Conscious Kink Q&A (Episode 11)
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07/17/24 • 60 min
The video version of this episode can be found on my YouTube channel.
The following is the recording of a Conscious Kink Q&A Zoom Call that I hosted for my Patreon community. I’m sharing it to this podcast to educate, and raise awareness and understanding about Conscious Kink, Conscious BDSM and Conscious FemDom.
I had planned to host these calls once a month, but I took many months off to write my book, The Dominatrix Archetypes: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom. Now that the book has been launched, I will be going back to a more regular schedule. If you are interested in participating on these calls, you are welcome to join my Patreon community.
There were so many great questions on this call, like these:
What’s the best first step to get into the professional FemDom Industry? Can you tell me more about working in a dungeon?
How many years has it taken for a sub to become your full time slave, and have you terminated any of those relationships because it wasn’t working anymore?
How does one enter the world of FemDom and find partners that are safe and knowledgeable?
Can you give some examples of how BDSM can be healing for Dommes and for subs?
Why do you think some people who were raised in highly religious households are drawn to kink?
My partner wants me to choke him during sex. Choking seems to be a form of breath play. My hesitancy is safety. What do you suggest?
It is an honor to provide education to my Patreon community and to share it with the wider kink community and the public. It is so important to share this information to dispel misunderstandings and misrepresentations of what true BDSM is. BDSM is about love, trust, acceptance, openness, sharing, and intimacy. Anything else that feels self-serving, harmful, or negative is not true BDSM. Please share this information with anyone who is interested so we can spread knowledge and understanding about this beautiful artform and deep level of connection.
This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways. Become a member by going to patreon.com/damianachiphd.
I’d like to send special thanks and shout-outs to my Patreon members. Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community.
Many thanks to:
aadam975, Andres, Kaya A, Michael, MiKi22, Mistress Nacole, slave nipples, Peter R, pussy doll, Richard L.T., a aramaz, Albertus, allinthebrain, Bill Bumpus, Divine Diva, DJW, Eva, Domina Flora, Iryna S, Jeff, Julian S, L’Mae C, Mystic Dax, Nevaeh, Omanafire, Anonymous, Tom, Tracey C, Vincent V, Betty, Gala, jake, Mark R, Ms Coco 1111, Lady Sublime, uuee crump, Johnny SD, Raven, and sweetgirl julia.
And special thanks to the editor, sweetgirl julia.
✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨
Links Page | http://damianachiphd.com
Podcast | https://podcast.damianachiphd.com
Academy | https://academy.theevolutionarydominatrix.com
Book | https://thedominatrixarchetypes.com
Patreon | https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphd
Community | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.com
Coaching | https://www.bdsmsexologist.com
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd
#damianachiphd #lightworkerswhoplayinthedark #BDSMeducation
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The video version of this episode can be found on my YouTube channel.
The following is the recording of a Conscious Kink Q&A Zoom Call that I hosted for my Patreon community. I’m sharing it to this podcast to educate, and raise awareness and understanding about Conscious Kink, Conscious BDSM and Conscious FemDom.
I had planned to host these calls once a month, but I took many months off to write my book, The Dominatrix Archetypes: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom. Now that the book has been launched, I will be going back to a more regular schedule. If you are interested in participating on these calls, you are welcome to join my Patreon community.
There were so many great questions on this call, like these:
What’s the best first step to get into the professional FemDom Industry? Can you tell me more about working in a dungeon?
How many years has it taken for a sub to become your full time slave, and have you terminated any of those relationships because it wasn’t working anymore?
How does one enter the world of FemDom and find partners that are safe and knowledgeable?
Can you give some examples of how BDSM can be healing for Dommes and for subs?
Why do you think some people who were raised in highly religious households are drawn to kink?
My partner wants me to choke him during sex. Choking seems to be a form of breath play. My hesitancy is safety. What do you suggest?
It is an honor to provide education to my Patreon community and to share it with the wider kink community and the public. It is so important to share this information to dispel misunderstandings and misrepresentations of what true BDSM is. BDSM is about love, trust, acceptance, openness, sharing, and intimacy. Anything else that feels self-serving, harmful, or negative is not true BDSM. Please share this information with anyone who is interested so we can spread knowledge and understanding about this beautiful artform and deep level of connection.
This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways. Become a member by going to patreon.com/damianachiphd.
I’d like to send special thanks and shout-outs to my Patreon members. Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community.
Many thanks to:
aadam975, Andres, Kaya A, Michael, MiKi22, Mistress Nacole, slave nipples, Peter R, pussy doll, Richard L.T., a aramaz, Albertus, allinthebrain, Bill Bumpus, Divine Diva, DJW, Eva, Domina Flora, Iryna S, Jeff, Julian S, L’Mae C, Mystic Dax, Nevaeh, Omanafire, Anonymous, Tom, Tracey C, Vincent V, Betty, Gala, jake, Mark R, Ms Coco 1111, Lady Sublime, uuee crump, Johnny SD, Raven, and sweetgirl julia.
And special thanks to the editor, sweetgirl julia.
✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨
Links Page | http://damianachiphd.com
Podcast | https://podcast.damianachiphd.com
Academy | https://academy.theevolutionarydominatrix.com
Book | https://thedominatrixarchetypes.com
Patreon | https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphd
Community | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.com
Coaching | https://www.bdsmsexologist.com
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd
#damianachiphd #lightworkerswhoplayinthedark #BDSMeducation
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Conscious Kink Q&A (Episode 10)
The video version of this episode can be found on my YouTube channel.
