
Emotion Regulation & the Natural World
02/18/25 • 35 min
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Question: How does nature help with regulation and balance?
Dave’s forest therapy training - https://anft.earth/
Emotion Regulation tip #1 - let things be complicated
- Science and mystery
- Concrete concepts around ourselves and our bodies as well as spiritual or less concrete concepts around ourselves
Emotion Regulation tip #2 - we regulate when we provide a space
- For each other (co-regulation)
- For ourselves (self-regulation)
- We are a part of nature and regulate within nature.
- We are constantly in a process of shedding and restoring.
- God designed us with internal and externally connected regulation methods.
Emotion Regulation tip #3 - getting out of our own way of regulating
- How do we accidentally get in the way of regulating naturally?
- Origins of forest therapy with the advent of tech/media
- Benefits of the natural world on our cardiovascular system
Emotion Regulation tip #4 -find the blue spaces and the green spaces
- 3 specific outlined mechanisms for emotion regulation in nature:
foster positive emotions
Signals parasympathetic nervous system or rest/wellbeing state
connection and care of nature as respite, rebuilds energy
Emotion Regulation tip #5 - practice grounding
- Finding a sense in our body that we have a firm foundation, tethered to the ground or our seat
- Often feel “ungrounded” in chaotic world and holding 3-5 emotions at any given time
- Increasing vagal tone
Links:
ANFT website - https://anft.earth/
Enoch story (Genesis 5)
Noah Kahan, Stick Season - https://youtu.be/iWG6apzIWAk?si=EBS0Ll7biACsxNob
Inside Out - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/
Job 38-42
Research:
Question: How does nature help with regulation and balance?
Dave’s forest therapy training - https://anft.earth/
Emotion Regulation tip #1 - let things be complicated
- Science and mystery
- Concrete concepts around ourselves and our bodies as well as spiritual or less concrete concepts around ourselves
Emotion Regulation tip #2 - we regulate when we provide a space
- For each other (co-regulation)
- For ourselves (self-regulation)
- We are a part of nature and regulate within nature.
- We are constantly in a process of shedding and restoring.
- God designed us with internal and externally connected regulation methods.
Emotion Regulation tip #3 - getting out of our own way of regulating
- How do we accidentally get in the way of regulating naturally?
- Origins of forest therapy with the advent of tech/media
- Benefits of the natural world on our cardiovascular system
Emotion Regulation tip #4 -find the blue spaces and the green spaces
- 3 specific outlined mechanisms for emotion regulation in nature:
foster positive emotions
Signals parasympathetic nervous system or rest/wellbeing state
connection and care of nature as respite, rebuilds energy
Emotion Regulation tip #5 - practice grounding
- Finding a sense in our body that we have a firm foundation, tethered to the ground or our seat
- Often feel “ungrounded” in chaotic world and holding 3-5 emotions at any given time
- Increasing vagal tone
Links:
ANFT website - https://anft.earth/
Enoch story (Genesis 5)
Noah Kahan, Stick Season - https://youtu.be/iWG6apzIWAk?si=EBS0Ll7biACsxNob
Inside Out - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/
Job 38-42
Research:
Previous Episode

Control & Letting Go: Give it to the Trees
Question: How do I let go of things I can’t control?
A Dave and Heidi story: the cynical season or “life on the edge” and our first forest therapy attempt
- Learning to let go of the outcome
Letting Go Tip #1 - Find a practice of noticing what we don’t control or can’t control
- Example: stand in the woods or the yard and note the basic elements of nature around you that you can’t control
Letting Go Tip #2 - Read Job chapters 38-42
- The duality of meaningfulness and meaninglessness
- The duality of Challenge and acceptance
- “Job’s in scripture because his life was hard, not because he was doing really well at it.”
- When it feels like God is jacking around with you, building the trust
Letting Go Tip #3 - Finding non-judgment in nature and God
- Nature can hold and contain our challenges
- Psalm 51 - here’s my heart, insight in truth and love
- Notice what confusion is present and bring it to God
Letting Go Tip #4 - Note the cost of control
Top three psychological impacts of tightly holding onto control -
Stress and anxiety
Relationship impact
Challenges with resilience based on adaptability
Letting Go Tip #4 - Try out an Ecclesiastical Mindset
- Seasonal approach to living
- What is it “a time for” right now, but also letting a new season come
- Ecclesiastes 3 link: https://www.bible.com/bible/111/ECC.3.1-11.NIV
- Open your hands to share it, don’t go it alone
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