Love on the Brain
Kay van Dunk
“Love on the Brain” is a podcast dedicated to helping single, divorced, and widowed women find their soulmates while staying true to their high standards. Each episode provides practical tips, advice, or heartfelt stories that guide you to reframe your questions and break the cycle of hopelessness, helping you attract the soulmate you deserve.
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am I ignoring the signs that this relationship isn’t it?
Love on the Brain
05/22/25 • 12 min
Are you ignoring deal-breakers or brushing off bad behavior in the hopes that things will improve?
In this episode, we explore the importance of discernment when it comes to relationships and how early red flags could be sabotaging your search for your soulmate. If you’ve been ignoring red flags or hoping that things will change, this episode is a must-listen. From emotional manipulation to mismatched life goals, we cover all the signs you shouldn’t ignore.
We’ll also talk about the power of boundaries and why they’re essential to creating the space for the right person to show up. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear understanding of how to stop wasting time on relationships that aren't aligned with your values.
Highlights:
- How to stop letting fear or insecurity cloud your decision-making and create space for the right love.
- Why being clear about your relationship goals is the secret to attracting your soulmate.
- How to stop living in potential and start living in reality with the love that’s really right for you.
- Setting strong boundaries to protect your energy and draw in a partner who mirrors your values.
- How to identify unhealthy relationship patterns early on and take action.
Why clarity and strong boundaries are key to attracting the soulmate you deserve.
🎼Music by: Vjazz_Relaxing
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
What should I prioritize when looking for a partner?
Love on the Brain
12/24/24 • 9 min
Finding your soulmate is about focusing on what truly matters. This episode explores the importance of non-negotiables, shared values, and long-term alignment in a relationship. Learn how to navigate distractions and stay true to your vision for soulmate love.
Highlights:
- Focusing on Non-Negotiables – Identify what matters most to you in a partner and stick to it.
- Looking Beyond Surface Chemistry – The role of shared values and life goals in building a strong connection.
- Avoiding Time-Wasters – How to recognize distractions and keep your energy aligned with meaningful relationships.
🎼Music by Denis Pavlov
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
Special Holiday Edition!: How do I get into the holiday spirit when I'm conflicted about being single?
Love on the Brain
11/26/24 • 10 min
Navigating the holidays while single can bring up conflicting emotions, especially when family gatherings and social pressures intensify your longing for a relationship. In this episode, we’re flipping the script on the usual holiday stress and creating a self-preservation toolkit to help you feel grounded, joyful, and confident during this festive season.
Highlights
- A practical self-preservation toolkit to manage holiday stress and your sense of self.
- Tips for staying positive and creating moments of joy throughout the season.
- How to reframe feelings of conflict about being single into affirming self-worth and embracing the holiday spirit on your terms.
🎼 Music by Denis Pavlov Music
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
how do I deal with rejection?
Love on the Brain
01/14/25 • 7 min
In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match.
Highlights:
- Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner.
- The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and discovering more about yourself and others helps you become clearer on your soulmate desires.
🎼 Music by: VJazzRelaxing
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
What’s the secret behind Zendaya and Selena Gomez’s engagements?
Love on the Brain
01/07/25 • 7 min
The recent engagements of Zendaya & Tom Holland and Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco have sparked a lot of conversations. People are quick to judge the men in these relationships based on looks, and the comparisons to their successful, glamorous fiancés are hard to ignore. But here’s the thing—there’s something much deeper happening in these connections.
While the world focuses on physical traits, what truly holds these relationships together?
🎼 Music by Vjazz_Relaxing
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
Am I avoiding love to keep my independence?
Love on the Brain
12/17/24 • 8 min
Feeling torn between wanting love and maintaining your independence? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the fear many successful women have about losing themselves in a relationship. We’ll explore the balance between autonomy and love, and how to attract a soulmate who truly supports your individuality while offering mutual growth and support.
Highlights:
- Fear of Losing Independence: Why it’s natural to feel apprehensive about sacrificing your autonomy in a relationship, especially when you're successful and self-sufficient.
