Ep 31 - What Are You Valuing The Most?

02/23/21 • 22 min

What are you valuing the most? This is such an important conversation and as most of you know I recently got engaged. We had set a date to get married this year in 2021 and when we really sat with what is important to us this year and what we are valuing spending 20-30k on a wedding wasn’t it.

There was once a time I would have bent over backwards to get married asap and have it all bouche and expensive but when we are really committed to ourselves and our growth sometimes our values change.

Now we will get married haha but I really wanted to explain WHY we decided not now, WHERE we are valuing money the most and HOW we make shit happen for ourselves.

There was a time I was a single mum, on government wage who could not afford all the things so instead of limiting myself to ‘why I can’t, I also figured out ways of ‘how can I’

See for us right now our value is in ourselves individually, our relationship and our businesses. Pouring money into something that is going to grow and expand me is what I value. Maybe you want that for yourself but you say ‘I can't afford that, I don’t have time, I can't make that happen’ but yet your getting your hairs did, nails on, lashes on fleek, brows happening and even lunch on the weekend, oh and don’t forget the daily coffee and Netflix addiction. We find money for the things we value.

What limits you from having what it is you truly want is the BS you're telling yourself as to why you can’t and is this episode I do not hold back because I want you to get there is ways to make shit happen.

I did not get here in less than 5 years of getting myself out of 120k in debt, $900 a fortnight in pensions by sitting around saying ‘I can’t’. I figured shit out and invested in myself to change the way I saw things to help create more of what I wanted.

L x

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Now we will get married haha but I really wanted to explain WHY we decided not now, WHERE we are valuing money the most and HOW we make shit happen for ourselves.

There was a time I was a single mum, on government wage who could not afford all the things so instead of limiting myself to ‘why I can’t, I also figured out ways of ‘how can I’

L x

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This quick tip episode of inHerPOWER podcast I talk about owning your power!
This is an important episode for all women (and men) to hear!!
It's time for you to own all of who you are!
L x

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Ep 32 - Seeking People's Approval

It’s been 2 weeks since my last episode, ya girl has been busy.. I want to share this conversation as I believe it is so important the effects that it can have on you by seeking approval in others.
In this episode I share the sneaky underlying need to seek approval from family and at times friends too. This has a massive impact on our journey and growth and the things we do or don’t do to try and get them to ‘approve’ of our choices and lifestyle.
The people in our lives see us a certain way and based on that made up an idea in their mind of what they believe to be true about us. It is NOT our job to try and convince them of ‘our side’ and this can be hard.
Especially if you are in discussion with family who have not done any work on themselves, still caught up in the cycle, patterns and behaviors based on their beliefs and values that do not align with you and where you are going.
Get clear on who you’re seeking approval from. Are they living the life you actually want to be living? Love them for where they are at and get on with what you are here to do.
Hope you hear something for yourself.
L xo