
why is it so hard to believe I’m worthy of love?
12/31/24 • 7 min
In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match.
Highlights:
Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner.
The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and discovering more about yourself and others helps you become clearer on your soulmate desires. 🎼
Music by: VPRODMUSIC
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match.
Highlights:
Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner.
The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and discovering more about yourself and others helps you become clearer on your soulmate desires. 🎼
Music by: VPRODMUSIC
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
Previous Episode

What should I prioritize when looking for a partner?
Finding your soulmate is about focusing on what truly matters. This episode explores the importance of non-negotiables, shared values, and long-term alignment in a relationship. Learn how to navigate distractions and stay true to your vision for soulmate love.
Highlights:
- Focusing on Non-Negotiables – Identify what matters most to you in a partner and stick to it.
- Looking Beyond Surface Chemistry – The role of shared values and life goals in building a strong connection.
- Avoiding Time-Wasters – How to recognize distractions and keep your energy aligned with meaningful relationships.
🎼Music by Denis Pavlov
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
Next Episode

What’s the secret behind Zendaya and Selena Gomez’s engagements?
The recent engagements of Zendaya & Tom Holland and Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco have sparked a lot of conversations. People are quick to judge the men in these relationships based on looks, and the comparisons to their successful, glamorous fiancés are hard to ignore. But here’s the thing—there’s something much deeper happening in these connections.
While the world focuses on physical traits, what truly holds these relationships together?
🎼 Music by Vjazz_Relaxing
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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