- Redefining Autonomy in Love: Understanding how a soulmate relationship can enhance your life without compromising your freedom.
- Your Ideal Relationship Dynamic: How to shift your mindset and embrace a relationship that complements your strengths, not diminishes them.
🎼Music by VJazz Relaxing
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
Am I being too accommodating in picking a soulmate?
Love on the Brain
12/10/24 • 7 min
In this episode, we dive into the question of whether you’re being too accommodating in your quest for love. We examine how societal pressures can push you to settle and how to find a balance between being open-minded and maintaining your standards.
Highlights
- The challenge of balancing openness with personal boundaries in dating.
- Understanding your non-negotiables, dealbreakers, and preferences for a healthy relationship.
- How to distinguish between what’s truly important and what might just be a preference.
🎼 Music by Vjazz_Relaxing
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
Am I being too picky about choosing a soulmate?
Love on the Brain
12/10/24 • 7 min
Is there such a thing as being too picky when it comes to finding your soulmate? In this two-part episode, we explore the delicate balance between discerning standards and staying open to possibilities. If you're wondering whether your preferences might be limiting your chances at soulmate love, tune in for guidance on finding alignment in your relationship goals.
Highlights:
- Navigating Dealbreakers vs. Preferences – Learn how to distinguish between essential traits and flexible qualities.
- Aligning Standards with Core Values – Tips on evaluating your list of relationship criteria to see if it truly reflects your goals.
- Listening to Your Inner Voice – Insight on recognizing whose voice influences your dating decisions and how to reclaim your own.
🎼Music by BFCMUSIC
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
Why haven't I met my soulmate yet?
Love on the Brain
12/03/24 • 6 min
Feeling like your soulmate search has gone on forever? In today’s episode, we’re diving into why it can feel so hard to meet “the one” despite all your efforts. Let’s explore the common blocks that may be holding you back from aligning with soulmate love and shift into a mindset that truly invites in the love you’re ready for.
Highlights:
- Identifying Internal Blocks – Explore the subconscious beliefs and fears that may be keeping soulmate love at bay.
- Aligning Your Life for Love – Insights on how to make room for a soulmate by examining your priorities and habits.
- Release Limiting Beliefs – How to let go of subconscious beliefs or fears that may unknowingly keep love at bay.
🎼Music by VJazz Relaxing
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
why is it so hard to believe I’m worthy of love?
Love on the Brain
12/31/24 • 8 min
In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match.
Highlights:
Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify what you want in a partner.
The Process of Discovery: Why enjoying the process of dating and discovering more about yourself and others helps you become clearer on your soulmate desires. 🎼
Music by: VPRODMUSIC
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Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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You know that deep-down feeling that love is meant for you? That it’s supposed to be easier than this? You’re right.
Love isn’t something you chase. It’s something you attract when you shift into the energy that calls it in.
The problem isn’t you—it’s the way you’ve been taught to approach love. I help women break the cycle of overthinking and searching so they can finally start receiving the relationship they know is out there.
That’s exactly what we do in 1:1 coaching. We clear the hidden blocks keeping love just out of reach, so it stops feeling like a struggle—and starts feeling inevitable.
If that hit home, let’s talk. Book a free discovery call at https://calendly.com/kayvandunk/30min, and let’s get started on the path to the love you deserve.
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FAQ
How many episodes does Love on the Brain have?
Love on the Brain currently has 27 episodes available.
What topics does Love on the Brain cover?
The podcast is about Healing, Society & Culture, Dating, Law Of Attraction, Love, Self-Help, Heartbreak, Self Love, Podcasts, Positive Thinking and Relationships.
What is the most popular episode on Love on the Brain?
The episode title 'New Year, New You 2025' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Love on the Brain?
The average episode length on Love on the Brain is 9 minutes.
How often are episodes of Love on the Brain released?
Episodes of Love on the Brain are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Love on the Brain?
The first episode of Love on the Brain was released on Oct 31, 2024.
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