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Love on the Brain

Love on the Brain

Kay van Dunk

“Love on the Brain” is a podcast dedicated to helping single, divorced, and widowed women find their soulmates while staying true to their high standards. Each episode provides practical tips, advice, or heartfelt stories that guide you to reframe your questions and break the cycle of hopelessness, helping you attract the soulmate you deserve.

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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Love on the Brain episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Love on the Brain for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Love on the Brain episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Love on the Brain - is everyone in a relationship but me?
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03/27/25 • 6 min

Feeling like you're the last single one standing? In today’s episode, we’re exploring why it can seem like everyone else is in a relationship except you. Let’s break down the comparison trap, shift your perspective, and reconnect with the confidence that your soulmate is on their way.

Highlights:

  • Why comparison isn’t a true reflection of what’s possible for you
  • How to spot relationship dynamics that don’t align with your desires
  • Reframing the belief that you’re “behind” on your love journey

🎼 Music by Clavier-Music

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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain - how do I deal with rejection?
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01/14/25 • 6 min

In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match.

Highlights:

  • Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner.
  • The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and discovering more about yourself and others helps you become clearer on your soulmate desires.

🎼 Music by: VJazzRelaxing
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain - why is it so hard to believe I’m worthy of love?
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12/31/24 • 7 min

In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match.
Highlights:
Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner.
The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and discovering more about yourself and others helps you become clearer on your soulmate desires. 🎼
Music by: VPRODMUSIC
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain - Am I being too accommodating in picking a soulmate?
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12/10/24 • 6 min

In this episode, we dive into the question of whether you’re being too accommodating in your quest for love. We examine how societal pressures can push you to settle and how to find a balance between being open-minded and maintaining your standards.

Highlights

  • The challenge of balancing openness with personal boundaries in dating.
  • Understanding your non-negotiables, dealbreakers, and preferences for a healthy relationship.
  • How to distinguish between what’s truly important and what might just be a preference.

🎼 Music by Vjazz_Relaxing

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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain - Why haven't I met my soulmate yet?
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12/03/24 • 5 min

Feeling like your soulmate search has gone on forever? In today’s episode, we’re diving into why it can feel so hard to meet “the one” despite all your efforts. Let’s explore the common blocks that may be holding you back from aligning with soulmate love and shift into a mindset that truly invites in the love you’re ready for.

Highlights:

  • Identifying Internal Blocks – Explore the subconscious beliefs and fears that may be keeping soulmate love at bay.
  • Aligning Your Life for Love – Insights on how to make room for a soulmate by examining your priorities and habits.
  • Release Limiting Beliefs – How to let go of subconscious beliefs or fears that may unknowingly keep love at bay.

🎼Music by VJazz Relaxing
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Navigating the holidays while single can bring up conflicting emotions, especially when family gatherings and social pressures intensify your longing for a relationship. In this episode, we’re flipping the script on the usual holiday stress and creating a self-preservation toolkit to help you feel grounded, joyful, and confident during this festive season.

Highlights

  • A practical self-preservation toolkit to manage holiday stress and your sense of self.
  • Tips for staying positive and creating moments of joy throughout the season.
  • How to reframe feelings of conflict about being single into affirming self-worth and embracing the holiday spirit on your terms.

🎼 Music by Denis Pavlov Music
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain

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10/31/24 • 2 min

  • Welcome to the Love on the Brain podcast! I’m your host, Kay, a certified love attraction coach specializing in helping single, widowed, or divorced independent women find their soulmates while maintaining their high standards in love and relationships.
    Episode Highlights:
    • Mindset Shift: How altering your questions can drastically change your approach to love and relationships.
    • Effective Reframing: Understand the limitations of traditional affirmations and how afformations/askfirmations can help you cultivate a more positive and proactive mindset.
    • Bite-Sized Episodes: Enjoy weekly episodes that are around 5-10 minutes long, allowing you to easily digest and apply the insights shared.

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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain - how can I use afformations to find love?
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03/06/25 • 5 min

In this episode, we dive into how to use afformations to interrupt negative thought patterns and support your journey to finding love. They serve as a powerful tool to stay aligned with the possibility of meeting your soulmate, even during tough moments.

Key Highlights:

  • What afformations are and how they work to reframe negative thoughts.
  • How asking the right questions can open new possibilities for love.
  • The importance of shifting thought patterns without the pressure of constant positivity.

🎼Music by ONION_ALL_STARS

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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain - am I delusional?

am I delusional?

Love on the Brain

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02/12/25 • 9 min

High standards in dating are important, but when do they cross the line into delusion? This episode unpacks the fine balance between having strong preferences and creating unrealistic expectations. Learn how alignment—not just a checklist—attracts soulmate love and why the magic of connection happens when you show up as your best self.

Highlights:

  • Rethinking High Standards – When expectations support you and when they might hold you back.
    Energetic Alignment – The connection between who you are and who you attract.
    The Role of Openness – How making space for the unexpected can shift your love life.

🎼Music by Vjazz_relaxing

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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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Love on the Brain - have gender wars distorted my view of love?
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03/20/25 • 11 min

In this episode, we're diving into the impact of gender war discourse on your view of love. Whether it's influencer content, online debates, or the algorithm, it all boils down to negativity and division

Highlights:

  • How online debates create a false narrative about love and relationships.
  • The danger of being trapped in echo chambers that feed negativity.
  • Why stepping away from divisive conversations can open you up to real, authentic connections.

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🎼 Vjazz_Relaxing and BFCMUSIC

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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.

Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.

The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.

That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.

If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.

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How many episodes does Love on the Brain have?

Love on the Brain currently has 22 episodes available.

What topics does Love on the Brain cover?

The podcast is about Healing, Society & Culture, Dating, Law Of Attraction, Love, Self-Help, Heartbreak, Self Love, Podcasts, Positive Thinking and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Love on the Brain?

The episode title 'New Year, New You 2025' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Love on the Brain?

The average episode length on Love on the Brain is 8 minutes.

How often are episodes of Love on the Brain released?

Episodes of Love on the Brain are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Love on the Brain?

The first episode of Love on the Brain was released on Oct 31, 2024.

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