Unlocking the Power of Authenticity in Networking with Aria Leighty EP | 105

08/21/24 • 28 min

Life’s Checkmark: Stories of Growth & Resilience

In this episode of Life's Checkmark, we are joined by Aria Leighty, the visionary founder of Show the F*ck Up Media and a celebrated visibility strategist. Known as the "Networking Queen," Aria shares her passion for creating intentional and authentic relationships in a networking landscape often dominated by impersonal lead magnets and funnels. With her dynamic background spanning executive recruiting, creative direction, and entrepreneurship, Aria's journey is a testament to the power of human connection in transforming business landscapes and using the power of authenticity when networking. She walks us through her early realization of her networking prowess at the age of 19, right up to her diverse entrepreneurial ventures, illustrating how these relationships carried her through every pivot and success.

Aria's expertise shines as she delves into the art of building and nurturing long-term, mutually beneficial relationships that transcend mere marketing tactics. She discusses practical strategies for effective networking, the importance of showing up authentically, and how these genuine connections can open doors and create unparalleled opportunities. Join host Jon Emery in exploring how Aria's unwavering dedication to connection and authenticity continues to make waves in various industries.

Key Takeaways:

• Build and nurture long-term, mutually beneficial relationships.

• Show up authentically in every networking scenario.

• Think beyond immediate gains and focus on human connections.

• Use social platforms to sustain and grow professional relationships.

• Start messy, iterate, and improve over time.

Connect with Aria:

Subscribe to The Plug at https://www.showthefuckup.media/

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00:00 Aria Lighty, founder of Show the Fuck Up Media.

05:25 Networking: Building long-term, beneficial relationships intentionally.

07:33 Build relationships, show genuine interest, ask questions.

12:06 Audience wants to know real you, not judging.

16:13 Always curious, good listener, eager to learn.

18:04 Networking events prompt targeted, value-driven introductions.

23:18 Media company promotes opportunities for marginalized communities.

24:53 Start messy, say no, be authentic.

Unlocking the Power of Authenticity in Networking with Aria Leighty EP | 105

Key Takeaways:

• Build and nurture long-term, mutually beneficial relationships.

• Show up authentically in every networking scenario.

• Think beyond immediate gains and focus on human connections.

• Use social platforms to sustain and grow professional relationships.

• Start messy, iterate, and improve over time.

Connect with Aria:

Subscribe to The Plug at https://www.showthefuckup.media/

Are you eager to create your own podcast? Here is your opportunity to Create, Build, Launch, and Grow Your Podcast in a community today! ⁠⁠https://www.lifecheckmark.com

Already have a podcast with 10+ episodes? Join Podcaster’s Hub https://www.lifescheckmark.com @lifescheckmark

00:00 Aria Lighty, founder of Show the Fuck Up Media.

05:25 Networking: Building long-term, beneficial relationships intentionally.

07:33 Build relationships, show genuine interest, ask questions.

12:06 Audience wants to know real you, not judging.

16:13 Always curious, good listener, eager to learn.

18:04 Networking events prompt targeted, value-driven introductions.

23:18 Media company promotes opportunities for marginalized communities.

24:53 Start messy, say no, be authentic.

Previous Episode

Building Confident Kids: Power of Quality Time and Emotional Bonding w/ Dr. Rani Thanacoody EP | 104

In this heartfelt episode of Life's Checkmark, we engage in a deeply moving conversation with Dr. Rani Thanacoody, a multi-faceted clinical hypnotherapist and life coach who turned her own personal pain into a beacon of transformation and healing. With years in academia and a background rich in diverse therapeutic practices, Rani shares how her experiences shaped her approach to hypnotherapy and personal growth. From grappling with childhood trauma including bullying and abuse, to discovering the power of self-love and forgiveness through inner work, Rani’s story is one of resilience and profound insight. Not only does she shed light on nurturing children’s confidence, but she also imparts invaluable wisdom on re-parenting one's inner child and letting go of past burdens.

Dr. Rani’s inspiring journey, particularly during the pandemic, serves as a testament to the transformative power of inner work and the importance of emotional bonding and presence in our relationships with children. With Jon Emery as the empathetic host, this episode dives deep into the intricacies of personal healing, the importance of quality time with children, and actionable steps parents can take to foster a healthy environment for their offspring.

Key Takeaways:

• The pivotal role of spending quality time with children in their formative years.
• The transformative power of hypnotherapy in achieving personal growth.
• How re-parenting the inner child can lead to profound life changes.
• The impact of past traumas and methods for healing and forgiveness.
• The significance of building children's confidence through praise and support.

00:00 Connecting from US to UK, appreciate relationship.

04:48 Childhood loneliness and neglect led to abuse.

09:21 Childhood fear led to secret coping mechanism.

12:11 Little time for me due to family responsibilities.

14:19 Trauma causes disconnection and stifled self-expression.

20:25 Quality time with children shapes their future.

21:32 Listen to children, guide them, build confidence.

25:06 Invest in yourself, share your talents. Transformative.

29:23 We must give ourselves love and approval.

32:12 Striving to build confidence and support for children.

34:48 Free 30-minute call, online hypnotherapy sessions.

Connect with Rani: Website: https://www.drranithanacoody.com https://www.marsvenuscoachrani.com

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A Survivor's Story: Michelle Jewsbury on Overcoming Domestic Violence EP | 106

In this episode of Life's Checkmark, we welcome the inspiring Michelle Jewsbury, a survivor of domestic violence who transformed her traumatic experiences into a beacon of hope and activism. Moving to Hollywood with dreams of acting, Michelle found herself trapped in an abusive relationship, a harrowing chapter she not only survived but used as a catalyst for profound change. She shares her powerful journey of escape, healing, and advocacy.

Michelle's story doesn't end with survival; it extends to acts of empowerment. Encouraged by her therapist, she documented her ordeal in her book "But I Love Him", and later, performed a riveting solo play that captivated audiences at the Hollywood Fringe Festival and Whitefire Solofest. Going beyond storytelling, Michelle founded Unsilenced Voices, a nonprofit addressing domestic violence and sexual exploitation in places like Sierra Leone and Rwanda. Her commitment also led to a four-city tour in the USA, focusing on human trafficking hotspots.

Michelle's motivational message is clear: transparency, honesty, and the refusal to stay silent can break cycles of abuse and open doors to healing. Her work, including her Legacy Camp, where she aids others in turning their stories into books and public speaking engagements, is a testament to her unwavering dedication to helping others reclaim their voices and lives.

Key Takeaways:

• Turning trauma into a message of hope and activism.

• The critical role of transparency and honesty in healing.

• Creating impactful projects from personal experiences.

• The power of storytelling in breaking cycles of abuse.

• Importance of community and support for survivors.

Connect with Michelle Jewsbury:

Website ⁠https://www.unsilencedvoices.org⁠

Website: https://www.michellejewsbury.com

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00:00 Founded Unsilenced Voices in West Africa, expanded globally.

04:45 Denied abuse, internalized blame, broke free eventually.

09:59 Encouraging men to speak about sexual trauma.

13:28 Initial anger transformed into forgiveness after struggle.

16:22 Supportive community key to overcoming adversity.

19:15 Encouraging openness and vulnerability for self-improvement.

21:37 Acceptance of change in societal viewpoints over time.

26:03 Support, education, resources for human trafficking survivors.

29:05 Volunteered, worked, and started organization in Africa.

31:40 Failure is a stepping stone to success.