
A Widow's Dirty Little Secret
02/02/23 • 10 min
Want to know a dirty little secret? Some widows are actually happier after the loss of their spouse! I am one of those widows!
I am a widow that is actually living happier after. And it's not that I'm happy that my husband died but where I am in my life, I am happier than expected and that is something that is hard for me to share with other people.
Sometimes there are circumstances in a marriage that some people just don't understand. In my case I found a sense of adventure that I didn't have in my marriage! But there are many other circumstances that would make this a true statement as well. No one should feel judged for moving forward and living a life that is best for them. What's the point of living if you are not going to live?
As always, Widow Your Way!
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Want to know a dirty little secret? Some widows are actually happier after the loss of their spouse! I am one of those widows!
I am a widow that is actually living happier after. And it's not that I'm happy that my husband died but where I am in my life, I am happier than expected and that is something that is hard for me to share with other people.
Sometimes there are circumstances in a marriage that some people just don't understand. In my case I found a sense of adventure that I didn't have in my marriage! But there are many other circumstances that would make this a true statement as well. No one should feel judged for moving forward and living a life that is best for them. What's the point of living if you are not going to live?
As always, Widow Your Way!
You can now sign up for a small monthly subscription to support the show. Click the link above 👆
I would love to here from you! Send me a message.
Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband
Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husband
Website: www.widowyourway.com
You can also support the show in other ways:
- Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with me
- Leave a review to help others find me
Coffee is my love language ❤️
If you like this episode, please consider Buying Me A Coffee!
Previous Episode

F***K You For Dying!
Do you ever want to give a big F***K You to your spouse for dying? Do you ever feel guilty for saying bad things about your dead spouse?
I hate that being a widow is so romanticized and I fell into that trap by idolizing my husband because you shouldn't speak ill of the dead. I don't want to disrespect my husband in any way but this is my story! And the only way for me to widow my own way is to acknowledge the anger I have towards Tom for dying and for the things that happened just before. This wasn't even something I thought I would ever talk about but the time seems right now.
If I don't make peace with this it is going to be much harder to find a new happily ever ever. Because after all, love is not dead, just my husband.
As always, Widow Your Way!
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Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband
Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husband
Website: www.widowyourway.com
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Psychic, Mediums, Tarot, Oh My! Talking to the Dead
I don’t normally share my experiences with psychics, mediums or tarot readings because everyone believes something different. I’m also not some hard core fanatic but I do enjoy it. I don't take messages from beyond too seriously but I do find comfort in having a reminder that Tom is still with me. We should probably know that our loved ones would want us to be happy, but sometimes we just want to hear it. And there is one little thing that has been mentioned so often that I can't help believe that some messages are real. You have to listen to know what it is!
If you are interested, below are two Tarot Readers that I enjoy on YouTube that you may want to check out for free or contact for your own private reading.
Tarot Time with Dana and Lightworker Tarot & Oracle
Find and Follow Jackie (Psychic) on Instagram: @Sacred.Feminine.Rise
She also offers personal coaching, workshops, and retreats.
If you are interested in the physic, send me a DM and I can share her information.
As always, Widow Your Way!
You can now sign up for a small monthly subscription to support the show. Click the link above 👆
I would love to here from you! Send me a message.
Instagram: @loveisnotdead_justmyhusband
Facebook: Love is not dead, Just my husband
Website: www.widowyourway.com
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- Click the subscribe button to continue this journey with me
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