This is the recording of the first Zoom call that I hosted for my Patreon community, with the intention of sharing this content publicly on my podcast, to raise awareness and understanding about Conscious Kink, Conscious BDSM and Conscious FemDom. These Zoom calls will eventually be reserved for my Patreon members, but for a limited time, the invitation is open to everyone. All participants on Zoom are video-off to protect anonymity.
There were so many great questions on this call, like, “Can someone be trained to become kinky for their partner?”, and “What are some tips to keep in mind for new Mistresses to avoid common rookie mistakes?” and “Can you talk about the issue of lack of sex education and what to do when a therapist makes a sex-negative statement? My first reactions have always been to doubt myself because I am not a mental health professional, they are.”
It is an honor to provide education to my Patreon community and to share it with the wider kink community and the public. It is so important to share this information to dispel misunderstandings and misrepresentations of what true BDSM is. BDSM is about love, trust, acceptance, openness, sharing, and intimacy. Anything else that feels self-serving, harmful, or negative is not true BDSM. Please share this information with anyone who is interested so we can spread knowledge and understanding about this beautiful artform and deep level of connection.
This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways. Become a member by going to patreon.com/damianachiphd.
Special thanks to my Patreon members (listed below). Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community.
DroneID_6999, JJ, Kaya Anais, Mistress Nacole, pussy doll, Richard T, Kate R, Andres, uuee crump, AP, Alana DR, Divine Diva, DJW, Domina Flora, Julian S, L’Mae C, Lourdes I, Matt, Mazi, Mystic Dax, Tom, Tracy C, Vincent V, Jennifer K, Angela, Bill Bumpus, Jake, Larry W, Mark R, pyrophite5, Sarah F, Tom W, Betty, Angie B, Johnny SD, and Mistress Persephone Rose.
And many thanks to the editor, Geoff Nigl.
✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨
Links Page | http://damianachiphd.com
Podcast | https://podcast.damianachiphd.com
Academy | https://academy.theevolutionarydominatrix.com
Community | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.com
Coaching | https://www.bdsmsexologist.com
Patreon | https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphd
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd
Twitter | https://twitter.com/damianachiphd
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/damianachiphd
#damianachiphd #lightworkerswhoplayinthedark #BDSMeducation
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Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix – Interview with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.
The following episode was recorded for the Sex, Sin and Sensibility Podcast, hosted by Miss Drea and sweetgirl julia, which I highly recommend to my listeners as a valuable resource for high quality BDSM and kink education. You can find it on all major podcast players. I was invited as a guest on their show, and they were kind enough to grant me permission to republish the episode here to share with my audience.
In this episode, we discuss the contents of my new book, The Dominatrix Archetypes®: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom. We explore what the 4 Archetypes within a Dominatrix are, and how each Archetype serves to connect with the individual needs of every submissive to create well-rounded and balanced scenes within the course of a BDSM session.
This interview was a fun one because one of the hosts, sweetgirl julia, is a personally collared slave of mine, and also one of the submissive coaches in The Evolutionary Dominatrix Academy, where we work together to mentor women in the art of Female Domination. julia provides valuable insight about the importance of each Archetype from the submissive perspective.
We discussed on how I first started out on my Domme journey, experiencing my first “Domme high,” the importance of domination language, domination energy, and domination personalization, how Evolutionary Dominatrices are Lightworkers who play in the Dark, why I feel being a Dominatrix is the biggest self-love exercise you can do, and other juicy topics.
I want to thank Miss Drea and julia for hosting this beautiful episode, and for their graciousness in allowing me to share it with you. Follow the Sex, Sin and Sensibility Podcast at these links:
https://www.instagram.com/s3x_sin_sensibility
https://open.spotify.com/show/2NlO0zmtgOx4SMroHtEuOH?si=yG7jgcbSRRWe2-72tkFxDA
This podcast is fully supported by my Patreon members - your patronage is so appreciated. As a member of my Patreon community, you will be able to connect with me in fun ways. Become a member by going to https://patreon.com/damianachiphd.
I’d like to send special thanks and shout-outs to my Patreon members. Your support means so much to me, and it feels so good to know that what I’m doing is appreciated by you. It is an honor to contribute to my beloved kink community. Many thanks to:
Richard, Black Orchid, meg, Shay, EL, Daniel R., p, Caroline, Sadie S., Nick, Soletramp, marc, McKenna G., Eva, nipples, Ms_Coco_1111, Luna Canes, Gala, LadySublime, Mistress Nacole, Julian S, Mystic Dax, uuee crump, vincent v., Divine Diva, Tom, sweetgirl julia, Gs, Jake, DJW, pussy, Andres, Bill Bumpus, Michael, Tracey C., Betty, Richard Tackett, Domina Flora.
And special thanks to the editor, sweetgirl julia.
✨ Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D.✨
Links Page | http://damianachiphd.com
Podcast | https://podcast.damianachiphd.com
Academy | https://academy.theevolutionarydominatrix.com
Book | https://thedominatrixarchetypes.com
Patreon | https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphd
Community | https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.com
Coaching | https://www.bdsmsexologist.com
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd
#damianachiphd #lightworkerswhoplayinthedark #BDSMeducation
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