ASK UNCUT - Feeling DICKappointed?

12/07/22 • 43 min

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Hey Lifers,

We've spoken a lot about whether or not we're into 'nice' guys, but what about the available guys? Are we okay with the nice guy as long as they've got a bit of a chase to them?

We unpack.

Then we jump into your deep, dark and burning questions:

-Is withholding a pregnancy deceitful? I'm up for a promotion at work that I think I deserve and will get, but it's for a 2 year contract. Should I tell my employer that I am in the early stages of pregnancy given that if I get the job, I won't be able to work the whole contract out

-I met someone very special this year, however it has been a rollercoaster since we met (my dad died, I had an abortion, I moved overseas). He is also overseas now too but he has recently gone off to do his own thing. He said he loves me very much and wants me in his life but he doesn’t know to what extent right now. I love him so much and I keep coming back to this thought that he is “the one”. Is this naive? How do you know if someone is the one? I know I can be okay on my own but I want him in my life.

-Is it normal to not be able to get over your ex's dick?

I was in a relationship for 2 years and he had the greatest penis. Now whenever I sleep with someone I can't seem to be disappointed by theirs and I keep comparing it to my ex's.

Is this normal?

Can I get over this?

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Hey Lifers,

We've spoken a lot about whether or not we're into 'nice' guys, but what about the available guys? Are we okay with the nice guy as long as they've got a bit of a chase to them?

We unpack.

Then we jump into your deep, dark and burning questions:

-Is it normal to not be able to get over your ex's dick?

I was in a relationship for 2 years and he had the greatest penis. Now whenever I sleep with someone I can't seem to be disappointed by theirs and I keep comparing it to my ex's.

Is this normal?

Can I get over this?

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I don't want kids - stop telling me I'll change my mind

Hey Lifers!

It's our big meaty Tuesday episode served up with a side of bants. Today we are revisiting a topic we spoke about several months ago and that is - being childless by choice. The reason why we have decided to revisit this is because we listened to your feedback and so many of you wanted us to go deeper on this topic and take into account more stories and perspectives. Which is exactly what we have done!

But before we get into that we ask the big question... Have you ever masturbated at work - you horny little minx.

Childless by choice

The default when we are growing up is that we seem to think that success will be getting a good job, getting married, buying a house and having babies; but our generation seem to be questioning the 'status quo.'

What about if you don't want to have kids?

On today's episode we are joined by 3 women who have made the decision to remain childfree.

We unpack:

-When they realised kids may not have been for them

-Their reasons for being child free

-How to navigate conversations with friends that are struggling with fertility

-How to navigate those conversations in a marriage/dating scenario

We also address these statements:

"But what about when you get old and there will be no one to look after you?"

"You just haven't met the right partner yet"

"You'll change your mind"

You can find these women on instagram.

Danni Duncan - @danni___duncan

Karina Irby - @karinairby

Jana Hocking - @jana_hocking

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Rebounds - Getting over it, by getting under it

Hey lifers

Statistically (and you know we love a study), this time of year is the most common time to break up and kick start a rebound relationship so today we are unpacking the good, the bad and the ugly of rebound relationships. It's a bit of a nostalgic one because it's just the two of us taking a big deep dive on when we were rebounded with and when we've done it to others.

We talk:

-What rebounds look like if you're the rebounder or the reboundee

-How long it takes to get over an ex

-How rebounds can be really great

-How they can transition from a rebound into an actual relationship

But firstly, have you heard of milestoning? If you're single, there's a good chance you're doing it right now. We get into some new dating terms and trends and frankly, Britt needs to take a bit of a look at herself because she's doing pretty much all of them!

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