wanting to host reverse interviews for a while, and this seemed like the perfect place to start! Brittany came on this episode fully prepared to ask a few questions that many of you will be able to relate to for a unique new format on the show.

What you may not know is that Brittany’s claim to fame is that she is daughter to football legend, Brett Favre. Over the years, a few of you have chimed in to ask how to interact with celebrities in public AND truthfully, I didn’t have much of my own experience to draw from. Through this conversation, she talks into:

  • How to approach celebrities in public in a way that respects their privacy.
  • Loneliness in status and public lifestyles.
  • The hardest part about sharing your life as someone in the spotlight, trust.
  • & her questions for me that I answer on the spot including 'perfection' burn out, social media's effects on hospitality and thank you notes.

Join us in this episode for a light hearted conversation with rich takeaways for your own table!
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There is so much power in our life stories. Certainly we all know someone who can bring an entire table to stitches, or tears, with the stories they share. However, so often we lead ourselves to believe that our stories are the exception. We lead ourselves to believe that our stories don't need to be told.
If you spend anytime looking at food on Instagram (or TikTok) you have most definitely come across the platform of the Korean Vegan. Before I ever came to be captivated by her incredible food photography and recipes, I was captivated by her storytelling.
Captivated by the way she shared her journey with healing her relationship with food, stories of her family's history, stories of her culture, stories of love and heartbreak. She taught me something, that stories build trust, stories deepen roots, stories make all of our lives and connections to one another...richer.
In this conversation, Joanne and I will be talking about story telling, How to become a storyteller and the incredible new book she just released that brings it all together.
Buy her new book The Korean Vegan here!

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How many episodes does Making Room by Gather have?

Making Room by Gather currently has 146 episodes available.

What topics does Making Room by Gather cover?

The podcast is about Entertaining, Leisure, Home & Garden, Society & Culture, Event Planning, Hospitality, Community, Podcasts and Wine.

What is the most popular episode on Making Room by Gather?

The episode title 'Why Do We Stay w/ Stephanie Quayle' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Making Room by Gather?

The average episode length on Making Room by Gather is 43 minutes.

How often are episodes of Making Room by Gather released?

Episodes of Making Room by Gather are typically released every 8 days, 4 hours.

When was the first episode of Making Room by Gather?

The first episode of Making Room by Gather was released on Jan 17, 2020.

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